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Lol interesting viewpoint. Don't you think its a little too reactive to even give a **** what she feels in the first place? I understand the need to be realistic about the whole emotions thing but what i'm really wondering is does it matter/ make a difference to the end goal? What do you think...

Interesting. So it's not really about value it's about comfort then is it? It's probably slightly about both and then something else too. I.e. Conveying value is better than not and Her being comfortable is better than not. This doesn't really account for just mere circumstantial decision...

Then the issue still isn't solved. I'm not particularly concerned with being chased per se. And I understand that your probably right that they wont approach you. These girls rarely do. However, this still isn't a solution. What do you suggest someone do even if the idea of "value...

Thanks! I'll look into his writings. Cheers

Interesting. Thanks for the thoughts. Still doesn't answer the question of whats at bottom here. Frame = principles = congruence = integrity = internal allignment = her ability to trust. Why does trust matter to her? To what extent does a variation in integrity actually matter? What if...

But how does one know if they are faking confidence? how does the hypothetical girl know? and how do you know ?

Do you actually believe there is any significant correlation between clothes and testosterone level? someone wearing a wifebeater has more testosterone than a guy wearing a pink collared shirt? You shouldn't be allowing this level of stupidity in your thoughts. Also, get over yourself. So...

You guys are hilarious! A couple points: 1) Generally good advice, but has cases where you can ignore the rule. Tattoos by themselves arent bad. Paired with Feminism, weird self-image, and general mental issues then just swipe left haha. 2) Same idea as 1. Generally good advice but has...

Great ideas! I appreciate it. also LOL feed her before you f uck her. What is she like a gremlin? cant get water on her or some shi t. that's funny. Cheers

Everyone knows there are options. Coffee shops, restaurants, going out, dancing, parties/events, etc. I personally have found a lot of success with activities that I'd be doing anyway. (i.e. working from home and just having the girl over, practicing music/playing gigs, going to the gym.)...

First, welcome to this weird and wonderful forum! a couple things i noted here: 1) No amount of external circumstance can solve fundamental neuroticism. I'm not claiming any mental illness on your part ( although about 1/3 people have something so... ya) The issue is SOLVING the core...

A few interesting things here: 1) I think too much emphasis in popular media has been placed on "not giving a ****." and while that certainly is better than "giving all the ****s" it still isnt complete. Obviously work and seduction is different, but, if I approached certain colleagues in the...

I mean the whole value dynamic thing is a little odd if you get too attached to it. At a very general level I do think people seek to value maximize. Hypergamy is an obvious example of this. However, this all kinda falls apart when you look at actual choices vs perceived value. There are...

Very true! Cheers!

You can't change the past YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST NO SERIOUSLY, YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST. do you ****ing get it!? YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST! You get 86400 seconds a day. stop wasting time.

A couple thing here bud: 1) I don't principally disagree with your "I want to be natural" vibe. 2) However, personally just as a matter of respect for the process I almost always push for the next step. regardless of how I "feel in the moment" 3) This can be a high risk strategy if done...

I'll try not to be too boring/technical here. 1) Women and men obviously have different preferences in almost all significant areas. Good ol' Dimorphism. 2) As a mostly liberal guy. My general perspective on what other people do beyond a level of being aware of it and adapting to those...

You sound like me a few years ago. It gets better bud. a few things here: 1) specifically in regards to trauma I bought a CBT book and used a mixture of that + journalling + meditation + other stuff to bring to the surface some psychological issues I had so that I could start ( and frankly...

Hmm... Interesting way to phrase it. What you said makes it seem like the whole approach to learning this stuff should be tailored to the individual. Begs the question of 'what should you or I personally work on?' Cheers!

Interesting. Thanks! I'm assuming based off of what you wrote you don't really buy the whole "fake it till you make it" idea. I personally am a little skeptical on whether or not you can fake confidence because I've seen what I personally judge to be a lot of fake confident guys. I've also...