The Importance of Money in Men's SMV

[MatureDJ]

How were you aware of The Village in Dallas?

I first learned of it in 1998, when I was going a gig in Dallas, in the "Dr. Pepper" neighborhood. Then when W was running for POTUS, there was mention how he was one of the big partiers while a resident there, meeting his wife Barbara. (I was there for 3 weeks at a time, cranking out 60-hour weeks, so I decided to just stayed at a hotel while there.)

 

[SW15]

Then when W was running for POTUS, there was mention how he was one of the big partiers while a resident there, meeting his wife Barbara.

There are no articles about George W. Bush living in The Village and meeting his wife there. George W. Bush is married to Laura. George HW Bush was married to Barbara. George W. Bush met Laura in Midland, TX at a backyard barbecue.

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Mark Cuban (Shark Tank shark and former Dallas Mavericks majority owner) did live in The Village in 1982-1983 when he first arrived in Dallas. The Dallas Morning News had a large article about that in 2011. Mark Cuban met his spouse many years after moving out of The Village. Mark Cuban had a mansion in the Preston Hollow neighborhood of Dallas by the time he met his wife. Preston Hollow is a neighborhood a few miles from The Village. It's large single family houses (mansions). Preston Hollow is more of a family area so it was somewhat strange for bachelor Mark Cuban to have a mansion in Preston Hollow, even though he could easily afford a mansion in Preston Hollow based on his business accomplishments by the 1990s.

40 years ago today, Mark Cuban arrived in Dallas flat busted broke. The rest is history...

Flashback: How Mark Cuban went from beer-stained floors, flat broke to billions

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[BaronOfHair]

You don't need money to attract women.

Having said that, I want money so I can live the lifestyle I want. I remember when I was a young man, and I was broke, and most of my friends were out-earning me. I was not happy with myself, I felt like I was letting myself down. So from that aspect, for my own self esteem, I wanted to be more successful financially, because I wanted options. Money gives you options.

Yeah. This entire thread is a male variation on what's said between 8:14-8:40

No, a man having a few bucks in his pocket won't guarantee him a life free of all difficulties(With the ladies or otherwise), just as putting on make up and fresh clothes doesn't rid women of all hassels. Both sure as hell make life a lot simpler though!!!

The intellectual contortions we resort to, in our efforts to deny the obvious, are remarkable

 

[Manure Spherian]

That said, millions in your bank account won't make you especially attractive to the ladies

Where are people getting this sh-t of well-heeled men “having no personality,” that those of them who are nerds are womanless, or that nerds “have no personality”?

Status, oftentimes linked with money, and sometimes with criminality or dangerousness, attracts women like flies to sh-t.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Yes

Did ya notice they operate in completely different environment, one with high access to females at a young age, before “improving” themselves?

 

[zekko]

Where are people getting this sh-t of well-heeled men “having no personality,” that those of them who are nerds are womanless, or that nerds “have no personality”?

Didn't you get the memo that if you have a dime to your name, that means you are automatically ugly, boring, and beta?

I know PUA gurus want to sell their system like it's the secret answer, but I always thought it was a little off that they tried to excuse the guys who had no money. After all, they wanted their clients to pay them, and those PUA camps weren't cheap. Seems like they'd want to attract a wealthier crowd. But maybe there weren't many of those guys who were having problems attracting women. They'd even go so far as to say that having money works against you attracting women.

Seriously though, you don't need money to attract women. There is the attraction of the wandering vagabond type. I don't think having money hurts though. I mean, it doesn't hurt to have a clean change of clothes, decent dental care, a gym membership, a functioning car, some hobbies to pursue, the ability to buy healthy food, a decent place to flop, etc.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Where are people getting this sh-t of well-heeled men “having no personality,” that those of them who are nerds are womanless, or that nerds “have no personality”?

You didn't quote me entirely. What I actually wrote makes perfect sense: "That said, millions in your bank account won't make you especially attractive to the ladies, if your vibe is more Louis Tully

than Peter Venkman

Ex. MGTOW's most prominent preachers are minor E-celebs, who've raked in a chunk of change via Patreon donations and the like, and who are leading upper-middle class lives. That wealth doesn't translate to them being especially sexually desirable to most women, or even the sort of folks most self-respecting men are eager to hang around, entertaining as we all once found some their acting out

 

[BaronOfHair]

Did ya notice they operate in completely different environment, one with high access to females at a young age, before “improving” themselves?

I noticed that while folks in this income bracket have wider social circles than everyone else further down the ladder does, those men who were sexually attractive to women still possessed all the typical traits, while their equally Old Moneyed peers who didn't still went without

 

[BaronOfHair]

They cannot go there, they'd stick out as flies on a wedding cake.

What leads you to such a conclusion?

 

[zekko]

You didn't quote me entirely. What I actually wrote makes perfect sense: "That said, millions in your bank account won't make you especially attractive to the ladies, if your vibe is more Louis Tully

Yeah but, Louis Tully got laid in that movie.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Because they would be chasing skirts instead of be interested in the art.

Goes to a conversation had over here https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ans-world-real-or-parody.282324/#post-3120959

In the same way Wokeness has conned many gays into thinking they're entitled to act like this

and not be reviled by the rest of humanity, Red Pill Theology has scammed entirely too many men into believing that they too can go through life acting like teens broadcasting their "outcastness"(I.E. Scoffing at so-called bourgeois living I.E. Going to art galleries and pheasant hunting, in favor of acting like fools in public) to everyone in the vicinity, and not incur damage

So many men's insistence on remaining finacially destitute really seem to be yet another form of us trying to prolong our adolescence

 

[BaronOfHair]

The art world is rife with fakers the real artists try to avoid, so either you have to be the real deal (or a master at faking it) to have any success.

Not coincidentally, many of The Manosphere's most prominent preachers are folks who admit to having had artistic pretensions, and now come across as try-hard

 

[BaronOfHair]

A reflection of society on the whole.

Red Pill Theory has a fair amount in common with offender profiling https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.th.../psychological-profile-behavioural-psychology https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.ps...4/is-criminal-profiling-dead-should-it-be?amp , who's defenders also continually duck and dive with the phrase: "What we do is just as much art as it is empiricism"

It may.not be possible to conduct a metanalyis of Red Pill Theory in a vein similar to
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0160252720301291?via=ihub , nonetheless we could all benefit from such a thing. 98% of both OI and TRP can likely be tossed out, with zero loss to humanity

 

[BaronOfHair]

Well, every lie contains at least a little truth to make it more palatable to the people who have to swallow the deception.

A few folks on YouTube labeling themselves Red Pill has allowed the sort societal detritus who, in the not too distant past, wouldn't have gotten beyond ham radio and local access TV to FEEL as if they're elites amongst us mere plebs they've been cursed to share this planet with

 

[SW15]

being bluepilled/beta does NOT mean a man won't get coochie. I do agree that it becomes harder for such a man because most women nowadays have had their fait share of "Bad boys" so the temptation is always lurking. And it takes ONE moment of weakness for her to destroy everything you've build.

Don't forget how sheltered a lotta women live life: work, family, visiting friends rinse and repeat. Occasionally a night out

Plenty of bluepilled/beta males are in relationships and have some mediocre sex life. The types of people profiled in this thread below are beta males in LTRs.

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Plenty of beta males get LTRs from their social circle and live an unremarkable partnered up life.

 

[BaronOfHair]

"I'm not locked in here with you, you are locked in here with me."

I've yet to encounter a self-described Red Piller who's worldview isn't a mild variation of

 

[Jumbo Gumbo]

Make no mistake, money is #1.

I think it does matter a lot. Having loads of money is an aphrodisiac for women.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Plenty of beta males get LTRs from their social circle and live an unremarkable partnered up life.

Plenty of men are today in situations similar to Peter Gibbons and The Narrator in Fight Club career wise... Making just enough to get by, yet unsatisfied and desiring more. Advancing further requires that we bring our heretofore unconscious thoughts and beliefs into the light, test them for falsifiability, then adopt more functional ones

The same is true in the realm of dating and mating

 

[Salvation]

- Sure the attraction towards whiteboys in Philippines or Thailand is partly money, and partly positive racism towards whites (it's kinda special for these two countries, that's just what countless anecdotes say). Their 'stars' on tv just look kinda white, they have white skin fetish and so on

- looks money status: I would put looks clearly first (even if you are just the postman women will look and will have lust), status next (women go cracy for fame, either you have female fans or female fans give social proof and preselection)
Money is totally last, it itself is kinda invisible if you don't choose to show it, it's logical information, it's just a little cool information.
While looks activate the 'i wanna **** this guy', money activate more the 'i wanna trap this guy into a relationship'. Who wants that.

- I live basically in a small room, tiny 23 m2 apartment. Still basically all girls that entered that room ****ed me.

- Funnily enough one girl who knows i am a millionaire, cause he is in a talking group with me, we had something, and she answered upon a question that me being a millionaire was a factor and she implied that she is unhappy in her job and would love someone to finance her taking 3 months off work

- I think money is for:
Having lots of freetime instead of having to work, time for dating and sex

My plan is to spend money for:
A cool house with garden and pool and event-room where i do my seminars and also give hippi tantra seminars
Basically getting constant boatload of women into house because of yoga seminars and ****, me being the 'cool guy that owns the house' basically being a mini-celebrity in that environment, being the guy to know to be invited to this house, being nearly the only male there, basically have the best logistics of having bedroom just a few metres away, having a great place to invite first dates eg
But it should be a house easily reachable = in the city, which is tough and costs like 2mill in my city.. i would like to have 4mill before i do that

 

[Salvation]

I think it does matter a lot. Having loads of money is an aphrodisiac for women.

Like what is poor, normal and 'loads of money'?


I mean millionaire in a US-City is mostly just having a normal house and normal car isn't it..

Where are you in the global distribution of income?

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-> To be millionaire you have to be in top 5% wealth of US (top 1% in the world). And mayority of these rich people are in their 60ies, much much much less in their 30ies.
So this is already hard to achieve + still not impressive at all

Mansions go for 10 - 100 million usd, so i guess you have to have at least 15 million to have one of these. 15mill is top 0.1% in US.