IWillReturnsoon
Don Juan
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Balls are a part of the game son.Having "game" is more than that, its about versatility, being able to adapt to any environment. All the guys who approach and directly reveal their intentions DO NOT have game, they have balls.
And an upfront, straightforward guy can't?The guy who effectively learns how to spark a girl's emotional feelings and create attraction on a regular basis has game. There are MANY different methods that can be used to accomplish this, but in the end those guys are the ones who have game.
If i persisted...sure i could've used it effectively...but i didn't like it and decided to stop it. I just think indirect is not even necessary.Obviously you haven't learned how to effectively approach indirectly. And secondly what really sparks attraction in many women is the uncertainity. If you show just the right amount of interest, while still maintaininig the frame of your conversation she will be intrigued. In fact you said it yourself above, when you throw her for a loop, she will be interested and attracted if you did your job right.
Ha. Key word, "Mostly".Your showing your lack of knowledge on indirect game if you think they're only opinion and question openers.
Yet again i didn't say they didn't work. Where are u getting this? If i said it wastes time...yes...but i never said it didn't work. I even said Indirect usually will get u results faster...but at the same time...has a flaw.You can't just try a few indirect openers, and read about it in some e-book, then try to say it doesn't work, it works and it works VERY WELL.
I agree with this.But like I said its all based on the situation. There are definitely times when I'm direct and straight to the point, because that's the most effective approach in a situation. Then there are times where I'm indirect because of the situation.
A Constructive criticism would not be telling the person ur failing. Thats actual criticizing. If ur gonnna constructively criticize try doing it in a better way....just outright saying "You're pretty" is a horrible opener...is definitely not constructive...as its been proven to work.Greenlake should do whatever he wants to. But he's just starting out in the game. How long did he try indirect approaches for? Not very long if he truly did try. However for him to start a journal of his approaches and get defensive and butt-hurt when we are trying to provide constructive criticism to HELP HIM succeed is just retarded.
Once again, you got no proof in the future of his progress. Ur just assuming like usual.And "your pretty" IS and ALWAYS will be horrible a opener. Regardless of his congruency, his confidence or his style. And I'll call it right now, he will not get ANY hot girls using that opener.
3rd time, u got no proof of this in the future.He might get a few scrubs or uglies using that opener, but 7-9's....forget about it. If he changes his opener, the sky's the limit.
No...i read your point clearly, i just don't agree with it.Again your rambling and missing the point of my original statment.
Nope, i used you're pretty at first....and yes, i am a hansome guy...because i took an active effort to look better...many guys can look handsome if they do so. Greenlake is a handsome guy too.As an OPENER "your pretty" sucks!!!! You've said you used "your pretty" before and the girl lighted up. She was either already physically attracted to you, which creates value, or you mentioned "your pretty" after opening her up with something else.
How is "how you say it" rehashing? Its a fact of life for god sakes. Suppose u told ur friend, "You suck" in a joking manner...course the words don't mean much....its how u say it. SIMPLE.And again, don't re-hash old e-book stuff to me that's posted all over this site. Everyone knows that the way you say things is incredibly important.
Yes. Like i said, i just aint saying what u want me to say.Did you really read my previous post before you jumped to reply?
So then, if greenlake is doing what the other gurus did, then how is he failing?I specifically mentioned that everyone struggles in the beginning, before getting better.
The end hasn't even happened yet...ur still assuming....4th time.However in the end results are the barometer that is used to measure success from failure.
Yes...but he's doing his strategy his own way.I'm trying to make you realize that while I LOVE that Greenlake is trying to improve, his current strategy needs some adjustments. A few minor tweaks will make a world of difference.
Since u've explained urself further, i don't doubt ur credibility as much.I'm not here to prove myself to you or anyone for that matter. So if you doubt my credibility completely it wouldn't matter. When you read people's posts and replies on this board, you can easily tell which guys get girls and which guys don't.
And you think Greenlake hasn't adjusted anything? He's changing his mindset and the way he feels when he's about to approach...thats fine tuning. Just the opener is the same. He's constantly making adjustments, so what if he's getting rejected...doesn't mean he isnt' making any progress. Even if he'd finetune, he'd still get rejected...work on that being congruent.And your absolutely right, many of the world's best womanizers got rejected a hell of alot in the beginning; Mystery, Swingcat, Jugglar, Style etc. But wanna know a HUGE fundamental difference between them and Greenlake? They adjusted their game and figured out what they were doing wrong and what they needed to improve upon, they were open to suggestions.
Its proves more than ur fearless. It proves ur going for what u want, that u find her attractive...etc...That's absolutely wrong!! All that proves is you have no fear, it doesn't project anything to her other than that. Then when you open with "your pretty" it really goes downhill.
I forgot to mention this, u say ur pretty first...then eventually ur intention
Yes, in debates...there are still things both can see eye to eye onI agree with this completely.
Ur putting them on a pedastal being worried about creating value.Unforunately that's not how women think. If you don't learn how to effectively create value, quickly you'll strikeout.
Couldn't we say the same thing about u? ;-)Once again your putting your own spin on things.
You assume way too much. U should limit it.lol.That's not even close to what I was implying. I'm saying the only girls that Greenlake will get without creating value or rapport with his opener are $2.00 slvts that will be a hit and run situation. Meeting him the next day? LOL I doubt those chicks even know where they'll be sleeping that night.
And i've been telling u, u've got absolutely no proof of this in the future.Nothing wrong with that, but you keep shifting between Greenlake and "some guys." In fact I've been sitting here the whole time telling you that Greenlake will not fuvk one girl with his current opener.
Conquering approach anxiety is an important thing to Greenlake,But when I said that you said "I was too results oriented" and preeched about conquering approach anxiety.
You've got the word assumption written all over you, repeatedly saying Greenlake won't bang a girl using that opener.Again making assumptions, you should consider changing your username to that.
Absolutely.Women LOVE sex, infact in my opinion I think they're hornier than guys overall.
My mind is open...i just don't want to use indirect...doesn't mean im close minded for not doing so.If you opened your mind up other aspects of the game you might be able to understand what I'm trying to tell you.
i agree...it is essential, but not 100% a necessity.Actually I said that. Go back and read my first or second reply in this whole thread and you'll see that. However creating a certain level of rapport is ESSENTIAL to getting a day 2 with a girl.
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Girls can feel a spark even w/o rapport.Do you even know what rapport is?? When a girl says "I felt sparks flying" that's due to rapport!!!! Which led to attraction.
Yep, mostly because i wasn't too fond of it.You did it wrong then, you wasted your time by not knowing how to use indirect game correctly.
I agree with this, but hey...some guys don't care if they're banging sluts if they just want a fling. Nothing wrong with that.Like I said above, many women absolutely LOVE the mystery of everything in the beginning. That's what intrigues them, that's what makes them check their phone every 10 minutes, that's what keeps them ANTICIPATING the guy's next move. I'll definitely agree that there are times when the girl doesn't care at all about that, BUT those would be the $2.00 slvt-bags that are just good for one thing, learn the difference betweent the two in the context of my point.