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Tell them if you want, but don't expect them to necessarily care. Not because this is super subversive, underground information, that aspect is over rated, but because they probably just won't be interested in becoming hardcore players. Not everyone cares about this stuff. It's like...

If you're currently hopeless with women then getting some good success will make you a little happier. That's obvious. But most people get used to things very quickly. It's not long before you're taking your situation for granted and think you need *more* to be happier now. It never really...

www.howtobecooler.com/dance - How to Dance - Gives a basic overview of the topic There's also an article on askmen about how to pretend you know how to dance. Not sure what the address is though.

It is advanced compared to basic things like: -having friends -not having a lot of issues -having a fairly good personality -basic conversation skills -basic social skills -basic social experience -basic life experience -basic ability to relate to women -basic level of sexual...

A lot of people here *think* they want to sleep around a lot, but once they get more exp. with girls most of them will probably decide having a good relationship with one cool girl is better than being a male ho. It's human nature to want to pair off. Staying single for a long time and...

Well there's the saying that unless you're looking for a soul mate then quantity IS quality.

Do a google search on performance anxiety, you'll probably find a bunch of quality sites that will tell you way more than this forum every could. It's a common enough problem, there's tons of good info other there on it.

If a girl does something insignificant like accidently bump you with her arm for a split second and says sorry I'll go "...oh well good thing you apologized because I was really angry about that". Usually gets a cheap laugh. One funny throwaway line won't get you laid though.

The teachers sound annoying but it honestly doesn't sound like it'll effect your marks if you're a smart guy. Do well on the tests, do well on your projects. You study or write papers at home anyways right? Otherwise just zone out and be bored in the actual classes.

Don't limit yourself to just your high school. Meet some girls online or get some friends in other schools and meet chicks through them.

Could be attraction. Could be they're still young enough that they haven't gotten comfortable with these kinds of things (having guys approach them). It could also be your vibe. Are you a hot football player that's intimidating? Do you come across as weird and scary? What to do? Ignore...

Is it a small little niche store or something like a Gap in a mall with lots of staff and a high turnover? If it's the later I don't see how going after a chick there will be the end of the world. I'm not being cheeky, but if you're as good looking as you say then why not use those looks to...

I heard once that the average person (as in out of everyone in the US) has only slept with six people. A lot more people then you think only sleep with a couple of people then get married. Others have one longish relationship after another and don't slut it up much in between. Still, seems a...

You have nothing to lose if you keep trying to get in touch. May as well give her the benefit of the doubt. That way if she really is interested then you won't miss a chance. And if she still seems flakey then big whoop, who cares? But seriously, it takes like a minute to call her, so why...

What kind of job? A tight knit office or like a restaurant where staff are always coming and going and everyone is sleeping with each other? Just cuz you get rejected doesn't automatically make it awkward. If you act all weird around her after then that's bad, but you can also brush it...

The problem is picking up chicks is a relatively advanced skill. Trying to do it before you have basic social skills, a halfway attractive personality, or some sexual experience is just going to screw you up.

Good post. Skinny power.

Don't worry about following rules about being unavailable. If you've got your **** together you're fine and you can break the rules. If you're not that attractive then little details like being hard to get for a few days won't matter.

Answers I guess they care but voice tone is ultimately a small detail. More important things to worry about Yeah you need friends. Even one or two good buddies may be all you need. Don't fool yourself and think it's cool to be a lonewolf. Figure out what you're into and hang out with...

Sure, if you're not into her I've had luck when I wasn't into the girl but I knew she would want to hook up with me if I was. If you want to hook up with her its not going to work of course. Even if I don't like her, but I wonder if I *could* hook up with her it creates the same needy vibe...