Interested or Polite Rejection?

guitaronfire411

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It feels weird to be back on the single front.

Context: This girl and I have been talking about hanging out for the last few weeks but she was busy getting ready on a project but told me she would be free after this past weekend.

me: Are you down for some gaming soon? (snipped about gaming)
girl: Oh course! Old school video games always get my attention ;(
girl: Err not ;(
me: I was wondering lol
me: What is your availability like?
girl: I'm usually free evenings and weekends. Sometimes I work days on the weekend but am always done by 3 or 4

me: Lucky. Ha. I'm on my way to work right now but would prefer to be tinkering on projects right now!

me: Sure. I'm busy tomorrow but mid-week I am free. Tuesday evening or Wednesday I could do.

girl: Cool. I'm pretty sure I can do Wednesday. I'll know for sure tonight what my work schedule is like for the week (both RL and troupe life) so will confirm once I know. :)

me: Perfect.

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Have not heard back from her just yet. I know that she is a very busy person so I am going to see if she replies back before Wednesday before talking to her again.
 

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Interested.

You responded last so I would leave it up to her to get back to you.
 

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guitaronfire411 said:
It feels weird to be back on the single front.

Context: This girl and I have been talking about hanging out for the last few weeks but she was busy getting ready on a project but told me she would be free after this past weekend.

me: Are you down for some gaming soon? (snipped about gaming)
girl: Oh course! Old school video games always get my attention ;(
girl: Err not ;(
me: I was wondering lol
me: What is your availability like?
girl: I'm usually free evenings and weekends. Sometimes I work days on the weekend but am always done by 3 or 4

me: Lucky. Ha. I'm on my way to work right now but would prefer to be tinkering on projects right now!

me: Sure. I'm busy tomorrow but mid-week I am free. Tuesday evening or Wednesday I could do.

girl: Cool. I'm pretty sure I can do Wednesday. I'll know for sure tonight what my work schedule is like for the week (both RL and troupe life) so will confirm once I know. :)

me: Perfect.

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Have not heard back from her just yet. I know that she is a very busy person so I am going to see if she replies back before Wednesday before talking to her again.
how did this convo take place? phone? f2f? or text? I suspect text.
anyway she is set up to flake, she has already given herself an out.

it really went wrong here..."me: What is your availability like?"
you should have set a date, time, venue, if she was interested she would give you a more definate or positive reponse. her current lack of response shows low interest level
 

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(flaking) Yeah. That's what I figured.

This was over Facebook. I know a lot of people like being single but as I get older, the more I would like some company outside of my friends and events...
 

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older? how old are you? setting up dates over fb isnt the most effective method but it works sometimes...did for me and I dont have many friends on there ;-)
 

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I'm 30, turning 31 soon. Just not into the bar/club scene and I guess that is what I hated the most about being single when I was younger.

Got dumped by my Bipolar II ex-gf mid-December. We were together for just over four years but she did all sorts of red flags. After she dumped me, she told me that she had cheated with a guy and that it was all my fault.

My mind has been pretty messed up ever since. I am surprised that I am productive at all. It has improved so I can function a little but I am still floating along, forcing myself to work and to message girls and workout.
 
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