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I mean, calling a girl two days after a great date, not leaving a message, and then texting the next day "Hey, I'd like to take you out. You free Tuesday?" is needy? Sheesh. And yes, she is reserved. I don't think she's a man-hater (red flag), but she's also not a wide-eyed, 18-year old boy...

Nope. She said "no" and I wasn't going to change her mind that night. Anything more aggressive could've f**ked things up royally for me. What's the likelihood I was too sexual, which she interpreted as "He's only interested in sex."? Mind you, we did only meet for drinks, and I only met her...

First date. Met a girl for drinks on a Wednesday. Had a great time. Conversation was strong. Chemistry was great. Invited her back to my place. She was open and receptive. We went through 1st and 2nd bases, but she didn't want to go any further, so I backed off. At no point was she a cold fish...

Quit beating yourself up. You don't know what you don't know. 90% of guys will make/have made the same mistake, including whomever she dumped you for. Chances are he's a Beta orbiter who's going to pedestalize her, or an Alpha **** who's going to break her heart and teach her a lesson. Be...

Said it before, I'll say it again: DON'T GET HER BACK, GET YOURSELF BACK! You're a dog chasing cars - even if you do get her back, you're going to find you don't even want her because she's untrustworthy. Maybe you'll get to bang her in the near future, but until she grows up big time, take...

Day 50. 3.5 months post BU. Went to yoga for the first time last night and one of the exercises, appropriately, was letting go. Breathing it in and then letting it all go... I realize now I didn't really love her and wouldn't want her back if she returned. I didn't want that relationship, but...

@Adz Here's how you should look at it - the answer to every question in your head right now is "Who the f**k knows?" Hell, I bet she doesn't even know. She may think about you every second of every day...but is she acting on it? No? Then neither should you. If you were good to her and she still...

Forgiveness is not for the other person, it's for you. Forgiveness removes the poison of anger from your heart. Forgiveness sets YOU free.

Y'know how you post something, and then realize 30 minutes later "Wow, that's a dumb idea"? That was this. Better to post it here than send a message. Still want that f***ing jacket though.

Now that football season has started, I realized this weekend my ex still has a Green Bay jacket of mine. Breakup was in May. NC since late July. Should I ask her to mail the jacket back? It's from GB, and there's a funny story attached to it, so I'd kinda' like it back.

Don't contact her. It'll just set you back. If you still want to contact her after 5 weeks, then NC didn't work, and the only thing that'll fix it is more NC. You can't play tennis by yourself. You knocked the ball over to her side. If she doesn't want to return it, f**k her. She's missing out...

I'd add it's about recognizing that women's motivations in romance/sex/relationships are not the same as men's, which shouldn't be that radical of an idea.

The Red Pill isn't inherently misogynistic, but it attracts a lot of them, which is why it's such a target to Fem Nazis and Misandrists. Nobody is responsible for your life but you. That's intuitive, right? So make yourself your own mental point of origin. When you do that, you become more...

Your years are not wasted because you've decided to improve. Cliche - the past doesn't matter because the past is in the past. My advice - sounds like you're trying to go from 0 to Steve McQueen, and when that doesn't work, you beat yourself up, your self-esteem is destroyed, and you fall back...

40 days No Contact. I know this is a violation of No Contact, but I was on Pinterest (don't judge - it's great for advertising), and saw that she shared one of my pins. An inspirational quote. I went down the rabbit hole and saw that most everything on her "Quotes" board was about self-esteem...

SO MUCH TRUTH. Easy going Jane is good GF material too, until you drop the ball somewhere. And then not only will she fvck her Beta Orbiters, she'll get "FB Official" with them. If only I read this 4 months ago...but then again, if not for the breakup I'd still be (un)blissfully ignorant.

IMO, coffee without escalation into dinner at your place is too big of a jump. I'd advise having drinks near your place, and do the 'ol "Let's go back to my place for a night cap" routine.

Here's the thing about "Spinning Plates" - it's not some super-secret, PUA, manosphere, Dark Triad concept. Your grandpa and dad did it, they just just called it "Dating." You ask women out. Have fun. Create opportunities for sex. When you're ready to settle down, if you're ready to settle...

Love Corey Wayne. A lot of the stuff on Red Pill, SoSauve, etc. can be a little...dark, lets say. Wayne's just like - "Dude, chill out. Have fun." That's vital to remember.

One month NC. Three months post BU. Hardest breakup I've ever had. They say the hardest ranked by recovery time are #1 - The Blind Side/GIGS and #2 -First Love. Welp, this breakup was BOTH (and potentially, though she said it wasn't, #3 Cheating/Branch Swinging). Throw in some minor BPD...