Getting a plate back

Juanto

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I was spinning this plate 3 and a half years ago but in the end I decided to ghost and ended up going into a LTR with another girl. However that is over, and I want to get this plate back into the fold again I invited said plate for a coffee a week ago to which she agreed, it went OK but I didnt escalate (bad move I know).

Have to say, this plate is of a SMV lower than mine, however since I am not spinning any other plates now I feel it can be good for me in order to keep me in the game and more confident for the more attractive women that do come along in the near future.

So, should my next invitation be a dinner at my place, for example? Surely if she agrees that is a good sign? If she doesnt, should I then discard this plate?
 

Tony197

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IMO, coffee without escalation into dinner at your place is too big of a jump. I'd advise having drinks near your place, and do the 'ol "Let's go back to my place for a night cap" routine.
 

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Dinner at your place is a good idea. You could also ask her out for drinks.

What ever you do don't forget to escalate. If she shoots you down just move along. Dosent hurt to give her a try
 

Juanto

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Dinner at your place is a good idea. You could also ask her out for drinks.

What ever you do don't forget to escalate. If she shoots you down just move along. Dosent hurt to give her a try
She accepted the invitation, so lets see how it goes.
 
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