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The more interesting issue here i think is that as a whole society on both the male and female side we are so abysmally unpreparred to actually handle relationships ( regardless of level of casualness or seriousness.) I dated a girl casually just before covid who had watched way to much disney...

Let me be clear. I'm not saying that we will as a society properly address this issue-set. I'm saying that even in a dialetic sense we are missing the point entirely. We're arguing about the colour of the paint on the walls while we're sinking on the titanic. Imagining a constrained utopia...

The desire for a woman is an attempt at resolving the existential death anxiety problem. I will die --> I'm not immortal --> Does anything matter? --> What is the meaning of life? -->How do I attempt to resolve the dissonance of knowing i'll die, that im cosmically insignificant yet want to do...

Let's put it this way. No. Should we voluntarily shift the supply of law enforcement resources downwards and expect a similar level of quality? Would that work in most other cases? reducing funds to an area and expect an increase or even stabilization of quality of work? Maybe I'm naive but...

Like I said man, I hope things turn out okay for ya. You gotta take the time you need to take to figure out the divorce process. 1 week of preparedness can save you a lifetime of headache. That's good that you have at least a generally positive relationship with your kids. Regardless of what...

I love to hear about situations played textbook perfect or damn near so. Good on ya. You can lead the horse to water but you cant force it to drink.

1) Breath, stay calm, you'll get through this. 2) Although I entirely understand what you mean by "emotional cheating" you need to be careful in divorce proceedings to stick to the facts rather than get caught up in a flurry of emotion. 3) You did nothing wrong by taking care of your needs...

Good question, joke answer - not being enough of a chad/****boy real answer - giving her too much attention, not structuring the interactions such that you are the ''buyer'' and she is the seller. my entirely scientifically unsubstantiated theory is that guys who do act like chads (even if...

If you already know you're doing something wrong then it begs the question, why are you still doing it? it's one thing if you don't know better but entirely another if you do. You are actually being kind of a d1ck by not giving the girl what she responds to. If you know what to do, then do it...

I've always been told i'm more fashionable than the average guy but I dont do anything special 1) Develop a personal style ---- look on google images/pinterest for styles you like and that fit your personality ( if your a wall street guy dont dress like a rapper. or do . whatever floats your...

Amazing post! Thank you @Papa_smu !!!

Bro what are you talking about ? You mean I can't get ****ing yoked by meditating? ;)

It's temporary my guy, don't worry. Keep in mind we've only been in "covid mode" for about 136 days as of May 15 2020 (time since first case) I understand your worry but even if a large portion of gyms (and for that matter restaurants too) close new ones will open. Think of it this way. If...

Generally but not always, women wont **** a guy unless they like him a certain amount or more. Although "liking" can change in both directions for a woman. In a sense, if she let you inside her she must think your worth it even if you're a total **** heel. It's about her perception of her...

I worry about people who say things like "looks don't matter." Even if they have a more nuanced argument that's like saying obesity doesn't put you in a categorically higher risk group for multiple conditions. That's some next level denial of reality. It's literally bottom of the barrel level...

Look Would you really be able to honestly say your room is clean if you just sweep the dust and dirt under the rug? If you have a definable problem you SHOULD fix it. If you dont yet have a definable problem you should define it and then fix it. Anything other than a strategy broadly...

I'll speak from my own experience. About 2/3 of my previous gfs were friends of mine for a significant period of time after the breakup. Now its not really fair to say we are just friends or dating in most of those cases because often we'll be FWB. I think it has less to do with "is it...

Let me give you two pieces of advice I wish someone gave my sorry ass 10 years ago. 1) The term career is about as specific as the term vertebrate. Fish,Humans, Birds and Whales are all vertebrates but they have not a lot else in common. I started in hospitality management and now work in...

In some way it's hard to blame women for having kids regardless of the objective facts surrounding the situation. The neurobiology of procreative drive in animals is really really crazy and fascinating. Objectivity and long-term decision making is hard enough without ****ing hormones and ****...

Exactly. It's odd that I don't see this discussed more in general. If what I believe is true about negative information being more stressful than positive information being pleasurable then wouldn't it make sense to run a lot of your life choices through the filter of "Am I really being as...