Why the wall for men is much worse than the wall for females

[itouchyou]

It does sound super fake, a 40 years old 6'4" pro athlete, no children, never married, with women chasing him marrying a 50 years old woman woth 3 kids.

You could be hot all your life, but age does lie, skin gets loose. Very sus.

As logical as it is for top tier men to date younger women, sometimes the heart wants something that isn't logical. Attraction in my experience is largely illogical.. as much as people try to stick to formulas and whatnot, sometimes it all goes out the window.

There is this 50 year old I met a few months ago (looks like a famous actress tbh, and honestly looked even better than the actress) that was married, but we clearly had mutual interest.. let me tell you, I don't think I've ever vibed with a woman as well as I did with her. Her conversational ability was so good, I would've been grateful just to be friends. Younger women are stupid by comparison. Still planning on DMing her (for platonic purposes), whereas with anyone my own age I would've forgotten by now.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It does sound super fake, a 40 years old 6'4" pro athlete, no children, never married, with women chasing him marrying a 50 years old woman woth 3 kids.

You could be hot all your life, but age does lie, skin gets loose. Very sus.

I imagine BE "understanding social dynamics" better than her engineer/IT guy is a factor.

 

[BeExcellent]

I imagine BE "understanding social dynamics" better than her engineer/IT guy is a factor.

Agreed, lol.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Just saw the Chad from my hs appear on my suggested friends. Dude went from looking like an Abercrombie model to bald and fat with a roughneck beard. The wall exists for men!

 

[VirtuousD]

Because they are desperate and because you are handsome to them ( no homo). These doctor chicks cant keep a fellow doctor because they are a pain to be around.

If you were to get in a relationship with them they will talk down to you. They will never submit to you. You are their fun boy.

I failed to get a medical residency but still keep in contact with my female doctor class mates. Trust me on this. You have to be making more than them.

Slightly trivial point but i can't stand no homo being used incorrectly, you are referring to the women seeing him as handsome not yourself, no disclaimer required!

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Just saw the Chad from my hs appear on my suggested friends. Dude went from looking like an Abercrombie model to bald and fat with a roughneck beard. The wall exists for men!

This isn't a hard and fast rule, but some guys who have it easy in high school/college don't always put in the effort later on to kill it in life. Since women came easily, they sometimes (not always) get fat, don't maximize their career potential, keep partying to their detriment, or even marry and schlub out early.

Again not all Chads do this but it happens to some because things were so easy. So the wall comes a lot faster than if they stayed in shape and focused on their ambitions.

 

[CornbreadFed]

This isn't a hard and fast rule, but some guys who have it easy in high school/college don't always put in the effort later on to kill it in life. Since women came easily, they sometimes (not always) get fat, don't maximize their career potential, keep partying to their detriment, or even marry and schlub out early.

Again not all Chads do this but it happens to some because things were so easy. So the wall comes a lot faster than if they stayed in shape and focused on their ambitions.

He is still better off than most men because he still has experience with women and most guys look like shvt after 25 regardless of them being a Chad prior or not.

 

[Pandora]

Slightly trivial point but i can't stand no homo being used incorrectly, you are referring to the women seeing him as handsome not yourself, no disclaimer required!

Lol yes I know. I am immature and slightly insecure about my sexuality. Its a stupid habit.

 

[BeExcellent]

Lol yes I know. I am immature and slightly insecure about my sexuality. Its a stupid habit.

Eh. You'll get past it. You'll get where you just don't give a crap what people think. And frankly that's where you must aspire to be.