The plight of African Americans in game

[Demonpenz]

Black guys have to overcome so much. They really have to be 2x times better than white guys in everything. The ones that do make it are strong as hell from all that character building.

 

[HumbleNinja]

I'm quite convinced your "hot white wife" gargles some highly uneducated thugged out black guy's sperm on a daily basis and immediately kisses you after. The level of whining you do is unbearable. Log off this site and be with your Wife man.

Oh sh1t! I'm sensing some black on black attacks coming in the following replies! WorldStar! WorldStar! WorldStar!

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Question? Where does the stereotype of all black guys being ***** slayers come from. Is it just a scapegoat most white guys resort to? I do not any black guy that is a ***** slayer unless he is a thug lol.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Black guys have to overcome so much. They really have to be 2x times better than white guys in everything. The ones that do make it are strong as hell from all that character building.

.....Not really. At least not when it comes to dating.

Every Asian, Indian, or Black man will point at a white guy that looks like Bradly Cooper and say: "See? Look how easy it is for him! He can get p*ssy just by smiling".

Then they will use that as an example to say being white is a cakewalk and every white guy is swimming in hot p*ssy and can't keep the ladies off of him. However this is not the reality.

Attractive men who have value will always have more options than men who lack value. Regardless of race.

Most minorities who can't get laid are faggots. Just like the white ones who can't get laid. FAGGOTS who want a hug. FAGGOTS who pedestalize women. FAGGOTS who spend more time moaning and b!tching about life with their hard luck stories than working hard to become the best man they can be (not to get women.. but for THEMSELVES).

The average modern woman is trash. Yet so many men are desperately chasing them. What does that say about those men? --> It says they are faggots. :crackup:

DJ's can get laid. DJ's come in all colors and races. Faggots can't get laid. Case closed (as Nismo-4 would say).

 

[( . )( . )]

Question? Where does the stereotype of all black guys being ***** slayers come from.

From the same people who brought you 4 + decades of continual bombardment of how great and empowering it is for white (gentile) women to ditch the family and pair bonding in favour of the cubicle and the carousel.

You know who.

 

[goodganji44]

I'm quite convinced your "hot white wife" gargles some highly uneducated thugged out black guy's sperm on a daily basis and immediately kisses you after. The level of whining you do is unbearable. Log off this site and be with your Wife man.

Why are you so focused on what Backbreaker is doing. This is at least twice that you've tried your tough guy keyboard talk and even going out of your way to post pics to show in front of a bunch of MEN. Since you're in the business of telling people what to do, I'll tell you this. Post something constructive or stfu.

 

[Solomon]

Most minorities who can't get laid are faggots. Just like the white ones who can't get laid. FAGGOTS who want a hug. FAGGOTS who pedestalize women. FAGGOTS who spend more time moaning and b!tching about

I disagree with this STRONG GENERALIZATION. There some guys who don't make getting laid a prioity I know a few and their doing quite well in other aspects of life and whats your obsession with the word "faggot"? "Faggot" this "Faggot" that, strong projection mate' just saying.

Why are you so focused on what Backbreaker is doing. This is at least twice that you've tried your tough guy keyboard talk and even going out of your way to post pics to show in front of a bunch of MEN. Since you're in the business of telling people what to do, I'll tell you this. Post something constructive or stfu.

Some people just wanna watch the world burn

:crazy:

 

[nismo-4]

Btw backbreaking you been to Atlanta? I heard is severely worse down there and you gotta be some sort of nfl player or rapper to pull.

I live in Atlanta, and White women like men with success IN THE NOW, not this "working man trying to come up" type shyt. I really don't go for white women these days anyway.

If you're not rich or attractive, you've got an uphill battle. I can't stand Atlanta women, and the minute I become successful, I'm moving the f**k out of there. Many Atlanta women are gold diggers and flakes.

The fact is, men value love, women love value.

Case closed. I get the feeling someone beat me to the punch.

 

[PlayHer Man]

I disagree with this STRONG GENERALIZATION. There some guys who don't make getting laid a prioity I know a few and their doing quite well in other aspects of life and whats your obsession with the word "faggot"? "Faggot" this "Faggot" that, strong projection mate' just saying.

:crazy:

I call it like I see it bro.

Men who cry over worthless women and pedestalize them are faggots.

Also.. if getting laid is NOT a man's priority.. then WHY on earth would he be b!tching out how white women won't f*ck him? Its not a priority.. so why you crying?

At the same time.. if getting laid is his priority.. then WHY on earth doesn't he get off his faggot ass and make it happen.. instead of crying?

I'm right and you know it. But its easier to have a pity party over your situation than it is to change your situation.

 

[backbreaker]

your doing it againt playher man. you are the main culput of this

you keep saying

hen WHY on earth would he be b!tching out how white women won't f*ck him? I

you don't seem to understand that i'm not talking about white women. i'm talking about WOMEN.


black women, have just as much disdain for intelligent preppy black males a white women do. Actually if anything it's wrose. White women, just are indifferent to normal preppy black dudes. Black women, actually disdain them and think they are uncle tom's. This is the concept that most white people can't fathom and why this thread is 6 page long.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Arguing with white people about racial issues is just as good as yelling at a brick wall. According to their ancestors, wanting to escape from slavery meant you had a mental illness.

 

[backbreaker]

You are correct, you don't get it. I would not expect you to. you are correct, every race has their own issues with dating hence why my title of the thread is "the plight of African Americans in game" . This thread was started to talk about those issues. There is some **** about being white and gaming women that black people will never understand, you say this like it's a slight against white people or something that you don't understand every single issue that every race not yours has.


I have every possible advantage over just about everyone on this thread; i drive a 80k car, I have a 4 bedroom house in a upscale part of town, I'm good looking, I'm funny, I have game and I'm in great shape. I do great with women of all races.



But I've BEEN in the field. I've lived in the south, trying to game women who don't look like me, having to overcompensate just to play ball at all. I've seen the facet go dry with my own race when i traded in the timberlands for spurrys and traded in the Blueprint for Sonny Side Up.


It made me think, you know what's funny, is that growing up, like i had braids at one point down to my lower back i had very long braids, not nappy braids real braids, i had all types of designs in my hair, usually i had fishbone braids like this

http://photobucket.com/images/fishbone braids

and i had at least 5 diffent pair of timberlands, all types of colors, gray, blue, red, orange, tan. I was "thugged out". i had my sound system in my car. It went beyond pulling ass. I pulled ass. Girls of all races, threw themselves at me. Even after i stopped playing basketball i had NO problem getting dates. I worked at best buy as a tech there and i could have dated just about every girl that worked there. lol **** i just about did. 2 white girls, 1 black and one native american. When i say i had NO problem ATTRACTING women tha'ts not why i came here. Even the girl that brought me here was original ATTRACTED to me.

It's like every last girl i met, loved me and we would date and then they would find out, i'm not the guy i portrayed myself to be. I was actually quite smart, I wasn't hard, I wasn't "tough". The girl that I dated for 8 months in high school when she cheated on me, actually blamed it on me for not being "hard enough". I actually had a ex girlfriend tell me i wasn't thug enough. I went around and I mean, when i was in high school i looked the part buddy. I'd wear red timbos and some Fat Albert jeans with a red / white Detroit Red Wings Jersey with a white bandana on my head with a White / Red Cap tilted to the side, i was ****ing pimp lol. women ate that **** up. of all races.


But when girls would find out that i wasn't a thug, i was really a nerd who dressed like a thug lol, they ran the other way.


I had never had any trouble at all getting dates from women until i changed my look and started dressing/ acting like i felt in my late teens / early 20's. Then women weren't throwing themselves at me anymore.

Now i don't have that problem and i'm able to be the guy who i want to be and still attract women, but i've had that problem and no, it's not something i would expect you tog et. Buddy the day you have a girl of your own race that stood you up on your 8 month anniversary to get a train ran on her by a bunch of gang bangers, only to call you and tell you the next day that you are the one with the problem and that you need to be more thuggish, is the day you can sit here and tell me that yo u"get it".


I Guess why this pisses me off so much is that and what is being overlooked is that guys like myself, solomon, warrior, joe, we could have just as easily said **** it. I KNEW what women WANTED someone like me to look like, act like. I could have easily just said **** it and did that. i was pulling some pretty decent tail with my act in my teenage years. I could have at any point taken some money went to the store and bought some jeans and some timberlands and changed the wardrobe up, changed the CD collection on the car and been right back in the game, but i, Solomon, warrior, etc al, refused to confirm just to get laid. that's admirable. I wanted to get laid bu t not at the cost of my self respect and knowing what i knew then / now, going back to being something i'm not would have not been acceptable.

But then you are left with a new set of issues; how do I get laid being the person i really want to be when no one wants me to be the person i really want to be lol? That's what we are here discussing.

 

[sylvester the cat]

You are correct, you don't get it. I would not expect you to. you are correct, every race has their own issues with dating hence why my title of the thread is "the plight of African Americans in game" . This thread was started to talk about those issues. There is some **** about being white and gaming women that black people will never understand, you say this like it's a slight against white people or something that you don't understand every single issue that every race not yours has.


I have every possible advantage over just about everyone on this thread; i drive a 80k car, I have a 4 bedroom house in a upscale part of town, I'm good looking, I'm funny, I have game and I'm in great shape. I do great with women of all races.



But I've BEEN in the field. I've lived in the south, trying to game women who don't look like me, having to overcompensate just to play ball at all. I've seen the facet go dry with my own race when i traded in the timberlands for spurrys and traded in the Blueprint for Sonny Side Up.


It made me think, you know what's funny, is that growing up, like i had braids at one point down to my lower back i had very long braids, not nappy braids real braids, i had all types of designs in my hair, usually i had fishbone braids like this

http://photobucket.com/images/fishbone braids

and i had at least 5 diffent pair of timberlands, all types of colors, gray, blue, red, orange, tan. I was "thugged out". i had my sound system in my car. It went beyond pulling ass. I pulled ass. Girls of all races, threw themselves at me. Even after i stopped playing basketball i had NO problem getting dates. I worked at best buy as a tech there and i could have dated just about every girl that worked there. lol **** i just about did. 2 white girls, 1 black and one native american. When i say i had NO problem ATTRACTING women tha'ts not why i came here. Even the girl that brought me here was original ATTRACTED to me.

It's like every last girl i met, loved me and we would date and then they would find out, i'm not the guy i portrayed myself to be. I was actually quite smart, I wasn't hard, I wasn't "tough". The girl that I dated for 8 months in high school when she cheated on me, actually blamed it on me for not being "hard enough". I actually had a ex girlfriend tell me i wasn't thug enough. I went around and I mean, when i was in high school i looked the part buddy. I'd wear red timbos and some Fat Albert jeans with a red / white Detroit Red Wings Jersey with a white bandana on my head with a White / Red Cap tilted to the side, i was ****ing pimp lol. women ate that **** up. of all races.


But when girls would find out that i wasn't a thug, i was really a nerd who dressed like a thug lol, they ran the other way.


I had never had any trouble at all getting dates from women until i changed my look and started dressing/ acting like i felt in my late teens / early 20's. Then women weren't throwing themselves at me anymore.

Now i don't have that problem and i'm able to be the guy who i want to be and still attract women, but i've had that problem and no, it's not something i would expect you tog et. Buddy the day you have a girl of your own race that stood you up on your 8 month anniversary to get a train ran on her by a bunch of gang bangers, only to call you and tell you the next day that you are the one with the problem and that you need to be more thuggish, is the day you can sit here and tell me that yo u"get it".


I Guess why this pisses me off so much is that and what is being overlooked is that guys like myself, solomon, warrior, joe, we could have just as easily said **** it. I KNEW what women WANTED someone like me to look like, act like. I could have easily just said **** it and did that. i was pulling some pretty decent tail with my act in my teenage years. I could have at any point taken some money went to the store and bought some jeans and some timberlands and changed the wardrobe up, changed the CD collection on the car and been right back in the game, but i, Solomon, warrior, etc al, refused to confirm just to get laid. that's admirable. I wanted to get laid bu t not at the cost of my self respect and knowing what i knew then / now, going back to being something i'm not would have not been acceptable.

But then you are left with a new set of issues; how do I get laid being the person i really want to be when no one wants me to be the person i really want to be lol? That's what we are here discussing.

oh mate you are wasted in the USofA.

the ladies would love you over here:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b00lc92lExw

 

[PlayHer Man]

your doing it againt playher man. you are the main culput of this

you keep saying



you don't seem to understand that i'm not talking about white women. i'm talking about WOMEN.


black women, have just as much disdain for intelligent preppy black males a white women do. Actually if anything it's wrose. White women, just are indifferent to normal preppy black dudes. Black women, actually disdain them and think they are uncle tom's. This is the concept that most white people can't fathom and why this thread is 6 page long.

This response just proves how clueless you are Backbreaker.. hot white wife or not. :crackup:

Many of you are clueless and your frustration stems from your ignorance. This frustration also proves you are beta and thus not attractive to most women ANYWAY.

Allow me to tell you who gets to f*ck women and who doesn't:

- Men who make her taco tingle will get to f*ck her
- Men who raise her status in the pack will get to f*ck her
- Men she can exploit via having sex will get to f*ck her
- Men who have something she wants and can't get from other men will get to f*ck her
- Any man with real or perceived value in her eyes will get to f*ck her

Its not an issue of being black, Asian, Indian, White or Hispanic as much as its an issue of what she believes are the BENEFITS of f*cking you. If there are none.. then she won't. This applies to 100% of women of all races.

If a woman doesn't want a nerdy black guy.. its not because he is black. Its because he lacks one or all of the things I listed above.

Its really that simple. Also.. wanting women who don't want you automatically makes you low value. The man should always care LESS than the woman. ALWAYS. I say this weekly. So if you care more about being with women than women care about being with you.. the game is already lost. Start over.

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@ Solomon below

Show me where I have ever said p*ssy is my #1 priority.

I have a sex drive and a strong disdain for feeling powerless. So I totally made it a goal to find a way to get p*ssy on MY TERMS instead of having to desperately chase it. I've reached a pretty good place. For me women are pure fun. I enjoy f*cking them, flirting with them and abusing them when they try to screw me over. Not to say they NEVER stress me out. But overall I'm happy where I am.

I post here to encourage men to take their power back. Because they CAN if they really want to. They just need to stop being such faggots who need hugs. And yes.. they need to be a little ruthless at times.

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[PrettyBoyAJ]

To BB

Every girl goes through a phase of their life where they are rebellious and are attracted to "thugs". This is why in HS all those girls were attracted to you. But when they grow more mature they start to look for thorough dudes. I gurantee you you dress like that now the only girls your going to get are dusty bvtchs that aren't about sh1t.

 

[Solomon]

I call it how I experience it....3,000 approaches deep!

I call it like I see it bro.

Men who cry over worthless women and pedestalize them are faggots.

Also.. if getting laid is NOT a man's priority.. then WHY on earth would he be b!tching out how white women won't f*ck him? Its not a priority.. so why you crying?

At the same time.. if getting laid is his priority.. then WHY on earth doesn't he get off his faggot ass and make it happen.. instead of crying?

I'm right and you know it. But its easier to have a pity party over your situation than it is to change your situation.

Erm last time I checked a faggot was slang for a homosexual or if you From Britain mate (Croydon stand up!) it's slang for a cigarette bud.

GETTING LAID SHOULD NEVER BE A #1 PRIORITY ABOVE YOUR HEALTH AND BETTERING YOURSELF(FITNESS, RESOURCES, SPIRITUALITY ETC)

Women should be there to enhance your life and not be the focus of it

Don't get me wrong getting laid is important NO QUESTION ABOUT THAT. But if you spin plates like you claim regularly and bang a certain amount of chicks per week getting laid becomes boring quick(trust me I know this very well)

The problem is guy's make it the holy grail of this site. This is the typical mindset of a gamer/or Noob, because he seeks validation through sex or bettering his ego. This is the reason why a lot of us can't even agree on simple things on this forum because we let that get in the way of progress.

Because there is so much emphasis in today's society for people to have sex, it causes that to overwhelm the ego of every person exposed to it. "It" being the influence to have sex. We are typically brainwashed by advertisements and media into thinking sex is super important in life. And although sex is actually important, people tend to tackle sex from the direction of lust and satisfaction, opposed to the direction of love and compromise.

In summary: The ego is obsessed with sex. The more consciousness you acquire, the less you find yourself being controlled by your ego. The less you ego controls you, the more you start to see the world through your OWN eyes and not the collective eyes of society.

Playherman you remind me of one of my wings. I've spoken about him before the guy doesn't care about anything but to get laid. He doesn't have any real friends or hobbies (besides running). Probably one of the best guys I'V ever seen infield. The guy is ruthless when it comes to puzzy, he's an assassin.. He lives in a nice part of town. But because he makes it his main goal to get laid. He has no interest and eventually women get bored, good sex alone won't keep a woman around.

The problem is putting puzzy as a number 1 priority is in fact putting it on a pedestal! I have seen guys (guys I've met on here and this forum) make puzzy their number one goal in life. Some of these guys have no hobbies, no goals, no money etc. And guess what even though they can get puzzy they can't keep it around for long, and this drives to constantly try acquire more. It's like seeing a dog chase his own tail

(No need of me posting that video of a high repped 10 plus year sosuave member having a mental breakdown in the middle of a rooftop bar again for the 500th time :crackup: )

On another note(not to get off topic) a lot of guys would be better off learning about "Sexual Transmutation" simultaneously as they learn on how to improve themselves. I spoke about it in another thread. This is slowly starting to gain cloud here with things like "No Fap" it's a form of it. Lot of men have already experience the power of "No Fap". If you don't know what ST is take a look here

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=29745

 

[sylvester the cat]

You are wasting precious sexual energy every time you type/fap on this discussion forum. fornication is not just of the sexual variety. most of it is psychological.

 

[backbreaker]

To BB

Every girl goes through a phase of their life where they are rebellious and are attracted to "thugs". This is why in HS all those girls were attracted to you. But when they grow more mature they start to look for thorough dudes. I gurantee you you dress like that now the only girls your going to get are dusty bvtchs that aren't about sh1t.

There is some truth to this, in particular with the white girls i was dating in high school, but even as an adult the few black chicks i would go out with within 1-2 days i would always get "you act white" when in reality i don't i just don't act "black" . The thing is though i had enough going for me to overlook it. Black women in their 20's want a referomed / grown up thug. I'm not that either.

 

[C-quenced]

I'm Native American, Norwegian/German/Spanish, black and appear like a much younger version of Troy Polamalu. I don't know if women of other races find the "African American" look anymore or less attractive than others but I personally find white women to be the easiest for me to attract (though I prefer latina's with tanned skin, dark hair, beautiful faces and perfectly round asses and ironically the women I prefer are the ones I find near impossible to have). Anyways I know where some of the guys here are coming from as there is some sort of pre-programmed resistance among all non black females towards black males. It does exist. Strangely enough I even had non black females verbally tell me that they really aren't all that attracted to black men yet they'll still mess around with me.

If anything I find men of all races (black and white included) being overly defensive of their white women around me especially if they become aware of their beloved trophies throwing smiles my way and making inappropriate eye contact while the man is around. I think it's a rather sad state.

 

[FairShake]

Yeah I agree. Granted black chicks seem to get fat early on like white southern chicks but there are some hot ones. You never see white guys with hot black women even though a lot of white guys would go for it.

Alot of black women hate dating white men. Period. Not all, but most. They don't like dating any other race besides black but they really hate dating white guys. I personally feel like they don't trust us very much. When you consider how they are jerked around in the dating market and how opening up to other races would give them some power you can only come to the conclusion that they really love black men OR they really hate white men. Probably both.

So generally, if you are a white dude who prefers black women you are way more s.o.l. than other races. Except maybe asian guys who prefer asian women sadly enough.

http://qz.com/149342/the-uncomfortable-racial-preferences-revealed-by-online-dating/