don't respond.icanseeclearlynow said:Please advise..so he texted me just now, and said, "I know that you think I'm young and dumb, but what happened so that you're not talking to me anymore and unfriended me on fb?" Should I respond..?
don't respond.icanseeclearlynow said:Please advise..so he texted me just now, and said, "I know that you think I'm young and dumb, but what happened so that you're not talking to me anymore and unfriended me on fb?" Should I respond..?
trust me - I know it's hard. I'm in your situation. It's amazing how I could tell you the right advice because it's not me, meanwhile I'm struggling to no contact myself.icanseeclearlynow said:Thanks.its so hard.. I want to tell him...because you Dumped me and I'm moving forward..mailing address please..but I wont ...
Not unless you are prepared to get your feelings hurt..again. Ask yourself, what outcome will you get by sending her a letter? Is this for closure..or are you hoping for a change of heart. If I were you Id write the letter..DONT SEND IT!! But put it away for at least a week.. or longer then reread it..before destroying it. If you send the letter and she ignores you...you will feel worse..Bling said:trust me - I know it's hard. I'm in your situation. It's amazing how I could tell you the right advice because it's not me, meanwhile I'm struggling to no contact myself.
I know her mailing address by heart. Should I send her a letter?
we broke up because she lives back home 3 hours away. she works 50 hours a week and we had little time for each other. she says if we lived in the same city, it'd work out, but there's a strong possibility I'm moving back to south florida against my wishes (hard to find a job in her city) and will be 4 hours away from her. I'm hoping to enter the accounting industry, which would put me on 60 hour week schedule.icanseeclearlynow said:Not unless you are prepared to get your feelings hurt..again. Ask yourself, what outcome will you get by sending her a letter? Is this for closure..or arw you hoping for a change of heart. If I were you Id write the letter..DONT SEND IT!! But put it away for at least a week.. or longer then reread it..before destroying it.
Yes. Absolutely. But it's okay. I would probably say 'start over' rather than '**** up' though. Welcome back to day 1.TeamBp said:Day 14
Semi broke no contact today. I got an emergency call from the apartments where we lived (before I moved out and left her practically everything). Anyways they said they couldn't reach her. I notified her and she proceeded to tell me the water heater broke.
I asked if it flooded the apartment she said yes, I replied that blows sorry, me being dumb and concerned asked if she knew how long it would take to fix and if she had to stay there with no water? Anyways she never responded I kindly said I know we're not talking I was just concerned.
Did I **** up?
It's alright. Just remember it takes quite a bit of time for your body to process it all, and to steel your resolve. There is definitely a point where it feels almost unbearably depressing, and you want to make some kind of contact to break it. But the feeling will fade, and you'll feel confident with your actions. You can do eet.icanseeclearlynow said:I messed up...kind of. I broke contact today. I responded to his text, that he sent earlier. I waited 8 hours to respond. He asked why did I stop talking to him and why did I unfriend him. I responded:
Hey, I was gonna respond to your text, but i was busy at work. I wasn't trying to ignore you but i have alot of things going on. Didn't mean anything by unfriending. Just think its best for a while.
So back to day 1..he didn't respond back..
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Thanks RedscorpionRedScorpion said:It's alright. Just remember it takes quite a bit of time for your body to process it all, and to steel your resolve. There is definitely a point where it feels almost unbearably depressing, and you want to make some kind of contact to break it. But the feeling will fade, and you'll feel confident with your actions. You can do eet.
Sounds like you have a case of the oneitis. The world is full of girls. With time you will see that there are other great girls out there.Bling said:we broke up because she lives back home 3 hours away. she works 50 hours a week and we had little time for each other. she says if we lived in the same city, it'd work out, but there's a strong possibility I'm moving back to south florida against my wishes (hard to find a job in her city) and will be 4 hours away from her. I'm hoping to enter the accounting industry, which would put me on 60 hour week schedule.
honestly it's hard to find a girl as great as her. maybe it's the breakup talking, but she's not a slooot like majority of girls. sure she was a little emotional, but she was extremely loyal, quite funny, easy to talk to, very religious. a lot of redeeming qualities you don't find going out to the club. I'm secretly hoping in some alternative universe our stars will align, but those chances are looking slim.
TL;DR - I have high standards for girls, and she meets them more than any girl I've ever met.
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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Hiker said:Day 49
No contact works. The longer it goes, the better things get.
Thinking of her produces different feelings now. They are becoming more neutral.
She’s becoming more like “some girl” and less “my ex girlfriend.” The aspect of possession is going away.
Yes, I still think of her at least once a day, but the impact just isn’t there.
I’m becoming more like I was when I was single. Manlier, happier, more driven. My skills are coming back. :rockon: