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The issue is not her behaviour. It is your response to her behaviour. 1) It is part of female nature to want male attention. Technology merely magnifies that psychological button. 2) Even if you yelled and freaked out at her about it all your guarenteeing is that she'll hide the behaviour...

First off. I'm sorry you've had a string of bad circumstances. Now for the solutions: 1) Keep studying/working. In fact study/work harder. I dont give a sh1t if you think your studying your hardest. 1) your not and 2) its not the point here . raise your god damn standards. 2)You're needy. you...

It's not that complex really. If you understand that women are generally very conscious of social status in groups its not an unreasonable jump to understand an aversion to dating a guy who is out of HER PARTICULAR CONCEPTION of the norm. I am ethnically half indian but other than the obvious...

1) They have the right to their opinion even if its factually wrong. 2) Sounds like what I call preference incongruity bias - in simple terms "I am allowed to have preference X for reasons A,B,C. But you are not allowed to have that same preference for similar or the same reasons." The common...

Your at a crossroads brother. One direction you go down into nihilistic **** and if you have mental illness or a history then jesus good luck. alternatively you can do what i did when i was in your shoes. realize that pain and pleasure are just biological phenomenon and that even if the core...

I didn't know that was part of the rules. Interesting. But you're right about what defines a "girlfriend" in this context.

You're assuming that these atheletes are rational actors. Which I dont think at the group level they are. And If they already have millions why would hey care if they lose thousands IF AND ONLY IF THEY GET CAUGHT. This bubble phenomenon is essentially dont ask dont tell. These atheletes will...

Supply and Demand models this behaviour in a pretty interesting way. My personal theory is that the reduction in supply of male attention has driven the value of male attention up. In normal times an average chick gets hit up X times per Y unit time. Now, that number is noticeably less. In...

I've run into similar belief-communication-justification problems in the past. Here's some advice: 1) you don't have to defend your relationship from random other peoples criticism. 2) Ask yourself why you feel the urge to defend your beliefs? Does that say something about your sense of...

This whole RSD-esque looks/money/status dont matter ideas are so ****ing stupid its halarious. its better to have a fit body than to not. its better to have money then to not. its better to have status than to not. its better to have a good personality than to not. I highly doubt anyone...

you mad bruh ?

This entirely misses the point. some people certainly are so analysis dominant that they genuinely struggle with social skills. But just cuz a person is bad at a skillset now doesnt mean they cant be great later with practice. So this false dichotomy of smart+bad socially vs. dumb +good...

I know this isnt always true but did she have any blood after sex because of breaking the hymen? Hymens can break for other reasons but if she is a virgin and not a horse rider (lol) theres a chance she would have a little blood after sex. socially/psychologically you should just lead with...

The biggest tell in this hypothetical is that she ASKED YOU. that's a test i'd probably go with something along the lines of: "you can have all the flowers you want when you earn it ;) " as far as the responses you suggested heres some thoughs: A - Avoidance. they may or may not be fresh...

you: "Yes. And I have a face." her: "wait what?"/confusion you: "I thought we were just trading irrelevant facts ;) "

I've been thinking about similar things recently bro. Preemptively I apologize if anything I say comes across as insensitive. These are just some things I think. 1) you are not culpable for the habits of your friends. f they do drugs, that's not on you, if they get out of shape, thats not on...

You're misinterpereting the situation on at least 3 levels here 1) whether or not you define it as leading on is beside the point. It's YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to escalate. it's her job to accept or reject your advances. Which she did. 2) In short yes. you havnt provided any evidence that the...

Thanks for the detailed post! Although I'm not really on board for the "if you cant beat them join them" point I'll defs give it a try. Right. In some cases it's almost (but obviously not always) like arguing louder lets you win. haha. If you are one of the guys who does have the confidence...

Hang on.... I don't want to straw man your point but are you saying its harder to fake confidence than be actually confident? I'd imagine the opposite is true..

hahaha ****ing savage!