Someone explain to me why Incels are so heavily involved in discussions about game/dating/sex.

Hamurabimbi

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you're in the minority.
When I read pickup and redpill forums and/or reddit subs etc, it seems like every guy has a strong need to let everyone know that they are an alpha male in every post. It honestly makes me giggle when I read posts like that.

The irony is that its just a kind of insecurity and desperate need for validation and is coming from someone who is kind of the opposite of an actual 'alpha'. Imagine this persons friend group and having to hear them refer to themselves as an alpha male down the pub every 20 mins!! lol
It’s an anonymous forum. Why not be honest?
 

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I'm curious to know, what do women actually know about incels? What kind of stereotype beliefs do women have on them?
That's actually a petty good question. You should make a thread about it.

Unfortunately I think women dgaf about incels. In their language it might also be a "absolute loser". No compassion whatsoever. They wont be able to phantom what's it's like,but if you tell em straight; " I want sex but no woman wants me", they might even advice an incel prostitution because its the most logical thing.

Only when they have a man really close to them,mostly family, and see him struggle they might start to kinda understand it a little bit. Yet they wont suddenly have compassion for another strange incel...that's just another loser ofcourse.
 

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The biggest problem with this idea of moving on is that it is not possible to do from a mental health standpoint and not in line with human nature.

Psychologist Abraham Maslow created Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. According to this model below, sex is a basic human need. Maslow believed that if a human cannot satisfy their needs on a certain level of the pyramid, they cannot consider other hierarchical elements. Incels are lacking sex, one of the most basic human needs. The lack of one of the most basic human needs makes achieving that need the sole focus of their lives.

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Sex is the only thing on here twice, but one has to remember Maslow comes from a (((tribe))) of horny people. Sex as a physiological necessity is arguable.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Interesting. What is the forum's name?
If a mod posts it's okay to post links I'll do it.

I have to assume mods are ass holes. In other forums, mods constantly ban me for replying to a debate with people. But me and the debater don't both get banned, only I get banned.
 

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If a mod posts it's okay to post links I'll do it.

I have to assume mods are ass holes. In other forums, mods constantly ban me for replying to a debate with people. But me and the debater don't both get banned, only I get banned.
Debates about what topic?
 

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Discussion is easier than action.
Discussion rationalize why they aint action

They prefer to talk into a safe zone than to move into action zone.

Discussion préserve their ego for failling to act.

Is discussion an action? It is! But it wont get you physical
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I recently was part of a discord of a youtuber who I enjoy
His discord was filled with 70% incels who couldn't fathom that hot women would bang a man for free
The way incels view the world is very limited and sad
They believe that to get a hot woman you either have to be a movie star or pay for sex
They can't fathom that a regular guy can get laid because he meets hot chicks in his social circle
Most incels also don't want to take accountability like the women they complain about
I loath a man who doesn't want to improve his situation if he has the ability too
 

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I recently was part of a discord of a youtuber who I enjoy
His discord was filled with 70% incels who couldn't fathom that hot women would bang a man for free
The way incels view the world is very limited and sad
They believe that to get a hot woman you either have to be a movie star or pay for sex
They can't fathom that a regular guy can get laid because he meets hot chicks in his social circle
Most incels also don't want to take accountability like the women they complain about
I loath a man who doesn't want to improve his situation if he has the ability too
I recall a few days ago that someone here posted, that 9s and 10s don't have sex with men for free, because society heavily monetizes them or something. I don't remember who posted it.

And if a hot women does have sex with men for free, the underlying cause is, women have sex with men that "earned" it. And money isn't the only way to earn it. Incels are right that women don't give the earned to the unearned. 9s and 10s women are basically Republicans.
 

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I recall a few days ago that someone here posted, that 9s and 10s don't have sex with men for free, because society heavily monetizes them or something. I don't remember who posted it.

And if a hot women does have sex with men for free, the underlying cause is, women have sex with men that "earned" it. And money isn't the only way to earn it. Incels are right that women don't give the earned to the unearned. 9s and 10s women are basically Republicans.
An example incel friend of believes women don’t like sex. And men have to trick or cajole or bribe women into it.
 

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And if a hot women does have sex with men for free, the underlying cause is, women have sex with men that "earned" it. And money isn't the only way to earn it.
Actually, nothing comes for free.
 

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An example incel friend of believes women don’t like sex. And men have to trick or cajole or bribe women into it.
That is the usual mindset of those who can't be bothered to learn how to arouse a woman. And they don't want to put in the effort, because women are trophy / cvm dumpsters to incels, not actual people with their own personality et cetera.
 

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Success is a funny thing, it tends to lead us in circles, if you just want your feelings to be validated and successfully do that, your simply going to chase that validation in circles.

Incels are literally no different than a woman seeking validation, both successfully find it and just go in circles once they have.
 

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An example incel friend of believes women don’t like sex. And men have to trick or cajole or bribe women into it.
In all fairness, women do a pretty decent job at hiding their sexual desires from unattractive (and even many average) guys.

So I can’t really blame him for being uninformed.
 

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In all fairness, women do a pretty decent job at hiding their sexual desires from unattractive (and even many average) guys.

So I can’t really blame him for being uninformed.
It's not just this, this is basically instilled upon our head from our dads and media that women are sexually innocent and men prey upon them through bad boy manipulation or force.
 
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