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    Something about the NC Rule.

    Hey guys its been almost a week today since I've lost contact with my EX. In that time she has started seeing one of my old friends (one i'd caught her seeing before) and also my brother. My question is. If i do this full 60 days no contact. Will she actually miss me in your opinion? I want...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I broke NC with her lastnight after i had to tell her to leave my brother alone. She is ****ing with is head, and dragging him down into a depression now after me. I did leave a short but brief message again telling her to never contact me again, she then threatened suicide so i called...
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    Are you happy with yourself?

    "It is only after we have lost everything, that we are free to do anything." If you can be happy naked, in a crowd full of people laughing at you, with no home, no possessions, then you can be happy with ANYTHING better.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yo guys. My EX sent me this. What do you think? "One thing, you broke up with me specifically for talking to one of your mates. I understand that. But for you to inbox Gaby and ask if she shows me any of your posts is wrong. Do you actually know how much it's ****ing hurting to say goodbye to...
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    Music to listen to after a breakup.

    Yeah i started NC yesterday. :) Music helps a LOT. I totally forgot about it haha.
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    Music to listen to after a breakup.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_SI2EDM6Lo Break Your Heart - Taio Cruz
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    Music to listen to after a breakup.

    I've found happy, upbeat music that automatically makes you feel good is the best. This is probably a song for younger guys, but my all-time favourite is Ridin' Solo - Jason Derulo http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ESdn0MuJWQ The whole song is basically about how happy he is being single...
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    I need advice here, i NEED to stick to a decision.

    I'm making excuses for her now. **** i just need a good slap to the face.
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    I need advice here, i NEED to stick to a decision.

    If you can see things start to go wrong when i respond to her jealousy of me talking to other girls etc and make myself look less better, in order for her to feel happier.. Is this where i started giving her power and showing no self-respect? I think i stopped acting like an alpha. Because...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Starting the No Contact challenge today guys. Was with the girl for 3 years, i went from fvcking Brad Pitt status in my area/school, to no self-respect because i turned weak and jealous in the relationship. She's back with my brother now. This is hard. Very fvcking hard but i hope you guys can...
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    I need advice here, i NEED to stick to a decision.

    Hey guys. I posted here the other day about my depression and i was on the verge of suicide etc. Them feelings have subsided now and i have been working out everyday and feeling a lot happier with myself, although in that state, I left out important parts that i need to quickly get off my...
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    He's saying awkward things, but saying them confidently with a smile and good body language. It goes to show that it doesn't matter what you say/do that counts, it's how you come across.
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    Physical & Emotional Pain Build Character.

    When you're in pain, whether emotional or physical, it ****ing hurts. Depending on the level of pain some people will do stupid things, like commit suicide, or even things like shoot their own teeth out if they have a bad enough toothache. (yes it's happened.) But the thing is, without pain...
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    Feel bad for breaking her heart.

    That is true. The hardest thing i've been going through at the moment is breaking up with my 3 year GF whom i'm her first sexual partner and real first love. Although i do think that a lot of girls go through a "slutty" stage, in their life. Not sure if they all ACT on it, but i know they...
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    Feel bad for breaking her heart.

    Are there really women out there who would NOT sleep with any man that shows the highest value possible, (in their perspective). Think Brad Pitt for example, shows up and wants to **** your wife. The only way she wouldn't is if she didn't let him get to her EMOTIONS before her logic kicks in...
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    Feel bad for breaking her heart.

    GREAT reply. Really put it into perspective for me thanks man.
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    Anthology of Smooth Moves

    Depends on confidence level but i just used.. "It's not my fault if you want me okay, just admit it to yourself and maybe we can be friends." Then walk off, or give a ****y grin and go somewhere. This only works if they have shown you some sort of value beforehand though, otherwise you come...
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    Feel bad for breaking her heart.

    How do you guys not feel bad when all the girls are chasing you, you **** them, they fall for you even when you tell them that you dont want anything serious? I actually feel sorry for them because i know how it feels to have your heartbroken. I'm going through it now with an ex.
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    Someone please help me. I'm lost.

    Another thing that keeps popping up is how good she did actually treated me when i was obviously depressed and just a **** to her in general. She would leave little notes under my pillow saying she loves me before going out, notes in the car. little things here and there, yet at that time i...
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    Someone please help me. I'm lost.

    Hey guys, thanks for the replies, it does make me feel like someone cares. Just an update. She has persisted and persisted to contact me multiple times over the past few days and i did give in. Although i didn't give in, in a "nice guy" sort of way if you get me. I told her to meet me at a...
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