mrbunnyman
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1st day of the 60 day no contact )
well i was with a girl for 1 year, not to long. She was my first serious girlfriend and we officially separated in December. We slept with each other a few times since the break up, the last being April. She went on a date a month after we slept together and told him on the date they can only be friends. Since then we have been meeting but it seems very negative and we just speak about the past the entire time, argue and don't enjoy each others company. On my birthday however in september i saw her on the dance floor dancing (not sexually) with a guy and i got jealous and told her she was a slut. She decided not to talk to me. We've been speaking since. She knows shes in full control and she says straight to me she doesn't love me anymore and we should move on. So ive decided for the NO CONTACT! she has even said to me if you stop calling me , maybe i will ,miss you but im annoying her. I think about her a lot and would consider being with her again but not at this moment in time. I feel i need to get my head in the right state of mind before i get into any relationship soon. However i met another chick at a club. Shes russian and shes here in England here for 4 months on holiday to learn english. My friends are unfortunately friends with my ex girlfriend and they are having a haloween party. I really want to go, and i don't want to miss it, just because my ex may be there, im not even 100%. It seems a bit stupid to stay indoors and not see my friends because i fear she may be there. Do you think its a good idea if i go to the party with the Russian chick i just met.
well i was with a girl for 1 year, not to long. She was my first serious girlfriend and we officially separated in December. We slept with each other a few times since the break up, the last being April. She went on a date a month after we slept together and told him on the date they can only be friends. Since then we have been meeting but it seems very negative and we just speak about the past the entire time, argue and don't enjoy each others company. On my birthday however in september i saw her on the dance floor dancing (not sexually) with a guy and i got jealous and told her she was a slut. She decided not to talk to me. We've been speaking since. She knows shes in full control and she says straight to me she doesn't love me anymore and we should move on. So ive decided for the NO CONTACT! she has even said to me if you stop calling me , maybe i will ,miss you but im annoying her. I think about her a lot and would consider being with her again but not at this moment in time. I feel i need to get my head in the right state of mind before i get into any relationship soon. However i met another chick at a club. Shes russian and shes here in England here for 4 months on holiday to learn english. My friends are unfortunately friends with my ex girlfriend and they are having a haloween party. I really want to go, and i don't want to miss it, just because my ex may be there, im not even 100%. It seems a bit stupid to stay indoors and not see my friends because i fear she may be there. Do you think its a good idea if i go to the party with the Russian chick i just met.