needimprovement250
Senior Don Juan
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I get that you are in the infamous perpetual loop of not having a history of relationships, thus not getting new ones, right?
But you can and MUST simply make use of some tactics. Dating is way more tactical than you think ( I geuss you teel like to believe that dating is a 100% emotional thing). If there is one mistake I used to make it was talking bad about my exes. Now mind you, I got away with it oftentimes because the women already decided they wanted to feck me. But nowadays I simply talk positive about my exes, my baby momma, ect ect
So to summarize, you’re basically saying to lie and make up a fictional relationship history if that topic comes up. I’m less opposed to lying about it as I used to be since I want to relocate to a different state, but also don’t want to leave the area I was born and raised without dating anyone here, so I’m more inclined to lie since the relationship definitely won’t go the distance if I move away and I could also get to date in my hometown and be able to date more confidently wherever I move to since I’ll have some experienceIf you REALLY want to get out of this predicament, you'll learn that ESPECIALLY the man you'll pay to light a fire under your azz will tell you to TELL THEM WHITE LIES. Period. It's better to remain somewhat mysterious instead of completely losing your shyte about the topic.
I wouldn’t expect anything else since I’m self aware enough to know that’s my reality, and yeah this situation is like 3 consecutive life sentences in true forced loneliness.But what would you expect otherwise? One of those can be fatal. This is like giving yourself a lifelong sentence times three.
Yeah but it would be a lot more if I didn’t make a bunch of stupid choices in my 20’s. I have about $7K saved up and I also spent about $4K to go on an Aaron Clarey style recon mission by driving throughout the country to look for cheaper areas to relocate to. What I’m saving up for is a moderately sized RV so that I can move to another state with it and give it a try by living in the RV and assuming I like where I’m living, save up to buy property there and either sell the RV and put it towards the price of buying property, or keep it and rent it out to people so that it can be used as a source of some passive income.you don't pay rent. So I geuss you are stacking paper to the ceiling T least???
I can average about $100-120 a day on DoorDash. I also live in a market where they give weekly pay bonuses. As to why I don’t just get a regular job, it’s because I’m trying to go to school and get a certificate in agriculture so I thought that just doing DoorDash would be better because of the flexibility it allows.I looked it up. The worst door dashers making approximately 50 bucks a day. Times 4 = 250 = 1000 a month. Assuming he has some expenses he should still be able to save like 300 bucks a month. That's 3600 a year.
I’m actually doing seasonal temp work at an event center in my area right now. I do it every year and have been for the past 10 years. This event center can actually keep me employed from now all the way to Christmas time if I want to work the whole event season.He could get a job at a temp agency.
It’s even more than that in my area since the cost of living is among the highest in the country and way above the national average. Unfortunately it has always been for me that no matter how hard I worked or how many extra hours and shifts I was willing to take, I was still never able to afford to rent a place of my own. Rent prices continued to rise while wages stayed stagnant sadly.That amount is terrible with a cost of living crises. You need like $ 500/day to see your way.