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Hey man, encouraging read from your field report. However, gotta question for you. I'm from Malaysia, and was wondering if the DJ material work for Asian countries? While i see the pattern works, but as far as i know, Asian tends to be more conservative?

I keep falling for this trap, i don't know why? I need to sort this out, but i felt disturbed. Kailex once told me the "withdrawal" syndrome can return and relapse is possible... I didn't know it was so real. Example, i was lunch with a colleague yesterday, there's this gorgeous gal sitting on...

Sorry guys... i haven't been completely honest with all of you. Here's the deal... After her accident, a fear that she could've died took over me. Post-cheering her up, i guess having some care for her did affect me one way or another. Last Sunday, i asked her if she'd like to join me for tea...

Bump, because i'm still at a loss. Not sure if it's a good idea, but we used to call each other own names at work. But now, i feel like wanting to draw a line and just addressing her as "Ms.LLL"

Thanks for the response. But the idea here isn't so much to get her back or even to be with her again. She already disrespected me, played me for a fool and tagged me as "within her grasp" (loser). I just want to regain back my dignity and status. Not for any reason, but i owe it to myself...

Crap Crap Crap! I made a mistake... After initiating NC, and supposedly "next"ing this girl.. I relapse. I got all AFC and initiated contact again. We're working on a project together, so we do meet up every fortnightly.. Just so happened she was involved in an accident and had a bad week. I...

Hey guys, a while back i posted about my pursuit of a girl and how it all went wrong and she blew me off. Guys here advised for me to move on and cut all contacts from that AW. Since then, i've been receiving lots of calls which the numbers are "Witheld" or "Private Number". The funny things is...

DonJoseCantosie: You brought up an interesting point. Would you say friends influence would play a part in them being flaky? In most of my cases, it usually took them about half a year or a year to turn around. But i was already gone by then. You're right man, they take too long to decide...

Just want to bring up a discussion. I have had two experiences, where after i got blew off by girls, when i reconnected with them they go telling me that they actually regretted what they did. That if they can turn back time and think again, they'd do the opposite. Usually this is within the...

Am in a similar situation, posted once an issue with this workmate. I'm the engineer, and she's the architect. Have to see her every 2 weeks on a constant basis, for at least 5 years. Really sucks. Kailex or the rest of the other posters would tell you NEVER even have thoughts with someone you...

Compile it, edit it a little, and SAVE IT. Then you can publish a book that will resonate with many ;)

Ok, i didn't know that. I thought you were personally attacking me. Where i come from, tough love is quite strange (asian countries). If you're doing that for my own good, thanks then.

Sarcasm eh? You know what, I see no constructive criticism from you. I appreciate a proper way to advise (as the previous posters done so) rather than just jesting and attempting to get on my nerves.

Hey, there's no need for insult. It's a mistake and i paid the price, i get that. Like i said, i was trying to show her i was serious. An ill advise move given by my older women friends who wanted me to show her i'm serious.

I am one of the better looking men in my workplace. HOWEVER, i was humbled in an incident recently and can vouch that looks alone won't get you anywhere. Sure there's the initial liking, but in the long run you're just eye candy. Being good looking but not having the confidence to go with means...

f28300: Haha, that's probably because i am an engineer. Mixed up work and relationship. Actually,i am already at the point where i know this chapter is closed. As far as i look at it, it'll not work out. But in terms of getting over her, i still need to work on that. Not so much as i'm still...

Kailex, thanks a bunch. Before the meeting yesterday, I re-read your reply again and again, just to let it sink in. As much as it feels horrible, I know in reality what you said is true. I needed to hear this. To be honest, I haven’t really thought of what if she called me or in some way...

Hey guy, i'm actually in a similar situation at work too. Maybe you can obtain other people's insight also through my post. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171830

Hey, just to let you know the outcome based on all advises and support. So today i met her for the first time since that incident. I remembered everything you guys said.... You guys are right. While waiting for other workmates, she was trying to get my attention. Tossing her hair, tying...

Thank you Kailex for slapping my face to wake up. Yeah.. i got too engross in handling the "first" encounter with her tomorrow, since that issue (where she blew me off), i guess i was too nervous. The first hurdle is the hardest :/ You see, for some odd reason it's not like i want to "get back"...