Renegade357
Master Don Juan
I'm 18 days into NC with a girl I had a relationship with for a little over 13 months. It was a pretty good relationship but it sort of fizzled out at the end. I'll admit I have been a little too sweet to this girl and given her lots of attention. Not calling or texting every day but when we were together I was always the one initiating touching/sex ect.
She did the cold/distant routine on me about a month before the break and I called her on it. She claimed she was mad at something stupid I said and refuses to forgive me. That's the reason she gave but I don't believe her.
I told her we either work out our problems or we part ways. She wouldn't answered so I answered for her and we split. I wished her well and haven't spoken with her since. No begging, no crying, no ploys, nothing on my part.
I'm interested to see if she reaches out to me. I'll let you guys know. I'm playing NC like a pro and have no desire to break it.
Side note NC has worked for me before with a girl who cheated on me. I threw her out of my apartment and told her never to talk to me again. 2 weeks later she sends me a email saying she misses me. I ignored it. 3 weeks later she shows up at my door begging me to take her back.
My prediction is NC doesn't work on every girl. They don't all come back. I don't think my current NC will work on this girl. She's too hard headed and wasn't into me enough. Rarely said "I love you" ect..
Anyway for you other dudes that are going through this take it from a vet. It aint nothing and the more you do it the stronger you get. Eventually we'll all find someone better if we do the right things.
She did the cold/distant routine on me about a month before the break and I called her on it. She claimed she was mad at something stupid I said and refuses to forgive me. That's the reason she gave but I don't believe her.
I told her we either work out our problems or we part ways. She wouldn't answered so I answered for her and we split. I wished her well and haven't spoken with her since. No begging, no crying, no ploys, nothing on my part.
I'm interested to see if she reaches out to me. I'll let you guys know. I'm playing NC like a pro and have no desire to break it.
Side note NC has worked for me before with a girl who cheated on me. I threw her out of my apartment and told her never to talk to me again. 2 weeks later she sends me a email saying she misses me. I ignored it. 3 weeks later she shows up at my door begging me to take her back.
My prediction is NC doesn't work on every girl. They don't all come back. I don't think my current NC will work on this girl. She's too hard headed and wasn't into me enough. Rarely said "I love you" ect..
Anyway for you other dudes that are going through this take it from a vet. It aint nothing and the more you do it the stronger you get. Eventually we'll all find someone better if we do the right things.