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The standards by which a woman is expected to behave isnt the same as that of a man. I challenge you to act like a girl would in the situation you describe around a bunch of dudes and see what happens. It's all hypocrisy. But why does that matter? You can't change it you can only adapt...

No disrespect is meant here my man. Why do you expect womens behaviour to make sense? That's stupid. I've gotten laid for being a friend of a guy in a band (i.e. doing nothing other than existing in a certain context) and gotten rejected for trying too hard to pick up a specific girl in a bar...

Next time that (hopefully doesn't) happen; do this: 1) Do not react emotionally. Remain calm 2) tell her "you're free to do as you want" or something to the like. 3) give her physical space by getting up, get a glass of water/ get some air/etc. 4) come back and assess where she is at...

OLD has been hilarious during this whole thing. The same girls who would never spend almost any time on tinder are now on almost all the time. My response rate has almost doubled.

You cant dump water in a bucket with a hole at the bottom and expect it to fill up. If your concept of your self is anything like what your language indicates it is; you are the bucket, the hole is your self-esteem and the water is your confidence in this metaphor. Some constructive things...

Common scenario bro. 2 things here I've noticed: 1) Chicks usually clue in in the first 15 mins of knowing me that I don't do the whole relationship thing. I imagine its a vibe or impression I give off. Obviously I don't know you personally but maybe take some time to think about what...

Ah, didn't think of it that way. Cheers

Haha I like the way you think.

For sure, better to do cheap activities (coffee & explore the city) at "full price" than a more expensive one and start whipping out coupons left and right lol

I don't believe you can 100% guarentee not getting publicly shamed/witchhunted/doxed. However, there is really no use being paranoid about it. Because its highly improbably. This is usually good advice in many areas. Figure out the solution then deal with it. I used to be inclined to say "If...

Welcome to the forum. A couple things I noticed: 1) Age difference. She is 32. his will affect her choices in the sense that her biological clock is ticking. Assuming she wants kids, she'll be in more of a rush than the average 21 year old. 2) I personally believe all women are only...

Most of the guys here nailed it. Is this the first time that she has behaved this way to you? specifically in regard to saying "you are going to attend." ? That is not a request. That is a command. If she is commanding you it means at least nominally she is contextually more dominant than...

Interesting. Thanks!

The rules that govern the behavior of one system do not necessarily govern the behavior of another system. i.e. what works in one context may not in another. Or in another way. In theory, theory and practice are the same thing. in practice, theory and practice are rarely the same thing.

Exactly, I get that it's really just a saying. However, it's pointing at a behaviour. Often it's used in a context of behavioural change. i.e. You want to be a certain different way than you currently are. That requires an aggregation of different experiences. However, just blindly expecting...

Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it. Fair enough. I get what your saying. I mean understanding ones own psychology is hard enough let alone understanding the general principles of the opposite gender. Interesting. Havnt gotten that feedback directly. something to think about thanks. cheers

Man that sounds awesome haha! Interesting. I havn't really thought about quiet vs. loud girls distinction. Mind if I ask why you don't think man in late 30's/ early 40's with a woman 10+ years younger is a better idea? wouldn't that on average in the case of wanting kids offer both life...

Fair point. Maybe the gap between long term and short term strategy is not so clear. I mean, define "young" specifically?Under what age? I don't want kids, my career is my main goal and I really dont want much else at this point from women other than sex/fun/adventure. Thats a fair point. It...

My apologies if the tone came across predatory. wasn't my intention. I was more trying to address if,how and why integrity was important? And perhaps more interestingly how does she know if you are or are not behaving with integrity? Do you mind elaborating on where specifically you think the...

Super interesting situation here bud, A few things I noted: 1) she's 30+ and has a kid. This will influence her biology and in a similar way effect her psychology. Part of her mind is probably thinking about motherhood/caring/etc part of her is thinking youth/freedom/enjoyment. However, she is...