how to end an on-and-off relationship with a girl?

[mojo16]

pretty weird situation,
ive been hooking up with this amazing girl who im pretty crazy about,
but she plays a lot of games with me.. not sure if she does it as an attempt to make me like her more, or just because she is a girl, either way it has gone on for long enough and i want to put my foot down.

i want to 'end' things with her, but since she isnt my girlfriend i dont really know how to tell her...

also she is really shy and innocent and i am the first guy she has been with, so i also dont want to damage her or come across as a ****.

i also dont want it to come across as if i am now the one who is playing games.
i still really like her, but i dont get enough out of her to only focus on her...

thoughts and suggestions would be appreciated!

 

[doctorj]

you don't have to say anything to her, just game other girls and don't focus solely on her

 

[justanothernormalguy]

Just stop making her the centre of your attention. Go out and get some hobbies and don't play to her tests. Every time she tests you, dont reply. Texts should only be used for flirting, nothing serious and not to start playing her games with. Calls should only be used to arrange, otherwise you risk losing control of a situation if certain topics come up. These are my rules because of past experience but obviously apply them if you want.

I have this thing, I feel you don't need to be gaming other girls, I find that slightly sleazy. You just have to disappear from her life a bit, make her wonder where you are and when she eventually catches on to the fact you have been ignoring her attempts to test you she will come running back and probably try to tie you down. Now the ball is in your court.