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It's an everlasting debate.
Read some books, and women will say the **** is the #1 spot, and vaginal is #1. Talk to some guys and gals, and they'll say it's emotional...that the woman must like/love the guy as if he's the physical embodiment of the man she envisions...and that orgasm would happen by means of great foreplay and sensations.
It's not cut and dry, and the vested interest a man has in a woman cumming is 1) his sense of pride and satisfaction 2) his ego, making sure he pleasures her truly and she doesn't fake it 3) the possibility he loves her and wants her to feel pleasure.
The woman's O is much more intricate than a man's. Read any feminine book on the topic, or even The Game where Style stacks orgasms and learns Hypnosis and NLP to heighten her pleasure and you realize this isn't a clear cut thing. Some girls are instantly sensitive, others not at all. For me, a girl's willingness to explore her sexuality beyond what she's previous is paramount to our future sexual chemistry. If she shows up with a laundry list of items and won't budge, you can try to wait it out and see if her bytch shields drop. Or move on. Reading a book like the Game demonstrates how women have their shields up, and discerning when it's a shield, and when it's personality/baggage is an important male skill. Also, knowing what you will and won't accept. Some women might have a shield up, that prevents her from jumping into intimacy quickly, but over time might be the best lover IF you're the guy to prove you're the ONE. Other women might have alternate agendas, and just FAKE intimacy or waiting out of a need for control.
Men CAN tell when a woman has ***, though...1) there's normally a DIFFERENT liquid down below, usually milky white, or more liquid than before. You can see this on the condom, and with some women if you're not wrapping, you'll feel it. 2) She tenses her muscles. The tensing of the muscles in her vagina is actually like a SUCKING action of the semen/sperm into her uterus and to the eggs. They've found women that orgasm get pregnant more than 50% of the time when having sex. So if you make a woman O, and don't use protection, and she's not on the pill, the likelihood is high it won't take many more sessions for her to get pregnant, or have a good chance at pregnancy. This also feeds into the statistics that 10% the world's population is fathered by someone other than the man they know as their "dad." Normally because a woman will go to the man, any man, who can make them *** and orgasm.
A-Unit
