Hey Guys, I just register today going to try and make a short story of the worst 6 Months of my life. (My English isn't that great so please bare with me.)
Late 2012, a sweet girl approached me at a Gala event, she was a solid 8.5, to be honest at first glanced I wasn't really interested in her, but after speaking with her for 5 minutes, we really hit it off, I gave her my business card and she promised she would call me.
I didn't really care to be honest, after 3 weeks she finally came around and called me, she sounded really cute and happy she finally had a chance to call me. We kept talking for at least an hour on the phone and then we exchanged our BBM Pin and the rest is history. Our relationship really went fast we spend allot of time together dinners, dates, movies etc etc. Some people would say maybe it was going too fast.
Around middle of February 2013, after spending a really nice day at the beach together, we went over to her place, we watched some TV and talked, the next day she was going on a short vacation trip to Miami (she studied there for 5 years), so you can assume she has allot of friends there.
She went to take a shower and for some reason, I don't know why, but I decided to look in to her cell phone, just a quick.... you know brush over, not sure what to find, and so behold I found the biggest fear of any men. She was talking to another guy and calling him "babe" and this guy lives in.... you guessed it, in Miami.
So I was shocked, stunned and pissed off all at the same time, I confronted her right away, she came with a BS excuse, didn't believe her and I went home, she followed me home started crying and begging me not to leave her, after talking over it for at least 2 hours or so, I gave in we hugged kisses and made up. She kept messaging me the whole night till she left for Miami, during her 9 days stay, she kept on messing me daily and kept me updated on her current events. Sending me pictures, locations etc etc, but in the back of my mind of was like broken, I couldn't trust her anymore. After this day, our relationship was pretty much over.
After her return, she promised me nothing happened in that trip to Miami, she was with her friends and went shopping, dinner etc, but I just couldn't trust her anymore, so every time she did something, I would freakout, I became really insecure and in some way very clingy.
About a 1.5 week later I decided I'm going to end this, so I called her and we met, I told her that this isn't working for me anymore, she was shocked and promised me nothing happen and explain again her BS excuse of this guy in Miami. I was so confused and broken and insecure, after I arrived home I called her, I told her I'm sorry and that I didn't mean to break up with her, she accepted my apology and we agreed on taking it slow and start over, but I couldn't do this after 3 weeks of trying and me being all insecure and clingy and wimpy she decided to break our relationship, because I didn't trust her.
I was a broken man, now 6 months have passed, in these 6 months have send her flowers, letters, email's, text messages, facebook message, face to face. Everything and anything in between.
She pretty much deleted me from her life, the last time I tried to contact her was this Sunday, I called her around 9:45pm with my mom's phone, she picked up (She and my mom are in a social club together my mom is the president, she is the chairwomen). I told her it was me, she said she was sleeping and she didn't want to talk to me, I asked her please only 5 minutes, she repeated again, in a calm sleepy kind of voice"no I don't want to talk to you" and 3 second later hanged up. After this she blocked me from whatsapp, instagram, facebook etc etc etc. and I spend that night sending her at least 10 text messages. She never replied.
Today I send her one last message telling her that, it's really painful she decided to take this road, I also said "sorry to disturb you and take care".
Now I'm here looking for 100% closure and to move on. Please help me!!!
NC. Day. 00