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Why would you need to be dismissive? Why not just be polite and move on? Why do you feel the need to attempt to assert how little you give a **** on the girl? It seems to me that sort of thing takes more energy than just genuinely not being feeling phased by it and not reacting at all. Saying...

Its exactly answers like 'I don't tolerate bull****' that will often make the girl think they made the right decision to reject you. I am not saying you would outright say that, but body language and tone can often tell the girl that even if you used the words 'ok i'll see you around'. Its...

As the title suggests, I'm here to open up a discussion on whether women are even worth the time we seem to give to them. People come on these forums asking things like 'How do I game this shy girl?' or 'This girl is giving me resistance, what do i do?' I used to be like that, so I can...

no thats beyond creepy haha, just be like "lets hang out 'x' day. come over"

oh well then why are you asking? she obviously wanted you to have her number. Just play it like you would any other girl you will be fine.

You just said you were done grieving then you wrote that essay. mate your not over it and probably wont be for a while. Clear her out of your life, put all of her stuff in a box and put it out of sight, remove her on msn, dont reply to any of her contact. every time you contact her to try and...

im guessing she didn't call. you scared her off. try again, you've already answered your question, if anything it just seemed like you were letting off some steam. if you see her again, play it cool.

Don't bother texting her or calling her, or being her emotional walking stick. Just go round to her house or get her at yours, hang out...and see what happens. You don't need to make anything clear on the phone/in writing you will have your answer once you see her.

I agree with chamber, I don't think being an AFC is at all about being alpha. Many guys are just naturally not alpha, and it comes off horribly when they try. Not being an AFC is more about just not being needy, not being afraid of girls, not being afraid to step up to the plate, but also...

You always come off better to the girl letting the guy get all frustrated and just being calm and collected. Even if its game over with her, you can be sure that when she goes home with him later in the night that she will be very much considering how much of a loser he might be. Plus, you...

If I were you, I would just tell her you are busy when she contacts you for coffee, dont offer any alternative date. And move the F**k on with your life. You don't have to go no contact with her, just dont initiate contact and when she contacts you be short and to the point and dont offer the...

I hate to say this, but odds are you might lose a few more times...more especially with this girl. But you have to come to the realization that its a learning curve, and you are on the right track. Its not just this 'what do i text her this time' that you need to work out, its a bit bigger than...

back off, play a long game, in the future, call her up. she wont forget you if you do it right, might be a bit cold but she just wants to see you persist a tiny bit, but not too much to scare her off as a needy guy. good luck

sorry to burst your bubble. but you need to take all of this with a pinch of salt as it were. You are the REBOUND GUY. Remember that time where you tried to kiss her when she was with her previous boyfriend? well, it wasnt much for her to turn you down. She had the best of both worlds, your...

It seems like you already know your chances are high with this girl stop looking for other people to confirm it for you and just, man up. Ask her out, get her number, whatever, but do something! What's worse, rejection or regret? And you aren't lifelong friends it's not like much is at stake...

See, I realise this, but part of me will always feel the need to try for this girl, and I don't want to sabotage my future with other girls. So i figure one Last go at trying to get her back will get her out of my system. Let's say I lost my v to this girl

Right, so we broke up roughly 3 months ago. I was clingy, needy and showed all afc traits. I'm not here to understand why she broke up with me, those reasons are already very clear. He'll, I don't even blame her for it. However, after the breakup, I made it incredibly easy for her to move on and...

Your in the navy but you don't have enough confidence in yourself to have a girl round to your house? Ok. Well stop acting like her best friend, don't be moody either. When you see her you need to be friendly but distant (don't tell her everything that's happened in your life since you have...

Her: I will mail your stuff back You: mail it back to me then, but be prepared to pay me what it's worth if my stuff mysteriously disappears in the mail. If this is a problem, I'll just drop by unannounced and pick it up. I'm not interested in seeing you, I just want my stuff back. She's a...

You can always find a moment for a kiss, the more you wait around looking for the perfect moment the less likely you are to find it!