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    Ex is confused?

    So I suspected it was a front but know I'm confident about it. My ex-fiance dumped me on the 14th of May out of nowhere, claiming that she no longer had feelings for me. I tried to sort things out because she has horrible communication. She then blocked me off of everything and claimed that...
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    Guy 'friend' leaving stuff long term

    iv) She told me he was coming over to drop off his computer before it happened. Afterwards, she said that it was alright for me to be there when he comes over /that night/ and /in the future/ once the computer is finally finished. So how can I get rid of that item from the apartment? I know...
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    Guy 'friend' leaving stuff long term

    I forgot to mention my fiance is bipolar but on medication. She said the other day that she didn't want a serious relationship and wanted her freedom and then we screwed last night after our visitors left her apartment. Go figure.
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    Guy 'friend' leaving stuff long term

    My ex really ****ed up my sense of trust in other people -- plus some other events when it came to running an online organization. The fiance and I are planning on going to a free marriage consultation so we are taking active action. :)
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    Guy 'friend' leaving stuff long term

    She keeps pushing the boundaries when, assuming she has been in as many relationships as she indicates, she should be familiar with. Am I to blame for her silly mistakes? No way. She claims she doesn't like me stepping in /all of the time/ but it's only when it is an action that could seriously...
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    Guy 'friend' leaving stuff long term

    You guys aren't getting this. She didn't want me over *that particular night* and actively discouraged me from showing. She never mentioned to the guy that I was going to be there even after I showed up. Not good. That means she doesn't want to scare him away. She told the guy that she was...
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    Guy 'friend' leaving stuff long term

    It's still his **** being there when my **** is there. Guys are territorial and I don't want that computer there. Anyone else see this?
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    Guy 'friend' leaving stuff long term

    Hey there. This guy approached my fiance asking for help fixing his computer over a week ago. She spent considerable hours fixing it in 3-4 days. She offered to upgrade it further since it's out of date. He said he cannot afford it right away but in the next week. Now he says that he apparently...
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    Girlfriend staying over at a guy's place

    Nonono. I am not sure why people are thinking of that since she never wanted to live with him. The guy offered to have her live with him but mentioned that I would not like it. I once asked her if she would ever take him up but she said that he was weird and a 'desperate and lonely old guy' ...
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    Sex but no serious touching?

    So my girl and I have been together for over 3 years. We have had our rough patches but the last 2-3 weeks she was getting very angry and we broke up twice. I was being kind of harsh and she is quite sensitive so she quickly dropped the ball. She wanted to go back to being in a regular...
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    Girlfriend staying over at a guy's place

    Hot damn. Surprised this thread still exists! The guy in question was one of her first friends and a coworker at her old job when she originally moved here. Some people wanted to know what happened so I'll write this. The girl said that it was a huge mistake and she only stayed over that one...
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    Girlfriend staying over at a guy's place

    My bad. She knew I disliked the idea of her staying at this older man's place so she then staying with a family and didn't stay at this other guy's place. Although I have just posted the latest issue which is related to this thread. (I don't post often here but lurk the forums sometimes.)
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    Girlfriend, Sex, and Her Grasping for Power

    Hey all. Been a helluva long time. Been through ups and downs. The first year or so of our LTR relationship was awesome. We went places, she gave me regular sex, the usual pretty much. Even started getting regular blow-jobs. Up until August 2011 of last year, where she was complaining more. I...
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    Psycho Internet lady

    I have this one crazy lady saying some b.s. on another forum about me. No one I care about goes there but she's trying to give me a bad rep. In short, her son was a major a-hole, I called the shots as they were, now she's trying to badmouth me. Would it be best to just ignore her and let her...
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    Girlfriend flaked

    I told my girl to phone me over text last night and she came up with an excuse (needed to go to the bathroom), she counter-offered to phone me back later once she gets home. I keep myself busy for 30 minutes and no phone call. Yes, this is a bad position to be in. Then I see her on Facebook...
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    My girl is over-reacting?

    OK, so in the past I have told my girl straight up if I'm not happy with her behaviour and she almost always apologizes straight away or within an hour or two. The other day we were moving into her new place. I had a massive headache so I'm relaxing on her bed while she's making the place...
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    Girlfriend staying over at a guy's place

    Thanks guys for the fast replies. - This guy wants to meet me. Apparently she has known him for at least a year and considers him 'like a younger brother'. - She claims that his hours are erratic and he won't be there most of the time -- if this is true, why can I not stay over or (presumably)...
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    Girlfriend staying over at a guy's place

    My girlfriend is moving out at the end of this month because she found a better place and her room-mate is driving her crazy. Case in point: The room-mate lives in the adjacent room with her mother and acts as if she's the landlord, saying that my gf stays up too late (beyond 10PM) and plays...
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    Group Dates - wth?

    I have. No response yet. I sent a message letting her know that the movie G.T. was cancelled for Sunday but we could get together and go indoor rock climbing instead. I sent that a day or two ago and no response. I'm talking to other girls and my vibe is usually right.
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    Group Dates - wth?

    She bused from about 1 hour 1/2 away and phoned at the last minute (7PM) for a 7:30PM show at the movie theatre last night. She never brought up the fact that I discussed going indoor rock climbing the last time we met and I didn't bother to bring it up myself. Before the movie, she left...
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