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Hi, I've been trying to game new women but had to dump two recently and the other 'suddenly got busy' (yeeeeah right) so not as much is happening really. My Bipolar ex hates my guts and claims she hates me more than the kids who bullied her growing up. For the second or third time, she...

Well, I swear that she is a BPD ex since she cannot resolve anything. She came back, lured me in once with sex and it went from a super brief FWB to hanging out as friends, which I threw back in her face. I told her I need to date someone or get FWB as we discussed. I don't want to hangout with...

Hey hey, I met up with my ex on the 18th and we went all of the way. She said that she wanted to be FWB with me but was worried that I would want more. I said I didn't but started to get the old feelings back. I think she did too since she started to text me for the next 24 hours like we used...

This is a new situation for me. Ex started talking to me and she kept asking me how my dating was going. I kept saying good and eventually found out last night that she wanted a 'friends with benefits' situation with me. So we had sex and it was wild and passionate. Probably the best sex...

Yes. From the way that she was able to "forget me" and the 4 year relationship in two weeks and have no more feelings, I suspect she was co-morbid with Borderline Disorder too. Co-morbidity is common in Cluster B's.

I was with one for just over 4 years. I really wanted to make it work and I went from being a cool dude to a guy that was doing stuff that was totally wrong. I remember thinking that she was waaay out of my league but never said it. She was definitely cute when I first met her and had a great...

I'm 30, turning 31 soon. Just not into the bar/club scene and I guess that is what I hated the most about being single when I was younger. Got dumped by my Bipolar II ex-gf mid-December. We were together for just over four years but she did all sorts of red flags. After she dumped me, she...

(flaking) Yeah. That's what I figured. This was over Facebook. I know a lot of people like being single but as I get older, the more I would like some company outside of my friends and events...

It feels weird to be back on the single front. Context: This girl and I have been talking about hanging out for the last few weeks but she was busy getting ready on a project but told me she would be free after this past weekend. me: Are you down for some gaming soon? (snipped about...

This is what happened to me in late November-December: - worked a lot of 8 - 10 hour days in the last two months - everything might have been more peaceful then - Definite Sign #1: she told me that I could not have her pw to Facebook anymore. I just figured since she was bipolar that she...

I got my bipolar ex a ring but then her interest seemed to gradually disappear. Would that be anti-challenge?

So apparently my bipolar ex is online most nights hours into the next day chatting up people to be friends of hers. I only know this because I am also on there and am finding it harder to get out there and meet people. PoF is good practice after recently becoming single. On her profile she...

My bipolar ex accused me of making our relationship toxic yet I seem to recall being 100% honest and catching her in many small and major lies. Some women are so messed up that they cannot even admit (or see) that every relationship they go into seems to fail and that it is not the new...

Anyone here from Ottawa? I know that there used to be many guys but much of the scene disappeared.

As I said, I realized that I had fallen hard. *****ing at me will just get you ignored poster #1! What happened was I was too busy to make time for myself. In the past, I would work on myself and my confidence but ever since I lost my job that seemed to be going well in September, I busted my...

Sadly, I stopped listening and was setting myself up for a massive burn. I took her back, thinking everything was going to be smooth now that she had learned a lesson and admitted as much many, many times! She was super nice for the first month or two. Lots of sex and BJs around mid-July or...

I am trying to move on. I just feel crappy still and I guess my confidence at 30 took a hit. I have no problems approaching women on the street but if I went into a club environment and sometimes a bar environment, that is not where my strengths lie. When I got into this past relationship, I...

Thanks for the support guys. I haven't been in a 3+ year LTR before so it hit me harder initially than my last relationship of 8 months. I knew my ex had serious problems but she always found an uncanny way to complicate her life and ruin her life to the 9th degree further still. Her life became...

I did not wish her a happy birthday. It probably upset her a lot and brought the situation home to her! I'm finding it hard to move on. My friend contacted her and my ex-fiance's reply was something like, 'fu for the thoughts in my head' and her telling me to 'grow up' (and move on). She's...

Thanks guys. I thought this one was in the books, a done deal. I was doing well for the first year and a half and then she started being uber aggressive, hiding things, etc. Stuff a decent girl would not do. Does she respect anyone? Not for very long. She's 14K in the hole, unemployed...