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Its not advisable but its possible. I think the best scenario is if you are friends in a group or on a team or something together. You can be friends but keep somewhat distant and have fun and don't pay them much attention. If you are happy, engaging and socializing and showing value amongst...

You need to realize you have a problem and gambling is going to bring you nothing but more trouble. I've seen it lots of times, and from the other side, people are calling you for games because you are a fish, they will be friendly etc to keep you in the game. Just cut it off and build...

I think you should live by your own personal values, but if your own personal values are extremely anti social and lack any compromise then you will most likely not live the best life possible. The key point as I see it is that being an alpha in the strictest evolutionary sense is not needed...

I think a lot of the interactions in relationships come down to a pack mentality. We are social animals and evolved due to and as a species that relies on our pack to pass on our DNA or protect ourselves, get food etc. Dogs are a good example of this behavior and the alpha/beta analogy fits...

You have no chance, but chance to do what? This can never go well for you. If she remembers you (which seems most likely) you are now in the category of a stalker. If she doesn't remember you then even with the terrible texts you sent then you weren't interesting enough to leave an impression.

I do this to, but at least 50% of the time the girl will grill me on the specifics of the plans, not necessarily in an overtly jealous way but obviously they are looking for clues. Anybody have pointers on how best to handle if they keep questioning? Like I don't want to get standoffish, and I...

Our mothers advice on dating usually sounds logical but is almost always counter productive, and her advice is bad but not necessarily for the reasons you 'd think. She's judging who you are now and what you've shown in your life thus far (not sure but guessing you are pretty young), which is a...

She probably has a separate facebook just for tinder.

I think its probably more or less dangerous depending on your frame. If you are still vulnerable to old insecurities or don't feel internally confident enough it will be difficult when they test you or remind you of past issues. The main issue in these interactions is ourselves, not them...

Jesus the only thing depressing about the holidays is this post.

I think individual style is probably pretty important as well especially when you are talking about major cities with lots of competition. Also the amount of money you make is a dynamic variable since its all about competition and cost of living, if you live in Monaco 100k ain't ****.

I have to agree with a lt of this post. Over the years I have seen so many guys with no real internal confidence do really well with tons of girls because they had gone to great lengths to hide that fact and portray confidence. Its often very easy to spot but many women just completely miss...

This goes on with both sexes, when we don't feel worthy we clam up and get nervous. Poon's post goes for men as well, I've experienced the same feelings in the past when I was self doubting and with a girl I subconsciously thought I wasn't worthy of. She'd be attracted, I'd get a date or...

Many people self medicate with drugs to deal with anxiety issues, some can be very dangerous but in moderation cannabis and alcohol can be decent gear greasers for social anxiety. Overall though you have to work on overcoming that fear and work on not caring about what others think, its easy to...