Advice/Help Needed!!!! New to the forum.

[moose25]

Hey guys,

Just came across this forum tonight. I desperately need help i'm pretty bad when it comes to girls. My main problem is probably effort and my shyness. I met a nice girl tonight at a party. I got her interested and we chatted for a while. When she left she asked If i wanted to go with her next week to an night out she has planned. So I asked for her number and she gave me it. For me this is an achievement.

What I need help with is what to do next? I never know when the right time is to text her? What should I say? Should I call her instead of texting? How do I come across as not needy?

I know these things are probably simple to most people but not for me. Time and time again I've messed it up. I've text girls in the past and they have lost interest or I've not got a reply from them. Or they have texted me but there clearly not really bothered. I really don't want to mess it up with this girl as I really like her. Any advice would be really appreciated how to communicate with her next.

 

[Mr. Fantastic]

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[justanothernormalguy]

I hate to say this, but odds are you might lose a few more times...more especially with this girl. But you have to come to the realization that its a learning curve, and you are on the right track.

Its not just this 'what do i text her this time' that you need to work out, its a bit bigger than that, you need to really go back and analyse yourself and your behaviour towards women. Focus on building yourself as a person in terms of confidence, body language, communication. A way to a woman's heart can really be through laughter, that no exaggeration and should not be taken for granted. If you are not naturally a rugged stubble, fast car driving, leather jacket wearing badass by heart, laughter is equally as good.

Have a good read of some material, some stuff on this forum and just generally get out there and stop worrying!