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Well you have the right idea. I think we all want instant gratification/results so it can make change seem almost impossible. Realise it may take awhile to make some major changes, you'll get there though. I have the same problem, not too many single friends, those that are avoid clubs/social...

You should take the time an make a new thread and see if you can get some advice, opinions. I am curious how MNIS is doing with the N/C? How goes it?

I noticed a lot of the girls that would be hot, if they lost the muffin top, are not usually the nicest people. Defies logic. They are often the first to comment on somebody else's appearance.WTF?

Op, I'd listen to this. The moment you stop treating her like everyone else is the beginning of the end so early on. The texts and attention are like a crack dealer trying to get you hooked.

Thanks for the links, and I'm going to check out the book you reccommended. At this point it is a matter of will power to refrain from contacting her. I wouldn't continue to put my hand on a hot stove, contacting would be the same thing pretty much....and there's something about feeding her ego...

I really like you but...... I'm not saying all advice from women is junk. The topics and advice I was hearing just didn't help me act the way I should have been. It was my own failure, having never been in a situation like this, it's like trying to read Latin. I'm not sure what guide, book or...

I may have actually given them away by having become an AFC. Yes oneitis in it's ugliest form. Why? Scarcity. Anyhow, after having been following and posting on LS for about half way through this relationship(6months), I have realised getting advice from women, and the the many needy guys over...