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After reading more about the cluster B train wreck I had gotten myself into, suddenly I'm thinking more positively. I appreciate the good advice and learned much from the 'how to get rid of a cluster B thread' . Here I'd been thinking I became needy and such when in fact her abandoment issues...

Four months seems to be the point when a woman starts to pull a lot of her sh** You've got the right atittude. It's when you stop realising there are a ton of women out there that you start to screw yourself.

It sounds like you have learned quite a bit over the last for years, most importantly how you do not want to spend the next four. I can relate with your post although I wasn't working on being a PUA, my priorities were closely related. yes, I too believe in many instances Pook was right.

That's exactly what she would do Jophil. Before I learned about this from this site I just thought it was part of the games some girls play. One that I'd never come across and though maybe had something to do with her low self esteem. I've always heard exes know exactly when to come back, that...

Then maybe I should look into it. Seeing as I've lost weight and have absolutely no apetite. I wonder if it works for rebuilding self esteem. And for getting a toxic woman out of my head.

I've been saying it to myself for the better half of this year. This girl IS emotional abusive. I could sense it in my gut. I always tried to make excuses for her behaviors, but in the end I have come to realise that it was the abuse she strived for. If she didn't feel like she was in control...

Your right Int. self respect and self love wasn't as high as i could have been prior to meeting her, but it was there enough for me to walk away, but then not being high enough again I got hoovered back. I think right now what has been broken down the most is the self esteem, as bad as this...

Thanks for the advice K. I will look up the site you recommended. For some reason moving on from a person like this equals the total of all the past relationships combined. Those may have hurt quite a bit, this feels more like a cut. It makes no sense why I'd even hesitate to give a girl like...

My first and hopefully last run in with a Bpd has been nothing short of a mental nightmare. I'm glad I found this site so I at least try can make sense of why I let myself get hooked. Emotional vampire sums it up. Classic ex story. Walk away from a girl playing games I'd never encountered...

Every time you respond she gets her fix. She is loving the fact that she is getting a reaction from you....

I'd listen to to MR. Me....excellent insight and advice. I'd welcome knowing the girl I got sucked into was seeing another guy, I'd be so done. I should be listening to my head too....where do you see yourself in a month, two, around the holidays? Pining for this girl or having a few months of...

Dam that is too funny. When I was reading DonS's post I was wondering how he could be so sure he knew what was going to happen. Seems he was spot on. I think he's right again OP, it was something you just needed to experience. I wouldn't look at it as the ball is in her court, the game is over...

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I agree with DonS. Sometimes we need to experience things firsthand though. I guess it won't fell ackward for too long if your changing jobs soon anyhow. Jophil's also pretty much said everything else that matters.

I work by myself for the most part. Your question is not all that uncommon Raz. I does not get any easier as you get older. Joining a club is always the first suggestion given, followed by looking into a meetup.com in your area. Maybe a continuing ed course a few nights a week will help you out.

I'd say real ignorance comes from *****ing about an opinion because it does match your own. I actually agree with K. While I'm not a Christian, I think you know OP that your faith is more important to you than this one girl. The religion topic is of interest to me, only because the recent...

I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but there is never a guarantee someone will not cheat. Never! Kontroller is right, you have to make a tough choice. How would you feel if you choose her and in a few years the relationship ended? Your datin other chicks, your in a better place than a lot of...

I think your probably right. I haven't been on this site for very long, but long enough to see that the majority of it is about self improvement and bettering yourself. I'd rather succeed in that than becoming the world's best PUA. Trying to take in as much knowledge as possible is...

I agree with J, the silient treament is not always the universal method. I also agree with srt8's posts. Seeing as I am currently dealing with the thread's title in my life, I am curious what is the best approach. Short of seeing her once in awhile at work, I've nexted by going silent, walking...

I don't agree with the 'less attractive woman after 35' I think many woman start to show their age well before that. While obviously not all, but many woman start looking older than their age once they hit their early thirties. I also agree with the poster who believes that often the better...