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Well. I will be in Nantucket without the girl this wknd. It's actually tough for me but good to be around friends and talk to some new chicks. Been out of the game for a bit...

Jurry It's a double edged sword. Active engaged minds are prone to overthinking and depression. I used to love my brain. Now it's like antibodies attacking my own immune system. And a woman can be a vicious trigger.

Monkey king. Good luck w the alcohol reduction. I've found that my drinking became bad in the frog/boiling water way. Starts off as a nice warm bath... Keeping that under control for me is vital. Most days after I drink are wasted in nasty self loathing and worry. Days after no...

Good times have to be created I like that. and i can relate to your weakness. Same here. The catch 22 of my game improvement has been that my extreme indifference attracted hot women - and this one chased me, and continues to, every time i back off. My backing off is full of anxiety...

i know, it is all about me. this site, booze, her, all ways for me to avoid the hard work of being happy with myself. The saving grace is that i already have gone from the pit (divorce/ex cheated-devestating to leave kids) to reinventing myself and truly being content. for a while. I am...

i know - reading my own posts makes me cringe. I'd rather be the one giving advice than getting it. The me of a few years ago would have laughed and told me to go surfing, or hang out with my kids. Stop using my brain would be nice - unfortunately easier said than done.

OK, this is going to ruin my reputation i'm sure, but would love to hear some stories and advice on the title topic I have had pretty good success over the last 8 years of being single - post divorce after a 17 year relationship Father of three great boys, 47, in great shape, lots of friends...

Morning. How's your hot pocket?

Great attitude - love the honesty. I love this site but you have to read through the bulletproof confidence of all the alphas and understand that everyone has demons and flaws And nice job getting off the drugs - looks like you have some wisdom now. I've avoided drugs but have drank WAY too...

thanks Jurry. Not sure if you're kidding about the drugs etc. Does make me feel better about myself :) I do think I obsess too much and the drug analogy is a great one. Honestly, she is like a drug. Not sure if this is 100% bad, but for now, just trying to manage the addiction...

update - more journaling unless someone wants to chime in. got together last night - again, she made the date, she drove up and we had a great time as usual. She brought some things up - trust and boundary stuff, all on her end (see prior posts), I stood my ground and was a bit standoffish...

update - more journaling unless someone wants to chime in. got together last night - again, she made the date, she drove up and we had a great time as usual. She brought some things up - trust and boundary stuff, all on her end (see prior posts), I stood my ground and was a bit standoffish...

meeting up first time in about 10 days - she's been hot and cold, texting when drunk, slightly flakey and unavailable when not. I've stayed cool and away - flirty texts only when she reaches out... (10 months of a 1X a week relationship - not perfect, but i'm f-ing too attached!! See other...

mr wright very astute for a 21 yo. The disease is an addiction/fever sort of thing. We all know it or hopefully we do. its something that we all want - to a point. this is not unrequited love - she is confused too, and addicted to something. I'm fine with being attached to...

Honestly I think the reason I'm with her still is that we have a blast together and I have her number in the rack. Tough for both of us to leave that

Looks like I duped the comment Yeah. Do I know for sure I'm the only one on it ? No. I think I know her well enough that she hasn't f-d anyone else but may soon. And she played smash mouth with a "friend" recently I'm pretty sure. So this is the dilemma. She thinks she's 25. Isn't...

Point, counterpoint! Awesome. Two completely different answers. And I've gone back and forth between them in my head Oneitis is fairly new. I went from being devoted to a wife that cheated on me to a scared inexperienced dad to a guy that was banging girls 20 yrs younger on a...

Point, counterpoint! Awesome. Two completely different answers. And I've gone back and forth between them in my head Oneitis is fairly new. I went from being devoted to a wife that cheated on me to a scared inexperienced dad to a guy that was banging girls 20 yrs younger on a...

this website should win a nobel prize by the way. You guys are doing the Lord's work :)

i know - i went 8 years going from one girl to the next, with one crazy similar relationship (1 year) in between. and now this. I honestly can't even think about dating other girls, and i've got some that i could line up i think pretty quickly. And @Espi - i really don't know what i want...