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  1. J

    Followed so-suave advice; worked well. Now what?

    you should of kissed her, or at least raised her sexual interest level through kino. You are very much heading for friend zone.
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    how to end an on-and-off relationship with a girl?

    Just stop making her the centre of your attention. Go out and get some hobbies and don't play to her tests. Every time she tests you, dont reply. Texts should only be used for flirting, nothing serious and not to start playing her games with. Calls should only be used to arrange, otherwise you...
  3. J

    Girl said it didnt click

    You could of turned the tables on her, something like 'Yeah I think you are right, you are a very sweet girl and we had some fun but I don't see anything between us. Im glad we could be honest about this now, its unusual to find a girl like that' Now her interest level has just gone up, that...
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    Knowledge, Psychology and Confidence

    Haha thanks man, its just recently iv been wondering, how cool it would be to just know stuff. Not for other people, not to validate myself to others, but for myself. Imagine having the knowledge that other people dont, being able to challenge ideas and then see that challenge through with...
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    Knowledge, Psychology and Confidence

    Something that I started considering today, is why in the hell do I not try and absorb, know and understand every single bit of information in this entire world. Why am I not reading, focusing and contemplating on human behavior and applying it to whatever I am doing. Why do I strive to be...
  6. J

    I need life guidance. My life is ruined.

    You are beating yourself up because of a bad break up, not because of this girl. No one likes bad break ups, you feel like you have lost dignity, a friend, and more importantly the chance of ever getting back with this girl (and that stings a lot to a mans ego, she is a never get back girl). Now...
  7. J

    Girl's bday tonight, kind of put off..

    she will be back...no doubt about that. Of course she will mask it with 'Your such a ****!!! type of texts' but really shes saying 'Please, Just PLEASE pay me some goddamn attention and validate me I am SO INTO YOU' Edit: Im with maindroite, keep us informed haha. I always love these types of...
  8. J

    A Huge AFC Post (I really need help)

    'We dont get sexual obviously because we are just friends'...No. This is plain wrong. You dont get sexual because you can't step up to the plate if these so called 'sexual conversations' actually happen. Jesus christ man up, never tell a girl you 'fancy' them, or you 'like' them or confess...
  9. J

    Need advice on picking up girls at a rave.

    Stop worrying. Go have fun Edit: but seriously, it probably feels like **** if you just got dumped so your wanting to get with anything that moves that you think will be a kick in the face to your ex. Wrong attitude to have, new people works in the short term but you will still end up hung up...
  10. J

    //The Chronicles of BPH\\

    Ok well I can understand your point of view. However, if you read closely not everything I said was regarded as a routine, and was more about general life values and principles. And some of the stuff you seemed to have not addressed as I imagine because of how much I wrote you couldn't be...
  11. J

    How do you deal with a "friend" like this?

    Did I or did i not predict he would send her the conversation haha. God I know guys too well. We are so underhand. Ok look, you want this girl. You need to act to him and her like it doesnt bother you that he texts her, you need to project that hes the creepy loser. Its a tough...
  12. J

    How do you deal with a "friend" like this?

    You could say something to him, if you have to, but I advise against it because he can go and tell her everything you supposedly said and even lie and make you come across horrendously bad to her, like a desperate loser. as you arent even going out. Thats not to say you are, and that you dont...
  13. J

    How do you deal with a "friend" like this?

    You make the girl so pleased to be with you that when she gets those texts she doesnt give a crap. If you arent together, you cant do anything. That guy is disrespecting you, he isnt your friend. Get over him, dont be jealous. You are with this girl not him. Do not crowd this girl to make her...
  14. J

    //The Chronicles of BPH\\

    No idea what TL/DR means and I dont want to bother myself looking it up. I gave you my advice, you can ignore it or you can try it. Either way you have nothing to lose if you change to a gentlemans attitude for a week. Or give what I am saying a go. Its all about trying different things. And...
  15. J

    //The Chronicles of BPH\\

    Yes I presented you with pua material. But I dont use that in a generic manner. I tailor it to me in a natural way. You can be natural, but have some idea of how your game should go. Im just saying dont say things that they say in the movies, or what immature guys would say...like 'cutie'. Its...
  16. J

    //The Chronicles of BPH\\

    If you want to know why most of your approaches are not working. Stop going for numbers after two lines of conversation, its creepy. And stop calling them cute or cuties or talking about their lips or any of this crap. Just be charming and genuine and stop validating them immediately. Its not...
  17. J

    What to say to a girl you dont know at all?

    Just be confident, introduce yourself to her group of friends and in turn introduce yourself to her just as you would if you joined a new school or when you were very small. We all dont realise this, but we need to look back at when we were little kids. Did we have this embaressment about...
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    How do I get rid of my awkwardness

    Hakuna has got it spot on, go to the gym, and with each exercise you do, use correct posture and think about it constantly. Good form will correct good posture as the muscles will develop in that way and it will naturally correct. Practice talking loudly at home, just project your voice. Don't...
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