Salary never came up because women have a radar to smell if you have money. What do you expect them to straight up ask to see your bank account? Trust me the first question their friends asked them after "is he cute?" is " what does he do?"Salary has never come up in my dealings with wealthy women.
It has nothing to do with desperation, if you can't understand that a woman making $250k simply has different priorities in what she seeks from her man than a woman pulling in $75k, nothing further to discuss.
Sounds like cope from both of you. Whatever. I guess it's hard to accept that women these days really do care about who a guy is as a person rather than what he has in his wallet.
The definition of cope is denying a painful truth. I am actually doing the opposite of coping by saying "yes women love money and I dont have much".
You are wrong. Its ok.
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