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I don't think i've ever approached lol. I don't think it's about fear as much as "oh i already know the outcome. Why bother?". That's how it is for me, anyway, i don't know if that's what the main reason for it or not. For me it's "I COULD go and talk to her..... but I already know the result...

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Personally I don't care if she meant it or not, that is disrespect and I would not take it. What you do about it is up to you (and by the way I think you handled it well). You seem like you're aware of whats going on around you in the relationship, so you could probably giver her one more...

I'm only a newbie myself, but even I would get what's going on here. I'm not going to go on and on. I'll put it simply: move on.

I cry at the stupidest things. My first girlfriend about 3 years ago, i cried when i got dumped and we'd been together for 3 months! I just recently (yes, got dumped again) and it was almost 2 years, yet I never shed a single tear over that. So obviously as things happen to you, you become...

It's "your job" to drive her around? Then remind her it's her job to get in the kitchen and cook for you (kidding, not to worry lol)

My ex did the same. Seeing her was like her "fitting me into her schedule". I swear it was like making an appointment. Then when she was free, she got pissed off when I was busy. She even lied several times about doing other things to not see me (i.e. "revenge" for being busy when she was free...

Does she deserve an explanation from you? Does she deserve the respect? Does she deserve to have you as a friend? Probably not. Go about your business and that's that. Don't give her the time of day. It's like a fish that you're trying to throw back, but it keeps slipping and falling...

I think that brings up a common problem among men. They (myself included, i won't lie) fear that they cannot get any better, so they settle for less. They get presented with a sub-par female, and think "well.... what if i don't get a better one in the future? Better make the best of this i...

Carry a measuring tape around with you at all times. When talking to females, whip it out and look very closely and measure her pupils. Then you must take out your diary, record this data, and then continue the conversation. Seriously though, it's too much thinking for me. If she ends up in...

I agree with that. I think it's more of an adjustment period.... it passes, but it is very easy to go too far when going from passive to assertive. If you've always been passive then there's no range to work with.... you have to make mistakes and realise you've been a jerk with things, so you...

I agree. It also can mean (depending on the type of person) that she wants to get nailed by others without having the guilt of cheating. In which case, any tiny little excuse will be used to take a break just long enough to get her nailed by the guy or guys she has had lined up in her mind for...

Man i'm such a dumbass. I got sucked in and talked to her again..... Basically it was the same 'ol power bull****, but one thing pushed me over the edge..... one thing i'm glad happened because it made me see her in even worse light than I have been.... She kept speaking to me as if me...

Yeah.... we basically broke up because she didn't want to give, and wanted to take take take. I stopped so much giving and started demanding things of her and she hated that. For example I hadn't got sex for about 2 months beforehand, and she stated recently that i "have to earn it, it's not a...

There should be a universal marking that can be placed on a women to indicate that they are below standard in some way, e.g. attention *****s = "aw", self-absorbed = "sa". Perhaps a line of "DJ stickers", or chalk markings lol.

Cool thanks for the advice. I'm completely over her, I just don't want to give her any satisfaction over it. I also dont want her to be talking **** about me to my friends, because she's the kind of person who would do that (they're friends of both of us, so she'll play the "lets win them over"...

I'm not asking here how to handle the breakup, because i barely even like my now ex-girlfriend..... (i got dumped via text message after 1 year 8 months....) Anyway, she's the kind that wants to always act "tough" and now she's being *****y about the breakup... anyway, it's only early, but...

My girlfriend does the same thing. She *****es and moans until the cows come home, gets up the next day, and resumes complaining about her petty, sad excuse for problems. I put up with it, day in day out, with all the drama, and in the VERY few times that I am in need of support, she snaps...

One of my favourite quotes, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take". I admit i rarely live by that because of fear, but learn from others and don't not take those shots. If you want someone, go for it. If you want something, go for it. Sitting back and being scared about picking up women...

I just ignore it. Just say "uh huh", "yeah", "ok cool" etc. and act like you're not really interested. They'll soon avoid you when wanting to complain and find someone who will feed their drama and attention needs. In this process, however, they may become frustrated at YOU and you'll then...