That’s because you are emotionally invested.
The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)
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This exactly . They will make excuses for themselves for cheating ie he didn’t pay enough attention , buy me gifts , didn’t love me etc to justify their actions . Don’t fall for this .
How about this one?
dont contact me again . I don’t want to speak to you anymore .
or maybe reverse psychology:
baby I love you so much . I miss you so much . Please come and see me when you can .
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Lotus Effect
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As anyone in a relationship... but I figured that that is impliled.
Amazingly in this website, you can't post anything without a sh!tton ammount of explaining.
What I meant is, here I am again in the No Contact Thread. Another relationship went sideways.
I dumped. I NCed. It's all good. Emotions under control. Day 2!
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Dont keep making the same mistakes ! Do not get emotionally invested .
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Funny thing you were the one telling me not to get emotionally invested being the one asking such questions lol
thing is wait an hour and she if see sends you
if she does cool, if she doesn’t you got your answer,
you can always send her and tell her you’re in a different time zone.
But as the saying goes, no message still is a message.
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Right on the money.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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I was awarded full custody of my son, the house we had together has potential buyers. I've been sticking to my gym routine and turned back to being a spiritual person reading my bible and personal study. I still do miss my EX sometimes the fun moments. I wish she could coparent and be civil but she needs help and I'm not the one not anymore. I'm concerned once the house sells she will disappear leave the state and run off to TN or FL, I just worry how it will affect my son I'll be relieved but he wonder why mommy isn't around anymore. He will be alright in the long run but It's going to be tuff for him.
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In a perfect world your son would be best with two loving, grounded parents. However, from what you describe your ex is anything but grounded. Maybe not even loving if she’s willing to abandon her child. In cases like this, your son is probably better off without the chaos your ex brings into his life and with only you there. Stability is so important for children. Bad parents cause more harm than good in most cases.