zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
greenlake said:zerocelcius- Yea man, thanks for taking your time to post it. I really want this to become a mature talk and not turn into a kiddy argument. I can kinda tell it when someone is trying to help or trying mess me up. And I know you're trying to help and i'm always welcome for different opinion.
btw, I kinda disagree about the part that you say aobut girls knowing that you like them from the point you approach them and try to talk to them. not to be mean, but most girls are dumb. they can't figure out until you tell them or else they'll just think you're just being nice. I just saw a girl who I approached indirectly last semester at barnes and noble today. I was shocked when she told me she is married. and got 1 child. by telling her my interest from the start, i can give her options. if i dont, she got no choice but to talk to me.
and i also have to disagree about girls being approached alot. Maybe in the club...but not in day situation if a lot fo guys can do that then there wouldn't be such thing as "approach anxiety." If you don't believe me then read my last approached. the girl outright told me no one have ever approach them like this. but there can always be exception to this.
analytic- well said. I can't say any better.
iwillreturnsoon- thanks for comment on every single appraoch of mine. i hate to admit it, but i really want a lot of feed back at this time. Reading your comments really motivate me to work harder. because i know someone like you who appreciate my work. btw, i'm looking for a pink polo.:crackup:
I am trying to help, but I see you are set on your method. I know for a fact that hot girls get hit on almost everyday. My GF gets hit on at least once a day. That isn't in the club (she doesn’t like clubs...why am I with her...Ohh yea she's hot)... I used to get kind of mad but not anymore. Friday we went out and she got hit on every time I wasn't standing right next to her. So if you still want to believe that hot girls don't get hit on, all the time, than by all means do so.
Girls are naturally social superior to us (reading body language and spotting attraction/threats) they have to be. Their primal drive is to naturally select the best mate. Guys just want to select every mate (primal). Why do you think we need a site like this? Girls have been playing “House” since they could walk. Guys played Army or Cops & Robbers. You don't even need to talk to a girl for her to know if you are attracted to her or not.
As far as the other guys saying "your hot let me get your #” what is the difference? “Your hot can I get your #” and “Your cute can I hang out with you” sound a lot alike to me.
I never said Greenlake was dumb. I never will either. I think he is smart and from his FRs I think he has King Kong Balls! I also never said he is doing anything wrong (fundamentally.) I only said by approaching this way he is only going to get the same response. He has proved it with his FRs. Same Approach same results. I am not going to go out and DA like this. I have tried it and I got the same results he is getting. I changed my game and now I have a Sizzling GF that gets hit on all the time. They say the same thing that I used to, and Greenlake is saying. "Hey your hot, you want to hang out"?
I am trying to help. If you don't want me to help just say so, and I will never post on your thread again. Simple as that. I do hope that you get what you want out of this. You have mad skill and you have nerves of steel.
Sarge On!