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Yeah - i loved getting called out as AFC by a 16yo... But i will admit many, many beta mistakes after starting out very strong. What is between AFC and DJ? There must be an acronym somewhere... But thanks for the comment - honestly i'd give myself a strong B+ on the whole thing. She has...

Be more specific with your question - at what stage? Early on/pre dating/1st date? further down the line after a few months?

thanks Rival - the main thng for me is that I'm 47. I look 10 years younger so there's that, and still have the attitude of a 25 year old some days, but I realize that i"m at an intersting point. Most of the women my age or a bit younger look terrible. This chick was 44 but looked amazing...

thank Mauser you're 100 pct right. I'm just cycling thru. I took this very personally. But i'll be a better man for it

True. Sad to say but true. She even said to me - "you don't get angry, do you?" Not proud of that. Early on I am super confident, even keeled, cool. But also a conflict avoider. Which gets in the way of standing up for myself. In the end I kept my dignity - but never let her know...

thanks Redman. Seriously tho - i've got some major 70s ballfro thing sprouting. Thats what happens when you know you're the only one checking under the hood... Time to trim the hedges... And way to go on the new regimen!. Make sure you get some advice on all that - if you are slim you can...

She contacted me sunday nite - cutesy pic and a text "hi". Lonely on Sunday night when f*cktard isn't around i'm sure. was goingt to text her back. Think i'll clean my place and shave my ballz instead

Yeah - this one was tough. S*x was off the charts and she actually was into me, just not enough.. She started to fade month 5 best i can tell, and i definitely let things slide. I've posted on this before - this was a classic case of my backing off on boundaries and her taking full...

Anyways i'm sure you are speaking from experience. Let me know how the prom goes Alphateen

Disclaimer, I know the post below is not very alpha, but looking for some honest feeback... This site needs some beta/emotional reality from time to time. The real world for most guys... --- Well, 6 weeks since breakup - she texted weekly at first, i would respond with short msgs but...

dude - i am somewhat in your shoes right now and it sucks. Every time you ignore her your power will grow. It will be tempting but delete all texts and chive on...

thanks PPRF I'll check this stuff out. I am amazed and a bit embarased at how much the info on this site matches up to the real world, and how clueless i have been What is interesting is that my history - coming back from the divorce, embracing game, and actually banging chix over the...

yeah - that never works out its funny, haven't texted her back, and still thinking of her, but her reaching out did give me a different outlook and a bit of peace.. Starting to really understand that this is just how adult relationships work. The ALL fail for one reason or another, except...

As they say in Breaking Bad.. "Church".... (truth) :) I know. This is the perfect storm, great p***y, great connection, wandering AW and beta traits. I'm smart enough to know this is the way this stuff goes, but not strong enough to just write it off. Why do I want closure? That's...

The answer you've gotten over and over is true - at 30 you can bang 18 year olds all day if you know where to put your effort. And you can bang hot 50 year olds too. The world is your oyster my friend. Was only with one woman until age 38. Then divorced. I'm nothing special but I've...

thanks MOTU. I was on my way to finding peace. This weekend was really one of the first in a long time where I was able to hang out and not be depressed. I don't know the answer. I know that she is probably lonely and misses me, and i miss her but really want her to understand how...

i'm leaning this way. My guess is that she will reach out again every few weeks and I'll probably bump into her as well (we live an hour apart but spend time in the same weekend spots). And I also think she is just looking for validation and forgiveness from me... I don't know the right...

ok - one last post here and back to work. There has not been one night in the last 6 weeks that I haven't thought about her getting together with this other guy. Not one. I am getting better, but the fact is I was gutted. I never told her that I knew she lied, only that i didn't...

I'd like to think so. If my end result is someone who thinks its ok to lie to me, i guess I need to check my head. I am more caught up in the physical/superficial aspects of all this I think. Not proud of it but i can't deny it. (could be under the "date down" thread here). This girl...

Originally Posted by zorg198 How you keep the NC , its so hard for me. i made it through the one day but today i feel like i want to drive at her home and see her. Spin plates. Throw yourself into your hobbies/work and keep busy. Go on adventures if you have money. That's what got me...