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No problem - it is interesting to look back and try to condense it all. So many posts here are about theory. And its scary to see closely this relationship lined up with theory... This is a Harvard Business School case study in boundaries debate by the way... That is a different thread maybe.

thanks, MOTU you are right, she had a history of white lies with me, and its sort of woven into her character. That, along with the AW tendencies and her looks is a very dangerous combo. I remind myself that a lifetime of that behavior is in store for anyone who marries her... BTW, she...

3 weeks NC. 6 since I broke up with her for lying and starting to stray/cheat. VERY strong circumstantial evidence on the cheating. 100% certain on the lies. It has been very hard. I didn't know whether to post about NC/closure, dating out of my league, oneitis, boundaries, AW/mild...

Lots of great replies to a great/difficult subject. This may be at the core of all of the threads on this site - the way we handle ourselves when confronted with the truth about women.. Anyway, not much for me to add that hasn't already been said, except my feeling that you should change your...

No contact starts today. Can't handle casual banging w her Too connected Also getting off this site. Scrambling my password. It's been great but I obsess too much. Thanks for your advice guys ESP Jurry. Wish me luck

Good advice Jurry. Just need to move on Struggling with next step. Go ghost? Talk to her? I know she will keep reaching out. I guess some closure would be nice. Salvaging some self respect too. And I so have to deal with other issues. Just so focused on her. Every time I...

she's "confused" but my guess is that she wants me to break it off so she can move on She is texting and possibly starting to hook up with another guy, and lying to me about it. I snooped on her phone. not good but i have trust issues i guess. at least i know that there is a reason she's...

Well, update. I think the answer to my question is no, at least in my current situation. The dynamic is too set in stone. My beta instincts kick in when i'm around her, she responds with her feminine charms and i'm done. We had a great night together, but i know she is lying to me...

Well, responding to my own question, i realize that it is probably impossible to be "alpha" in the eyes of a girl that sees you as nice at your core. But... it is never too late to display strength, push back, tease and detach, which i do find myself doing it is healthy, much better...

aw - Attention w**** i'm learning, or relearning, that all attractive women are AW's to a degree. this one is older though, 44 looks 34, and very concerned about her looks and ability to attract guys. Its a bit annoying. but thanks

OK, specifics can be found on my other posts, in general, dated 10 months, all the right moves early, slid into AFC along the way. We have been lukewarm over the last month, still getting together once a week, she's been reaching out consistently (55% IL?) I've cut back my enthusiasm 90%...

Use punctuation, chicks love that.

by not caring if you are exclusive first of all

Umm No. its a program put out by the PUA site Authentic Man. Apparently it helps you reset your masculinity and flush out any neediness. Just curious about it.

bump 90 days -no women. at all. Not sure you are even supposed to talk to them. and no dating advice websites either. So maybe that's why no response :)

Anyone know about the no woman diet thing? Curious

Apparently the worst matches statistically are college educated women and high school educated men. I do know a guy that is a carpenter - and not very motivated but a great guy - married to an exec. He's a good looking guy and she is sort of overweight and not very exciting. He's a trophy...

Of course - that is the point of this site and all the dating advice out there. But trust me - a truly confident short guy gets attention because it is sort of rare. ALL of the tall women i've dated - 5-7 to 5-9 were fascinated by my attitude that i just didn't care about my height. And...

Of course - that is the point of this site and all the dating advice out there. But trust me - a truly confident short guy gets attention because it is sort of rare. ALL of the tall women i've dated - 5-7 to 5-9 were fascinated by my attitude that i just didn't care about my height. And...

Boy -glad this thread was posted. This is my sort of subject. I'm (almost) 5'7" - and have dated many women taller than me. I'm in great shape, good looking, have a great job and over the years (since a divorce at 38) have developed confidence and attitude that women respond to. I've...