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Yeah you definitely don't have oneitis. I think that is a very clear IOI and you should go full steam ahead.

LOOOL. Dude you're hopeless, your inaction kills any chance you have. She's pissed because you are ****ing lame and she was hoping you'd be a man.

In all honesty though Pyro's look at the **** you posted. Why are you making a thread to post about some terrible flake an hour before a date? You're butt hurt dude, why did you text yeah right, bye? You should have just deleted or responded without coming off butthurt, you are feeding her...

Slut shaming. Just don't.

There is nothing good that can come from sharing that you are on this board with a girl.

Break up. Sure you can withdraw but good chance she won't gaf because she's either cheating, about to cheat or is about to break up with you. Either way there is a strong chance she's already checked out of the relationship, so you should too by ending it.

I'd imagine Its a lot easier to get a harem going if you don't apply any judgement, jealousy etc and you get across that you are looking to spread the love and have experiences as opposed to bull****ting girls in the same social circle. That way you are basically setting it up for competition...

Its basically used for instant validation by girls. Have no expectations and you'll do fine, think that you are going to meet a girlfriend or get a ****load of dates is setting you up for disaster, its a way to kill boredom maybe get a few dates and if you do you'll probably get laid.

You need to take the whole situation into consideration. If there is no IOI and no urgency to reschedule then yeah next them, but someone flaking is not by itself enough of a reason to completely delete and move on. You need to consider other factors and if your are spinning plates, not giving...

When a girl flakes don't give her priority, a girl flaked on me tonite saying her coworker got sick and she had to cover for her and offered to reschedule for next week. The goal is not to protect your fragile ego and sense of self worth at any small sign of rejection but to be disconnected...

Have you laid it out to her? Just confront her passive aggressive behavior head on. Something along the lines of "look I'm busy, I can't always text back immediately and I can't always provide you with instant validation". Don't show her you are getting butt hurt but she's reacting because...

You're not a piece of ****, that's a good thing. You can't fix anyone for them especially someone with issues as big as this one, you learn and move on and be happy that you dodged a massive, massive bullet. Coming from someone who tried to be captain save a ho a few times, you have to learn...

If you really wanted to bang her you have to avoid talking about it and just set up drinks after work one day and then just escalate and have a place to take her. Not saying you should,but its probably better that way to avoid all the build up of guilt etc and avoid her trying to manipulate you.

She's selling he's buying, respect has nothing to do with it. He doesn't respect her and she doesn't respect him, hard to respect someone who is so obviously insecure.

Loyalty really only matters to a girl when she thinks she doesn't have better options, then she wants to lock her partner up. They will get clingy and desperate and use pity etc to try and have a guy latch onto her when she thinks she needs him, when she thinks she has better options she'll...

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Yeaaaaah that's a lack of sense right there. God won't hurt you, not wearing a condom might though.

Had this happen once and worked in a threesome. We had sex once before but she flaked on me the previous date we set up and then on this day said her friend was going through some stuff blah blah and didn't want to leave her but if I wanted to drive out (an hour) to hang with both of them. I...

**** tests are often subconcious. Women have to see if you are a psycho, stalker, beta etc. If they think you are much higher value and are certain they want you and are in pursuit mode I'd think they'd **** test you less. If you are also completely out of the running some women will ****...

Agreed. I think there is also a trait that leads to this type of behavior that is shared with someone who is self made and has risen from adversity and shown resilience. I know for myself and many others I'm sure, I had a difficult childhood and didn't come from a great home or from money...