Majority of my friends are blupilled guys and many females are feminists openly, some are in the work setting which I have to deal with and cannot avoid. I suppose this is same for women that have feminist friends which they hang out with. Since women always talk among themselves about their guys and relationships the feminists and blupilled guys would make the redpilled guys seem like they only care bout themselves and are cheapskates seeing how their blupilled boyfriends lavishing them with presents and attention.
How should one proceed to "shield" a redpill relationship from the blupill and feminists?
I've run into similar belief-communication-justification problems in the past. Here's some advice:
1) you don't have to defend your relationship from random other peoples criticism.
2) Ask yourself why you feel the urge to defend your beliefs? Does that say something about your sense of certainty in said beliefs?
3) Are you doing anything explicitly illegal? If not then keep on doing you bud!
4) Morality is often a grey area. Legality is often not. Social/Behavioural/Political/Strategic decisions are both. Run your decisions through those filters and you'll find it much easier to behave in advantageous ways.
5) Anything you do that is significantly varying from the norm is going to draw attention to you. If you're doing the right thing you shouldnt pay too much mind to the opinions of sheep.
6) Caring too much (or for that matter too little) about other peoples opinion specifically of your behaviour is often a sign of mental illness. Check yourself before you wreck yourself. I do care about my bosses opinion of my work. I dont care about his opinion on dating.
Cheers