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YesHas anyone here been around men who were born rich/high status?
YesHas anyone here been around men who were born rich/high status?
How originalMoney counts when charm fails
Money counts when charm fails.
The first sentence is true but a 32-38 year old man making $200,000 - $350,000 isn't as well situated as it might appear at first.A guy who is 30 years old making 30 grand isn't going to have the access of a guy who is 35 making 350K a year. It's a different ballgame. The guy who is 35 can live in a logistical haven, he can live in the best part of town or in an area that's abudnant with hot women. Whether it's near or on a college campus, downtown, uptown etc. Heck typically if you live in the best part of town in most cities the hottest women tend to be there!
I totally disagree with the first paragraph but agree with the 2ndThe first sentence is true but a 32-38 year old man making $200,000 - $350,000 isn't as well situated as it might appear at first.
A 32-38 year old man in the working world at any wage level isn't able to access the college campus world. It is going to be challenging for him to be able to do random on campus approaching without looking creepy. He won't be able to go to the extracurricular on campus club meetings.
A 32-38 year old higher earning men would be able to get very good housing in some desirable neighborhoods in his city. He can get an elite urban apartment/condo near Uptown/Downtown in a lot of cities and be close to some hot nightlife venues where 21-25 year old attractive females spend time. That's useful. In terms of daygame in those Uptown/Downtown neighborhoods, it is often 25-32 year old Girl Boss types though. There are some fit Girl Boss types who look go from going to bougie type fitness studios like SoulCycle.
It would be a waste of time for a 32-38 year old guy to try to daygame on campus randomly. However, an existing student can randomly daygame on campus and it would likely be less of a waste of time. His campus daygaming would be more likely to be talking to women from his 200+ person lecture hall class or even at the on campus gym for students/faculty. Additionally, the undergraduate/graduate student has on campus extracurricular clubs as an option, which the random rich guy 32-38 year old guy would not be able to access. The extracurricular club option is the great option in the gaming sphere here, especially as an LTR play.On another note why would a 32-38 year old guy try to meet women on college campuses? IMO that's a waste of time, trying to daygame like this which will yield low success results
I can see how this would make a big difference.As a guy who lives very close to downtown in my city. I can tell you my lay rate went up 8X the first year I did so. I noticed the objection that I use to get from women when I lived 45 minutes away from downtown went down drastically. It truly made me understand that logistics can make or break your game.
I like this example a lot. Dallas has a similar experience. People who live in some of the Central Dallas neighborhoods dislike going north of Interstate 635 (the northern reaches of the Dallas city limits and north of Dallas suburbs). The most desirable neighborhoods for unmarried people in Dallas are closer to Downtown Dallas. The further that you get from Downtown Dallas, the less geographically desirable you will be to most unattached people. The traffic is just way too bad in Dallas at key times of the day to travel something more than 10-15 miles.The best example I can give imagine you live in Burbank, California but the girl you're trying to date lives in West Hollywood, California. From Burbank To West Hollywood. The drive is about 9-15 miles depending on where you are going and typically takes 15-25 minutes, However during rush hour it can easily take 1 hour or 1 hour 30 minutes. What's my point with this story? anyone who dates in LA county will tell you that if you live more than 20 minutes from someone even if it's a 15-mile drive most people in LA won't date you. The traffic is so bad that people don't want to date someone who lives more than 15 minutes away. For most people, this may sound crazy but in LA dating someone who lives 45 minutes for example is equivalent for a smaller-town or a different city guy driving 3 hours. Who wants to deal with that stress? and high gas prices you have a lot of guys on this site who have to drive an hour or two just to go on a date cause they live in Bumturkey USA somewhere. There are no women in their town or attractive ones so their only option is to meet a girl off a swipe app who may not even look like her pictures that lives hours away. The further you live away from the women that you truly want, the harder it is. I haven't even talked about how that affects the possibility of intimacy, and also the frequency of how often you see you girlfriend or partner etc
Very true.As you get older, especially in your 30s women will judge you on where you live, not just because of your salary but because a lot of women are superficial like that and if her place is nicer than yours it may be a turn-off to her. I'm not saying you should get a nice place to impress women all I'm saying is that shyt matters to women more than guys think and as you get older that could be a deal breaker for women in itself .
Yes, this makes sense.I remember when I use to live further away and how it was deal breaker for most women, I even recall a woman once saying she wished I lived closer to downtown. Once I moved I noticed it really made a difference and I've also seen how the dynamics play out for guys who live in the best parts of downtown. It truly is a game-changer!
I thought The Villages is the swinging singles' apartment complex in D.The most desirable neighborhoods for unmarried people in Dallas are closer to Downtown Dallas. The further that you get from Downtown Dallas, the less geographically desirable you will be to most unattached people. The traffic is just way too bad in Dallas at key times of the day to travel something more than 10-15 miles.
The most desirable neighborhoods for unmarried people in Dallas are closer to Downtown Dallas. The further that you get from Downtown Dallas, the less geographically desirable you will be to most unattached people. The traffic is just way too bad in Dallas at key times of the day to travel something more than 10-15 miles.
It's called The Village. I've never mentioned The Village in my "Observations on Dallas' Scene" thread. At some point in the near future, I'll have to update that thread with some detailed commentary about The Village. I'm only going to cover the bare minimum about The Village in this post as a longer, more detailed post would be more appropriate for the Dallas Scene thread.I thought The Villages is the swinging singles' apartment complex in D.
I first learned of it in 1998, when I was going a gig in Dallas, in the "Dr. Pepper" neighborhood. Then when W was running for POTUS, there was mention how he was one of the big partiers while a resident there, meeting his wife Barbara. (I was there for 3 weeks at a time, cranking out 60-hour weeks, so I decided to just stayed at a hotel while there.)How were you aware of The Village in Dallas?
There are no articles about George W. Bush living in The Village and meeting his wife there. George W. Bush is married to Laura. George HW Bush was married to Barbara. George W. Bush met Laura in Midland, TX at a backyard barbecue.Then when W was running for POTUS, there was mention how he was one of the big partiers while a resident there, meeting his wife Barbara.
Yeah. This entire thread is a male variation on what's said between 8:14-8:40You don't need money to attract women.
Having said that, I want money so I can live the lifestyle I want. I remember when I was a young man, and I was broke, and most of my friends were out-earning me. I was not happy with myself, I felt like I was letting myself down. So from that aspect, for my own self esteem, I wanted to be more successful financially, because I wanted options. Money gives you options.
Where are people getting this sh-t of well-heeled men “having no personality,” that those of them who are nerds are womanless, or that nerds “have no personality”?That said, millions in your bank account won't make you especially attractive to the ladies
Did ya notice they operate in completely different environment, one with high access to females at a young age, before “improving” themselves?
Didn't you get the memo that if you have a dime to your name, that means you are automatically ugly, boring, and beta?Where are people getting this sh-t of well-heeled men “having no personality,” that those of them who are nerds are womanless, or that nerds “have no personality”?
You didn't quote me entirely. What I actually wrote makes perfect sense: "That said, millions in your bank account won't make you especially attractive to the ladies, if your vibe is more Louis TullyWhere are people getting this sh-t of well-heeled men “having no personality,” that those of them who are nerds are womanless, or that nerds “have no personality”?
I noticed that while folks in this income bracket have wider social circles than everyone else further down the ladder does, those men who were sexually attractive to women still possessed all the typical traits, while their equally Old Moneyed peers who didn't still went withoutDid ya notice they operate in completely different environment, one with high access to females at a young age, before “improving” themselves?
They cannot go there, they'd stick out as flies on a wedding cake.You needn't prowl a uni campus to find women in this age bracket, fellas. The classy, high-quality ones are fixtures at art galleries, classic film revivals, operas(Even those that screen digitally), yoga, etc etc