Solomon
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4north1side2 said:
brb good looking aesthetic black guy claims to be nerdy and telling everyone to step their game up
:crackup:
Na but real talk brah I can't hate you look good (No homo)
I give props where it's due
The plight of African Americans in game
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brb good looking aesthetic black guy claims to be nerdy and telling everyone to step their game up
:crackup:
Na but real talk brah I can't hate you look good (No homo)
I give props where it's due
cordoncordon
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Oh look it's Kevin Durant posting on So Sauve.4north1side2 said:
backbreaker
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nevermind. lots of good points being made.
My entire purpose of making this post was not to rant. I don't give a damn lol I'm married. But, I mean, "suck it up bro" doesn't address every issue out there and this is one of those issues.
I mean, I've been there. Sometimes you just got to be told the truth in the most blunt manner possible. If you live in, Mississippi, and you are black and you want to date white chicks because there is a serious shortage of good looking black chicks in your area, you either need to 1. move or 2. become a serious, catch to have constant success with other races. Keep in mind, the girl that brought me here, was really Hispanic, not white. I'm not talking about just white women. You got to become a guy that girls really really want to get with. That's the end game. It should be the end game for ALL but for guys like us, there is no fall back *****.
There is no need in getting bitter, angry, frustrated, resentful any of that. Just roll your sleeves up and work. And move lol.
My entire purpose of making this post was not to rant. I don't give a damn lol I'm married. But, I mean, "suck it up bro" doesn't address every issue out there and this is one of those issues.
I mean, I've been there. Sometimes you just got to be told the truth in the most blunt manner possible. If you live in, Mississippi, and you are black and you want to date white chicks because there is a serious shortage of good looking black chicks in your area, you either need to 1. move or 2. become a serious, catch to have constant success with other races. Keep in mind, the girl that brought me here, was really Hispanic, not white. I'm not talking about just white women. You got to become a guy that girls really really want to get with. That's the end game. It should be the end game for ALL but for guys like us, there is no fall back *****.
There is no need in getting bitter, angry, frustrated, resentful any of that. Just roll your sleeves up and work. And move lol.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
2nd point tho
What if I got a great job in Mississppi making 6 figures and cost living is better?
You're telling me just to move cause of puzzy?
Kna brah I can't co-sign that
But I do agree with being a catch hence why I'm still on SS but will be leaving soon (again)
backbreaker said:
What if I got a great job in Mississppi making 6 figures and cost living is better?
You're telling me just to move cause of puzzy?
Kna brah I can't co-sign that
But I do agree with being a catch hence why I'm still on SS but will be leaving soon (again)
Most of the complaints i see are black dudes who get upset cause they cant attract a white chick then blame white chicks for being superficial. But its hypocritical because they want nothing to do with black chicks.
Im white and ive encountered some pretty hott black chicks before. Idk if its taboo or "not cool" if blacl dudes dont date white girls or what.
Theres this black chick that works at mgm casino in detroit at some bar there. I would wife her up over 99% of the white chicks i see daily. I got drunk once and told her i wanted to marry her as i was leaving once lmao
Im white and ive encountered some pretty hott black chicks before. Idk if its taboo or "not cool" if blacl dudes dont date white girls or what.
Theres this black chick that works at mgm casino in detroit at some bar there. I would wife her up over 99% of the white chicks i see daily. I got drunk once and told her i wanted to marry her as i was leaving once lmao
PlayHer Man
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Black girls are just as obsessed with status as others. Most of them view white guys as men to MARRY. They don't want to be a "fetish f*ck" or a plate for a white guy. They want all or nothing.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Therefore.. most of them just avoid white guys because they are too insecure to deal with just being a f*ck toy. They want to marry him and have kids with light skin.
The vast majority of black women I've seen in RELATIONSHIPS with white guys are with EXTREME beta fags. A white guy needs to be extra devoted and whipped to gain a black girl's "trust".
I tell you.. the more you understand the minds of b!tches the less you respect them. This is why the pedestalization I see all day everyday blows my mind. :crazy:
Sex and reproduction gentlemen.
PlayHer Man
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100% spot on.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
The thing about black girls is they are the most insecure women on the planet. I've met very few secure ones. They have a STRONG fear of abandonment and rejection. Especially by high quality men (they fear they will never meet another one). So they often close themselves off and act like c*nts as a defense mechanism.
Insecure.
Maximus Rex
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I Understand Your Point, But
The original premise of my thread was that brothas who realize that they do have a problem and are willing to the things that are necessary to remedy that problem. Some of those things are (and to the dismay of very women who shunned and clowned you,) dating outside of you race, or doing something like this, seeking consul on a message, buying a book, or even paying racks to a guru's company to learn the techniques to improve your success. It seems (I'm my opinion,) that the white, Asian, and to a certain extent the Hispanic communities are a little less critical of men their communities seeking these solutions and as in the black communities, the response is more or less, "WTF?" Even among those who will admitted to being deficient in this area, they'll languish in f*cked up relationships with baby's mama's and fat chicks before they would come to a site like this, read a book, or listen to Tariq Elite Radio or Harry's show.
If "academically inclined" black females do not go for black men, then who do they go for?
Thugs, gangsters, hoodlums, miscreants, social deviants, men with several children with several different women, and just straight up irresponsible muthaf*ckas.
The original premise of my thread was that brothas who realize that they do have a problem and are willing to the things that are necessary to remedy that problem. Some of those things are (and to the dismay of very women who shunned and clowned you,) dating outside of you race, or doing something like this, seeking consul on a message, buying a book, or even paying racks to a guru's company to learn the techniques to improve your success. It seems (I'm my opinion,) that the white, Asian, and to a certain extent the Hispanic communities are a little less critical of men their communities seeking these solutions and as in the black communities, the response is more or less, "WTF?" Even among those who will admitted to being deficient in this area, they'll languish in f*cked up relationships with baby's mama's and fat chicks before they would come to a site like this, read a book, or listen to Tariq Elite Radio or Harry's show.
If "academically inclined" black females do not go for black men, then who do they go for?
Thugs, gangsters, hoodlums, miscreants, social deviants, men with several children with several different women, and just straight up irresponsible muthaf*ckas.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
As a white guy who has banged a handful of black chicks -I can say they aren't really that hard to get into bed.
Hell, I've had sexy black women tell me "i like white guys, they just never flirt with me." And the fact that I was flirting with them, was good enough.
None of these girls were the ghetto type though (one was an amateur model/clothes designer).
(the girl i talk about in #1 in this thread was black; I also consider her a top 10 in looks that I've banged) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=173947
Hell, I've had sexy black women tell me "i like white guys, they just never flirt with me." And the fact that I was flirting with them, was good enough.
None of these girls were the ghetto type though (one was an amateur model/clothes designer).
(the girl i talk about in #1 in this thread was black; I also consider her a top 10 in looks that I've banged) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=173947
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Can't rep you again but solid post. Bragging about "filed reports" is a form of pedestalizing. If you derive a sense of "pride" from laying women, it means that you see pvssy as some kind of an achievement...a prize to be won. Personally, I see women and sex as a fulfilment of my physical needs. Not much different from eating, drinking or taking a dump.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Spoken like a typical person who hasn't written a field report or doesn't read them. The purpose for FR's allow you to track or monitor your progress whether you're trying to approach a 100 women or put the the theory into use or just wanna brush up on game and improve. To say that writing a field report is to pedestalize yourself is humorous. There guys who wanna take initiative to improve and not just talk a good talk, but actually walk the walk as well (ALPHA!!)Bokanovsky said:
"WITHOUT THE PRACTITIONER THE THEORY CAN'T BE PROVEN"
YOU NEED THE PRACTITIONER BECAUSE HE IS THE ONE ABLE TO SHOW THAT THEORY WORKS AND ALSO THAT SELF-IMPROVEMENT ISN'T SOME MUMBO JUMBO JUST WRITTEN BY A BUNCH OF KBJ'S WON DON'T PRACTICE WHAT THEY PREACH
What good is theory if you don't know how to apply it? for some of us we need read/watch/etc to see what's being talked about.
For some guys who are Noob's rhetoric post only go so far. We all learn different and being able to read someone else's struggles/success or how they approach a situation serves a great template to start of.
This is human nature, humans have passed stories since the beginning of time.
When I read journals I wanted to see examples of things I was struggling with and how someone else overcame these things. They were priceless and allowed me to progress right away because I was able to deem what was congruent and chuck the rest away
Sosuave has some excellent Journals that do this
From one guy approaching a 100 women in a day
Another guy going from a Beta schlub to an Alpha stud
To a guy losing his virginity in a hilarious epic fashion
Pride comes from seeing your progression (as it should cause anyone who has been out knows it's hard as hell to do this shyt) when you read a report and go from point A to B and now at C etc. It's one of the most fulfilling moments but FR's are not appreciated here just theory talk and rhetoric/Political nonsense etc and this is why the site in the last 4 years has regressed in a lot of areas instead of progressed
We all learn differently. For me the stuff Pook talked about didn't make sense until after one year of approaching women, being in a relationship etc. I had to go out and experience things. A lot of guys do the opposite they wanna read then go out and expect things to fall into place with their lives/women then give up when they realize It doesn't work like that. Took me a year of trail and error for me to understand what Pook meant so I was able to take it up a notch.
There are jewels to be found
MY "FR's" are now my calorie counter and my gym journal. We don't call a guy who works out and logs his workouts as a pedealitizer even if he bench pressed 300 pounds and brags about on a bodybuilding website(or in our own health and fitness section)??? It's about the work and anyone who has put in the work knows it's not easy
backbreaker
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I don't think you guys get it. at least most of you. either you aren't reading or you have reading comprehension skills
THIS IS NOT A OH SHACKS, WHITE GIRLS DON'T LIKE ME SO I'M GOING TO GO ONLINE AND CRY LIKE A LITTLE ***** POST.
1. I'm married. To a white woman no less.
2. White women DO like black guys.
Everyone here is quick to jump on the interracial part of the post but please note, my title stated THE PLIGHT OF THE AFRICAN AMERICANS IN GAME. It did not state "black guys can't get laid by white women" or "what do black guys have to do date white women"
Getting back on the original topic, and to expond upon point 2 i made above, danger, bible belt, others have pointed out, white women are quite fond of a A PARTICULAR TYPE OF BLACK GUY. As are black women, as are pretty much all women.
The premise of this post is, what do you do if you aren't that guy? Very few have attempted to answer that question in a serious manner. Too many have flame and started black - white flame wars, too many have sat here and talked about all the black / white chicks they've boned, that's not what i'm trying to say and that's not the point of the post. There isn't a niche of nerdy hot college age chicks to take up the slack for the not thuggish black guy.
Seriously, short of, becoming rich, if you are born without drop dead handsome good looks, what the **** is a pretty intelligent black male to do when the VAST majority of black women don't' want him, white women don't want him, what is he going to do? wait and become a beta chump for some washed up ran down 35 year old black mother of 4? you wouldn't tell your white counterparts to settle for tha t****, so give me a real answer?
My only solution was to become great. seriously great. but not everyone can be great. not everyone WANTS to be great. What are some practical things you can do if you are in this situation.
THIS IS NOT A OH SHACKS, WHITE GIRLS DON'T LIKE ME SO I'M GOING TO GO ONLINE AND CRY LIKE A LITTLE ***** POST.
1. I'm married. To a white woman no less.
2. White women DO like black guys.
Everyone here is quick to jump on the interracial part of the post but please note, my title stated THE PLIGHT OF THE AFRICAN AMERICANS IN GAME. It did not state "black guys can't get laid by white women" or "what do black guys have to do date white women"
Getting back on the original topic, and to expond upon point 2 i made above, danger, bible belt, others have pointed out, white women are quite fond of a A PARTICULAR TYPE OF BLACK GUY. As are black women, as are pretty much all women.
The premise of this post is, what do you do if you aren't that guy? Very few have attempted to answer that question in a serious manner. Too many have flame and started black - white flame wars, too many have sat here and talked about all the black / white chicks they've boned, that's not what i'm trying to say and that's not the point of the post. There isn't a niche of nerdy hot college age chicks to take up the slack for the not thuggish black guy.
Seriously, short of, becoming rich, if you are born without drop dead handsome good looks, what the **** is a pretty intelligent black male to do when the VAST majority of black women don't' want him, white women don't want him, what is he going to do? wait and become a beta chump for some washed up ran down 35 year old black mother of 4? you wouldn't tell your white counterparts to settle for tha t****, so give me a real answer?
My only solution was to become great. seriously great. but not everyone can be great. not everyone WANTS to be great. What are some practical things you can do if you are in this situation.
The black dudes im associated with who pull white girls are tall and jacked. One of them is dating a hott bartender. Hes a personal trainer.
Guess it goes to show with all the other advice on this site. Take care of yourself and your look, and you will pull the type of girl you want, regardless of color.
Guess it goes to show with all the other advice on this site. Take care of yourself and your look, and you will pull the type of girl you want, regardless of color.
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Than I wouldn't be on this site ******* all the time. It is all location that matters like backbreaker said. The very few girls I pulled were girls that either transferred from another state or girls not from the typical rich suburb everybody else is from. They care more about what their friends will think and peer pressure than their actual values. To answer back breakers question, you just have to take it until you are able to get out of the shvt hole you are in. At least I graduate in a year and a half.jay07 said:
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I can't speak for anyone else but for mebackbreaker said:
I was that guy that you speak of at one point, and now not so much
Sure I have my moments but I wanna get that dagger back....
Hitting the gym is my main focus, my solution is the same as yours to become great again it's the only way. This is universal not just for black guys but white guys as well become great and it all falls into place
Pook was talking about this shyt 10 years ago and now more then ever does this apply.
That's all I can say, and this is probably my last post in this thread
Peace
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i'm laughing, but i seriously do not know one black person who is college educated that actually chose to stay in Arkansas while single. every black guy i know runs for California, atlanta or houston/dallas.Dhoulmagus said:
HumbleNinja
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backbreaker said:
If some black dudes aren't the type of black dude chicks go for I'd say you need to do the same thing as the nice guy /a-hole combo.
Don't be a pushover nor an a-hole.
Dress and groom your best. WORK OUT and get a six pack. (Like a well dressed groomed black Clark Kent. Looks like a "nice" guy, is well dressed/ groomed but "sheds" his nice guy persona/outfit for the chicks and they go berserk seeing the black Superman instead who isn't fvcking around.)
Do not pedestalize chicks. Treat them like any other person depending on how they are to you or how you feel at the time.
Throw chicks for a loop that you are a successful, intelligent, well groomed, working out etc. black man who's looks are deciving and doesn't pedestalize nor take sh1t in part as a sterotypical black thug would do. (As in may look like the 'house boy' but don't get it twisted.) *I think chicks don't expect that as they all see black dudes as thugs or have to have a certain look to be taken "seriously".
It's like: Black dude who doesn't dress or "act" like a thug = looks like a typical "nice guy" who "falls in line" trying to be like the "man".
Or the thug: doesn't care, fvcks and chucks, doesn't take sh1t, doesn't pedestalize chicks and is an a-hole. = A-hole "real sterotypical" black man.
You have to mix and match both and be the best of both qualities without being a doormat or seen as one nor a lowlife.
Otherwise as the great Loaded Lux has said: You're just another lost "N"..
