Someone explain to me why Incels are so heavily involved in discussions about game/dating/sex.

[Redwood]

At least he is honest

all guys run through a rough patch from time to time

it should not be something that a guy should be ashamed of

Tbh, more guys should be discussing how they've gotten over the rough patches more than pumping out more self-deafeatist drivel.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

you're in the minority.
When I read pickup and redpill forums and/or reddit subs etc, it seems like every guy has a strong need to let everyone know that they are an alpha male in every post. It honestly makes me giggle when I read posts like that.

The irony is that its just a kind of insecurity and desperate need for validation and is coming from someone who is kind of the opposite of an actual 'alpha'. Imagine this persons friend group and having to hear them refer to themselves as an alpha male down the pub every 20 mins!! lol

It’s an anonymous forum. Why not be honest?

 

[Gamisch]

I'm curious to know, what do women actually know about incels? What kind of stereotype beliefs do women have on them?

That's actually a petty good question. You should make a thread about it.

Unfortunately I think women dgaf about incels. In their language it might also be a "absolute loser". No compassion whatsoever. They wont be able to phantom what's it's like,but if you tell em straight; " I want sex but no woman wants me", they might even advice an incel prostitution because its the most logical thing.

Only when they have a man really close to them,mostly family, and see him struggle they might start to kinda understand it a little bit. Yet they wont suddenly have compassion for another strange incel...that's just another loser ofcourse.

 

[corrector]

No another forum. 1 with less rules.

Interesting. What is the forum's name?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The biggest problem with this idea of moving on is that it is not possible to do from a mental health standpoint and not in line with human nature.

Psychologist Abraham Maslow created Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. According to this model below, sex is a basic human need. Maslow believed that if a human cannot satisfy their needs on a certain level of the pyramid, they cannot consider other hierarchical elements. Incels are lacking sex, one of the most basic human needs. The lack of one of the most basic human needs makes achieving that need the sole focus of their lives.

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Sex is the only thing on here twice, but one has to remember Maslow comes from a (((tribe))) of horny people. Sex as a physiological necessity is arguable.

 

[NealIRC]

Interesting. What is the forum's name?

If a mod posts it's okay to post links I'll do it.

I have to assume mods are ass holes. In other forums, mods constantly ban me for replying to a debate with people. But me and the debater don't both get banned, only I get banned.

 

[corrector]

If a mod posts it's okay to post links I'll do it.

I have to assume mods are ass holes. In other forums, mods constantly ban me for replying to a debate with people. But me and the debater don't both get banned, only I get banned.

Debates about what topic?

 

[NealIRC]

Debates about what topic?

Well, about Pokemon, in Pokemon forums. Usually about the people behind creating Pokemon.

 

[eli77]

It sounds like some of the guys on here

 

[Von]

Discussion is easier than action.
Discussion rationalize why they aint action

They prefer to talk into a safe zone than to move into action zone.

Discussion préserve their ego for failling to act.

Is discussion an action? It is! But it wont get you physical

 

[TheEveningChronograph]

Debates about what topic?

Vaccines.

 

[Solomon]

I recently was part of a discord of a youtuber who I enjoy
His discord was filled with 70% incels who couldn't fathom that hot women would bang a man for free
The way incels view the world is very limited and sad
They believe that to get a hot woman you either have to be a movie star or pay for sex
They can't fathom that a regular guy can get laid because he meets hot chicks in his social circle
Most incels also don't want to take accountability like the women they complain about
I loath a man who doesn't want to improve his situation if he has the ability too

 

[NealIRC]

I recently was part of a discord of a youtuber who I enjoy
His discord was filled with 70% incels who couldn't fathom that hot women would bang a man for free
The way incels view the world is very limited and sad
They believe that to get a hot woman you either have to be a movie star or pay for sex
They can't fathom that a regular guy can get laid because he meets hot chicks in his social circle
Most incels also don't want to take accountability like the women they complain about
I loath a man who doesn't want to improve his situation if he has the ability too

I recall a few days ago that someone here posted, that 9s and 10s don't have sex with men for free, because society heavily monetizes them or something. I don't remember who posted it.

And if a hot women does have sex with men for free, the underlying cause is, women have sex with men that "earned" it. And money isn't the only way to earn it. Incels are right that women don't give the earned to the unearned. 9s and 10s women are basically Republicans.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I recall a few days ago that someone here posted, that 9s and 10s don't have sex with men for free, because society heavily monetizes them or something. I don't remember who posted it.

And if a hot women does have sex with men for free, the underlying cause is, women have sex with men that "earned" it. And money isn't the only way to earn it. Incels are right that women don't give the earned to the unearned. 9s and 10s women are basically Republicans.

An example incel friend of believes women don’t like sex. And men have to trick or cajole or bribe women into it.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Success is a funny thing, it tends to lead us in circles, if you just want your feelings to be validated and successfully do that, your simply going to chase that validation in circles.

Incels are literally no different than a woman seeking validation, both successfully find it and just go in circles once they have.

 

[Mike32ct]

An example incel friend of believes women don’t like sex. And men have to trick or cajole or bribe women into it.

In all fairness, women do a pretty decent job at hiding their sexual desires from unattractive (and even many average) guys.

So I can’t really blame him for being uninformed.

 

[CornbreadFed]

In all fairness, women do a pretty decent job at hiding their sexual desires from unattractive (and even many average) guys.

So I can’t really blame him for being uninformed.

It's not just this, this is basically instilled upon our head from our dads and media that women are sexually innocent and men prey upon them through bad boy manipulation or force.

 

[NealIRC]

Actually, nothing comes for free.

Where did I imply something does?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

It's not just this, this is basically instilled upon our head from our dads and media that women are sexually innocent and men prey upon them through bad boy manipulation or force.

This.
I grew up with ‘women are innocent Disney princesses.’. Even though I know women are horny sex beasts, I still have a hard time accepting & dealing with that.

 

[BergischerLöwe]

I remember when Eliot Rodger happened and incels were brought to the mainstream. Since then the bluepilled and the MSM fears them and has this idea that they're all a bunch of woman-hating basement dwellers, when in reality most of them probably have autism and lack the necessary social acumen to get the sort of relationships they desire. On top of all that they mostly grew up without positive male role models and were raised in the degenerate society of the present day. The media always talks about incels being a threat or whatever and paints them as potential murderers, and the general attitude that society has toward them is that they need to be kept down and subdued. When discourse about incels looks like this, the incels themselves get convinced that society indeed shuns them and is against them, which makes them more angry and resentful.

Incels are very much a symptom of a diseased society, and nobody offers any legitimate help to them since helping incels get out of their situation actually goes against the interests of those in power. Instead of offereing these individuals legitimate help, society prefers to keep them complacent by plying them up with porno, video games, and onlyfans. The media acknowledges that incels are a widespread problem, but it's as if were not allowed to talk about any legitimate potential solution. The same thing goes for the low testosterone epidemic. Although the media and the medical community talks about the fact that it's going on, nobody actually talks about solving the problem of low testosterone since the powers that be have determined that discussing the potential solutions is a taboo subject. I would even go so far as saying this is society's attitude to increased rates of autism. Doctors always give this cop out about how the rise in autism cases is because they're "better at detecting it" or whatever. But looking at the statistics there's no way that explains all of it and there's something going on behind the scenes that's causing this increase in cases that we're not allowed to talk about. It isn't vaccines, but it's probably something like plastics and other environmental pollution that's causing increased genetic damage that leads to autism becoming more prevalent. Either way discussing a legit solution to all these things goes against the interests of the morons on capitol hill. Even if the media and society point out that these things are going on, a actual solution is never proposed. All of these issues are there by design