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    Got Friendzoned/lost interest after a few dates - what next?

    Wow you are ****ing delusional. You have feelings and are volunteering to be a punching bag. You think you can play games and get the upper hand but you have no shot, she's indifferent and rejected you and basically offered to shovel more **** on you and you happily accepted. And you still...
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    Did I blow it by being too aloof?

    Yeah I agree completely with the happy medium. I've been naturally aloof about most girls all my life, the ones I really liked I'd **** up and be too beta but the others I'd usually have all over me, then they'd see I'm not interested in a LTR and they'd go cold, then I'd get a bit desperate...
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    what does this mean?

    Yeah asking for her schedule is just not a good idea after she basically said she was watching with someone else. It comes off as she's ****ing someone else that night hint, hint but doesn't want to come out and shoot you down. If you had a chance to maker her a **** buddy asking her schedule...
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    Still a bit awkward with GF of 3 months, should I bring this up?

    Talk about what you like, and as long as you aren't always talkinga bout current affairs and serious **** and killing the fun you should be fine, that shows high value if its in doses. Read up on conversation skills and find ways to practice, but do it for yourself and don't force it that will...
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    Did I blow it by being too aloof?

    I doubt it. She either isn't that into you/is telling the truth or is trying to play it cool. You probably should have escalated more when you were at the house, to be honest if you pair that with being aloof she could think its a rejection. I've made similar types of mistakes in the past...
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    How to take it slow.

    Its weird all my life I've been 2 people. In regular interactions or with girls I knew or were in the same social circles I was the nice guy, when I'd go on road trips out of town even at 17 I was a complete natural. I'd pull more girls then any guys I knew, I was pulling 19 year old hot girls...
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    Pretty accurate personallity test to help understand yourself.

    Its pretty damn accurate.
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    you know how flaking puts guys on edge

    The last 2 times girls flaked on me I banged other plates that night. I nexted both of them and hadn't had sex with either of them but I wanted to go out so I set up a date with someone else, now switch to women who will almost always have a bunch of options and you get the picture. If you're...
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    Never be like THAT guy

    Yup almost posted the same thing, no shame does well, chasing and caring is the death sentence.
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    Is college worth it?

    Just don't blow huge amounts of money on tuition and it most definetely is. You never want to be desperate or without options in anything, going to college helps develop yourself in ways that are extremely valuable, but being a slave to student debt after graduation can severely limit your...
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    Too needy when i really like the girl.

    This is basically me in a nutshell. I've never had a problem attracting girls for the most part, I was always a bit shy but had no problem being C&F naturally with girls I wasn't super into or felt were below me. I'm really picky with girls that I want to date or get into serious relationships...
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    How to build social circle from scratch

    He's talking about a social circle and friends, didn't even mention getting women. Having a lot of relationships makes you more independent of each, which is a good thing it has nothing to do with changing yourself to please others having meaningful relationships of any kind is of great value...
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    Being second choice

    I doubt she's not ****ing him too. She just doesn't want to come off like a slut, and wants to make it clear to you that she's not seeking a relationship with you. So her motives are clear, she wants to **** you but doesn't want more, forget about the other guy and if you want sex keep doing...
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    I have no clue where to begin with Inner Game.

    Something like that won't come over night. You have to detach from caring about results and become unflappable. You have to have confidence in yourself, and it has to be real. I go from having lots of inner game to questioning myself or feeling unconfident in lots of areas, its an on going...
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    Why does chasing women sometimes pay off?

    The genetic game was necessary when it was difficult to survive in an environment and competition lead to providing necesseties to survive (food, shelter, a pack). For evolution all that matters is passing on your DNA, but as humans who have evolved to the most intelligent and complex species...
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    What's the #1 Mistake You've Found Yourself Making When You First Start Dating a Girl

    Froze up with girls I was really into and had the complete worst text game and was needy. Complimented and was way too nice, funny thing is with girls I didn't see as long term material or who chased me I was the opposite, kept things simple and had lots of sex with pretty hot girls, but not...
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    Becoming Alpha for women is ultimate Beta

    Half the characters on here are fictional bru.
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    Becoming Alpha for women is ultimate Beta

    I agree with your overall concept but Scarface is a bad example. Scarface was motivated by women and he was completely terrible with women, he was an alpha outside of women but women were his complete and utter downfall. He pedastalized women, his sister and his wife who was completely cold...
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    Should I ignore this?

    Sounds like you made it to easy for her and you weren't a challenge anymore. You have to show some self respect and let her know that's not the case. I don't know if going no contact is the answer but you should definitely do you and stop being available and make your attention scarce. Her...
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    how to change?

    The first step is to realize that you are capable of change and that yourmindset and frame of mind is a product of what you make it, you put limitations and frame your outlook, no one else. Once you can really understand and believe that it will make changing much easier, then just learn and...
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