HOMBRE said:
Oh and how come this site has what...two female members on here maybe? LS is WAY more balanced. And we don't call men names like you call women on here.
This site doesnt have that many female members, but the ones that are here, are what ccoudl be considered for the most part classy, intelligent, and well meaning. ALL of the female members here
give soemthing of VALUE to the forum members
ALL of them.
This is ultimately a MEN'S forum
This is not the same format as LS
The point HERE at SS.....is NOT to have a 'balanced' viewpoint , in the sense, that we are seeking information in the
SAME way as they do at LS.
Women can provide a
huge wealth of information in a great MANY circumstances.
But the point is this.
We do not look toward WOMEN to
GUIDE and RAISE Men,
grown adult Men.
Here, at SS, we do NOT subscribe of the idea of trying to do EVERYTHING a WOMAN WANTS, only what she
ultimately NEEDS.
Thus, many males, especially at LS, seek to LET THE WOMEN
DICTATE and
LEAD...
.....where as from a true, deep understanding of Male/Female dynamics, in the purest sense...this is
not productive and satisfying
Sure, we appreciate their insight into the dynamics, but we do not SEEK to make their WANTS our HIGHEST PURPOSE here at SS
So while many males seek to
CONFORM and
IDENTIFY with women...
at SS, men here seek to
find their TRUE Purpose and CALLING, and
LET a woman ALIGN herself to his masculinity.
We like women posting here...
we read and take heed of their insight.
But this is a man's forum, for men, BY men.
The ladies who post here
KNOW this.
And they CARE.
Everything from dating, relationships, bodybuilding, philosophy, and all sorts of problems and issues we face dealing with Women and in dealing with outr lives.
But ALL of it meant for a MALE AUDIENCE.
Some may disagree with the women's (and often
men's) points of view, but for the most part, it is ALL meant to help and BETTER a
man's life.
Whether they are giving advice or theuir perspective on the situation, the point is that the ladies ( and many men here) GIVE and POST things of help and
RELEVANCE.
Posters that dont, who only cut down others, who insult the membership her and offer nothing are just trolls whom have no reason other than to try to make others feel the shame and anger and resentment, and the lack of happiness in their lives...
I am not well informed of the "SoSuave LOVESHACK Raid" that went on.
But for the most part, the membership that did go through with the raid, went to try to "
wake up" the membership there.
This waking up is to make the men realzie certain things, that they have been banging their head against the wall.
Things like the pedastle, flowers, LJBF, dating, and what we call 'sympery'.
Now I know that many of these were not too friendly, and did use some strong langauge there..but the point was to make those men over there realize they
HAVE A CHOICE
It was trying to let men see an alternate viewpoint.
Sometimes, believe it or not, the mere thought of
FREEDOM is
TERRYFYING for some people.
So some people at LS got their feelings hurt.
Why?
because they realized that their reality is not as fulfilling as perhaps the SS perspective may be.
I cant see where there is a prevalence of SS dictating the calling of names.
I
can see that , this being a Men's forum, men will speak to each other in the locker room language meant for MEN ONLY
I will say this, the masculine men, whom
I know and admire, whom are like myself...
are
NEVER uncomfortable with MASCULINITY or other masculine men in general.
That is, we are confident and SECURE in ourselves,
and not THREATENED by other Men.
Which seems to be the norm at
LS.
Which seems to be the norm for symps whom have deep issues and deeply held beliefs which are unhealthy and toxic
The point is this....
HEALTHY Men, whom are secure , confident ,and masculine, are SECURE with their sexuality, with womens sexuality, and are perfectly comfortable with male/female energy socially.
In ANY circumstance or environment...
When one is SECURE..ONE accepts differing vewpoints and is NOT THREATENED by them.
When one is INSECURE, well.............this is what you are seeing now.
No one can dictate one's beliefs, so be careful of those who put down your beliefs and try to dicate what YOU SHOULD believe in.
The fact of the matter is this
LS is over flowing with the socalled Symps and 'nice guys'.
SS is NOT
So there is a clash of belief systems
The nice guys who are coming here to SS are suffering from intimidation, insecurity and
culture shock
They are used to the 'matrix' and those misguided an dtoxic beleifs
Like in the actual movie. many of the LSers do NOT
want to be disconnected
Thus, the resentment , and downright ANGER at SS ers for their wakening from their slumber
The Women whom post here, like the wonderful lady
Penkitten among others, have had many experiences and insight which they want to share to
help , heal, inform and direct men, of ANY age, here at SS.
These amazing women do NOT want men to be blinded and live in a fantasy world.
So they do not subscribe to the pedastle mentality and the notion of the man looked upon as only a Provisioner
They are also quite frank about topics such as masculine/femenine roles and traits that are desireable or not, sexuality, desire, and attraction.
.much to the dismay of the innocent 'nice guys' and symps so prevalent at LS
SS IS a sharp contrast and a REBELLION AGAINST what we here call the 'matrix.'
The simple fact thatt here is so much misunerstanding, and unhappiness begs for the need of an
outlet and RESOURCE to pool
knowledge and wisodm to
HELP , not be condescending,men whom want guidance ansd ANSWERS
SS is about
SEEKING TRUTH.........
Bottom line
Many males grew up in illusions, and resent anyone that DISCONNECTED
