Does anyone have a good response for a flaker that keeps coming back to me wanting to organise dates?
I was thinking of not responding, but she's on my fb and I think that would be immature on my part, she doesn't seem like a bad girl, just a flaker like so many. Don't want to respond all...
I don't know why anyone would put on their profile how they are so nice and are always being friendzoned or how girls are *****es blah.
That would subconsciously raise red flags for girls. I know if I saw a girls profile who was whining about guys, I'd just click next. Girls would also...
What part of friend zoned don't you get? SERIOUSLY?!?!?
The only ***** you'll get from her, is the four-legged variety, when you feed her cat for her, while she takes a holiday with her man.
Stop being her emotional tampon and be a MAN. Find someone who is INTERESTED IN YOU!
Fair enough, clearly it works for people.
Regardless of what the girls think; I personally wouldn't. I just think it looks a bit try hard, and just smacks of insecurity in that you think you need to show your abs to get a response.
I personally wouldn't stick up any topless photos. Having spoken to and dated a fair few girls off dating sites; the general consesus about topless photo pics is those guys are sad and they don't bother with them. Not that you are, and I know you put a cartoon face on, but still.
You have a...
I second being mysterious and not too available. I've made the same mistakes before of being too available and chatting too much. Need to stop being an AFC.
I know it's difficult as you want to chat to your girl all the time and see her a lot. Trust me though, girls will just spit it back in...
**** game, but more bollocks then I had at that age or still have currently. Something I could do more, just grow a pair and go chat with girls. It's a numbers game.
Ha you're good.
She is from a dating website and I've not spoken to her on the phone. Now I'm regretting not calling her before.
I just thought I could be short and sweet by text and organise a date quickly and go from there. It's worked before, but not this time.
Boom the hammer slams :D . What's the worse that could happen though? She cancels on me again. I never talk to her again, simple. Yes her ego might be slightly bigger and I'll be a bit pissed off, but onto the next.
Thanks. Good read. I think I've been pretty spot on with my texting with her tbh or at least I think I have.
However I did leave it till like 20 mins before our arranged date to let her know I'm on my way. She might have assumed it wasn't on and that I was going to cancel on her as we'd...
Which is what I'm thinking. If she truly wasn't interested, she's had more than enough opportunity to let things fizzle out.
Of course this game playing could be for her ego, but she really doesn't seem like that kind of girl. I could be wrong.
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