When a heterosexual man is struggling with the opposite sex, he's not getting his physical needs met. He's also likely not getting his emotional needs met because friendships between heterosexual males and his relationships with family members can only go so far.
What's his motivation to deal with the drudgery of a white collar or blue collar job if he's not getting his physical or emotional needs met?
A man can get his physical needs met by going to an escort.
For emotional needs, a man would be better off getting a dog because if he sats anything emotional to a woman, she will use it against him. A mans emotions is a woman‘s weapons.
The problem is a lot of men are depending on women to full a missing need in their lives, They don’t understand a woman’s love is conditional and fleeting, it is not forever. Heck, it is not even for 2 weeks in 2024, Yet men make women the focal point of their existence. They see woman as the “cake”instead of the icing on the cake.
Put it this way; would you rather have:
(a) average job, average home, average city, one or 2 friends, and are In a full blown committed relationship living with one woman in her mid to late 30s, she is losing her looks by the day and is pressuring for marriage,
or
(b) great job, great home, great city, good friends, but are struggling to connect with women.
Maybe everyone on Sosuave would pick (a) because at least they are getting sex.