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This is kind of funny. I've done so many of these. Good reality check: http://www.datinggroundwork.com/communityquirks Weird but harmless things guys in the scene do: Giving unsolicited advice and opinions to everyone Almost every guy who gets into the Seduction Community initially...

Hell yeah. Biggest thing is to force yourself to be around people more even though you'd prefer to be alone doing your own thing.

Man, you're not stuck with just the people in your year. Meet people from outside your class.

These articles are pretty good: How to: Be Funny Thoughts on being funny It's more about finding your style and letting the humor come from that rather than memorizing a ton of jokes.

Yeah, you totally have to get your sh*t together before trying to be a playa. This site is pretty comprehensive about the whole 'not being a socially retarded dork' thing. Post the article, we'd all be interested in reading it.

Any book about the real world that makes you a more well-rounded person with something to talk about.

Yeah, good tip. I've done the same thing (saying it truthfully and having the girls take up the challenge)

Try to think up some original things to talk about. EVERY guy will ask the girls what they do for work, what they do for fun, etc. This gets old when 20 people ask you this. In a similar vain, come up with some good answers to common questions you'll be hearing.

Drama aside it might not hurt to try being more aggressive. Never hurts to expand your repertoire. May not be your thing though...

I think it's only about 30% of women who can climax just through sex. So technically concentrating on oral would be the way to go. But forget general trends when you're with one girl. Experiement and find what she likes.

Don't focus on being just a player. To fix all those problems you just need to improve yourself overall (which will indirectly help you be a player anyways) Honestly, you've got a long road ahead of you. You're not going to fix all these things overnight.

There's no one rule that works for everyone. It depends on what you want, what she wants, your relationship, what's going on in your lives, etc etc. Just do what seems right for your particular relationship.

It's easy to meet girls online. Why wouldn't you do it? It won't get you experience with the front end of picking up but you can talk on the phone, go out with them, maybe get some action. Don't skip all that because of some vague notions that it's not the most 'respectable' or 'skilled'...

Be honest about your skills and experience level. If you're a total dweeb then the 6's and 7's are good practice. You're kidding yourself to only go after 9's and 10's. If you can already hook up with 7-8's easily then ignore them.

The wing isn't the issue really. It's just that you're not great at conversation yet. Work on that and then you'll find the wing will be an asset. You'll get a good multiway conversation going with the girls and they'll dig you. There's something about 2-3 girls being approached by two guys...

I've read it. Typical seduction e-book really. You know, like it's 100 pages long but only because of the 20 point font :) Anyways, I thought it was pretty good. The emphasis is mostly on story telling and his whole qualification thing from what I can remember. I don't know if you'd need to...

A few things: First, there's no law that says you have to give this girl her first orgasm. I know it can seem like this big challenge to your manhood, but you don't have to go for it. Don't make it such a quest that you suck all the fun out of sex. You can still have a good time going at...

This site is new I think so there isn't a ton of info, but it has a bunch of social skills advice. www.howtobecooler.com

Even if you did take some sort of drug to be confident, which is obviously retarded, the psychological effects are always the strongest when you first take it. If you do it enough you get used to it and become more and more 'normal' when you're high.

Don't worry about the wording. Do you think about it when you ask a buddy to do something with you? Just ask.