Men are far more neurodivergent than women. Male neurodivergence is not good for getting laid with women. Women are not sexually to neurodivergent males. Neurodivergent men tend to show characteristics that do not enhance their sex appeal. I have said many times before that Game is some combination of looks, money, status, and charisma. Neurodivergent males lack charisma with their poor social skills. They often don't have the looks, money, or status to compensate for their lack of charisma that is exhibited through poor social skills.
Depression, BPD, and anxiety disorders are more prevalent in women than men. These disorders are exhibited differently than neurodivergent issues. Women with depression, BPD, and anxiety disorders can often have adequate social skills. Their social skills will be at least good enough for them to get sex. Men don't require as much in the way of social skills in order to have sex with a woman as women require in order to have sex with a man. Women with BPD, depression, and anxiety disorders tend to have issues in dating/relationships as relationships progress and their behaviors can cause men to not want to commit longer term. If a man commits longer term to a woman with BPD, depression, or an anxiety disorder, she'll still be the one more likely to dump him. Women initiate far more divorces than men and also are more likely to be the dumper in non-marital relationships too.
Male neurodivergence is closely related to incel outcomes. Female prevalence of BPD, depression, and anxiety won't cause a lack of sex for women. It's possible that these disorders would cause men to not commit to them exclusively, but that's a worse case scenario. A more common outcome for a woman with BPD, depression, or anxiety is a more unstable relationship history, often manifesting itself with a high notch count and relationships where they initiate the exit, often in a dramatic and/or messy manner.