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    Dealing with regret

    Cheers lads, admittedly I'd gotten back from a 3 day bender road trip (to celebrate finishing university) and unfortunately one with a girl I have been interested in for a while and while she was super interested, I let the opportunity slip and did not go for it. Hence fatigue and feeling regret...
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    date one week in advance

    Even better, call her regarding the above aforementioned intentions.
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    Dealing with regret

    I was an AFC and a nerd when I finished high school and completed my first degree. I transferred universities and with my new course, promised myself I'd never be that guy again. Things went pretty well at first. I became a pretty popular figure; well recognized and my social status was sky...
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    When she gets offended by a drunk while out?

    Have had this happen a few times now - where we are all out and if I've pulled a chick and we're having a bit of one on one time and chatting then a random drunk walks past and bumps into her or spills a bit of drinks on her. What do you guys do in such a situation? What I did was tell her we...
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    Send ex gf an apology msg

    I actually don't mind the apology message. As long as you are not looking for anything in return and have moved on with your life. Send it as the final sequalae of the chapter between you two to leave on good terms and NEVER contact her ever again. The reason for this is that ex could one day...
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    Should you bother with a girl you messed up with before?

    When you meet up with her, don't picture the next 10 years you want to spend with this chick. Simply focus on the night with the goal to escalate and push for sex. Make your intentions clear from the start.
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    Whats the point of messaging me now?

    I mentioned a chick a while back who was super hot then went cold because I didn't take my chance. My mate who was good with chicks encouraged me to ask her out. I did, she got back to me then flaked i.e. never replied when we decided to make more concrete plans. So obviously I've moved on...
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    Send a text to a girl turned you down

    These days, I only adhere to a 1 strike policy with a 6 month refresher period. A HB interested in you won't ignore your messages. Trust your gut. Maybe if 6 months down the track you bump back into her and she seems super interested then take a punt then. Too many woman in the word to be caught...
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    Was this a bad career choice?

    I needed to get some experience in my profession. As a general consensus, everyone goes into managing male sports teams as that's the most common scenario. I've gone back to my local club initially more so to get back to hanging with the guys and get back into training (these guys regardless of...
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    Please tell me how dumb I am...

    1) 'she had just came out of a 7 year relationship' - who cares. You're hooking up. She has her skeletons in the closet as do you. Why ruin a good thing to keep pestering someone about it. 2) 'She says she just wants to be friends' - good that you agreed and let it be. Bad because you killed...
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    Maybe race and height actually matter

    Repped - Thanks LT, needed a boost and this quote gave me that tingle down your spine inspiration much like when you see an athlete break the line and go the full run to score a winning point.
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    Maybe race and height actually matter

    I didn't read too in depth into this but to me, I found it insulting as it sounds like a guy who has externalised all his problems. Yes, acknowledge the world is not fair. A rich kid will go to a better school than a poor kid. But their is always one thing that will trump everything else and...
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    Guide me please

    Cheers Desdinova, guess it's back to square one. Sorry to bring shame to SS. It is a painful mistake to make but one I shall heed. I promise I won't make the same mistake again.
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    Guide me please

    I screwed up. Remember that chick from my last post. Well this is an update. With exams coming up our cohort is packed into a little room to practice. Obviously each of us has our own little niche/ social group. Well she came up to me and my friends, made conversation then essentially pulled...
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    Don't know what to do with future because of gf

    All excuses. And what would you do if she breaks up with you down the track and all your plans now go down the drain? I remember reading an article about a boxer who beat an up and comer who decided not to sign a contract with a big boxing corporation and they offered the contract to the loser...
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    Lost great girl due to insecurities

    Some things in life are a painful mistake. The only thing you can do is remember the error in your ways and when you find yourself in such a same situation, be sure to not make the same mistake again.
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    Is it a bad idea to bang a coworker?

    Bang her and she's essentially your work wife. If your work place is tight or gossip gets around (trust me it will), every co-worker will associate you with her so when the new chick who could be a 10 rocks up and has you really interested, guess who's going to get nothing: you.
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    General Question (And Rant)

    You also have to take into account every person's body shape and build is different. What works for one person, may not for another. Espi is right because at the end of the day, the one putting in the hard yards will get the results. How long it will take not to mention the end result will vary...
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    How to not miss opportunities

    I'm a stickler for this; the number of the girl you just chatted up, the word on the street of a promotion, the trip of a life time you turned down. As you can see, I always end up being the one left behind, kicking myself and regretting it all. So how do you guys do it? Pretty sure divine...
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    Rusty: what could/ should I have done better?

    Thanks Logical Lefty. I would not consider myself good looking - more likely on the other end of the spectrum. But I was raised by woman (dad was never around) so what I loss I guess in a masculine role model, I picked up skills on how to talk to and relate to woman. Looking back and cringing...
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