Hey hey!
Last week I finally managed to make some time for a date with
Karen the 27 yr old, red head, HB7 Law School chick. She works at the same place as me during the summer and has shown plenty of interest in the past. Normally I would steer clear of chicks I work with but she's only here for 6-7 weeks.
We've had quite a bit of trouble aligning our busy schedules so my plan was a dinner date. Everyone has to eat right?
We decided to go for sushi. However the local sushi restaurant is a place I frequent quite often. I know the waitresses and have taken other dates there recently. I didn't want to bring another chick there so I chose another sushi restaurant in a town that is about 45 minutes away. (You have to be low key when you have more than one woman on the go and live in a place like I do.
) Anyhow, this would work out great as the drive there is quite breath taking and the restaurant is right on the water which is nice.
I picked her up and she was way overdressed. She had been drinking vodka already I could smell it on her. Looks-wise she is an attractive girl. Most of the guys at work think she is smoking hot but for whatever reason I don't really see it. She's definitely hot but just maybe not my type. She's been very forward with me in the past too and that is a little unattractive to me for some reason. I don't know. Anyway from the get go we started in on the teasing and flirting. She has a really fun personality and I could bust on her all I wanted and she'd just dish it right back at me. Nice.
Within the first 5 minutes I had made some joke about how I moonlight as a stripper at the local peeler bar. She tells me that she's been on that stage before! I was kind of shocked but she wasn't kidding. She got involved in a wet T-shirt contest there last summer and ended up getting topless. I guess she isn't shy and wanted to convey that she's a little wild too. Duly noted.
I had brought a sixpack of beer along and we had a couple on the ride. (yes I know, drinking and driving = bad. Don't do it.)
We chatted the whole way and the conversation was light, fun, and easy. The impression I got from her is that she's well educated, sarcastic as hell, and has quite a bit of attitude. Maybe not in a good way either. She has some deep convictions and I can tell she would be a tough opponent in an argument. She'll be a great lawyer. I tend to dislike strong minded, opinionated women. I'm real easy going and I tend to clash with these types.
We got to the restaurant and found our seats overlooking the water and the parking lot. There was a Ferrari there and we started making bets on which person in the restaurant was driving that car. I won that bet and we continued this game for the rest of the night as different customers left. We also had a lot of fun messing with the waitress. We told her that we had just met on the street about half and hour ago and this was our first date. She fell for it right away and she tried to play cupid by making things romantic for us.
Sushi is a great date by the way. There's a certain sense of adventure trying different foods that you don't eat everyday. Its the kind of thing that you take your time eating too so there is lots of time for conversation. We got to know each other over dinner and she began asking me which other girls at work I found attractive. There are a couple of hotties there and I told her so. She also got it out of me that I like girls with a bit of "bootie". Shortly after this she got up to go to the bathroom and I told her I'd be checking her out to see if she passed. She blushed and really worked it as she walked away.
The dinner went really well. Tons of playful chemistry and I could sense that she was really digging me. Lots of prolonged eye contact, playful kino, and playing with her hair. She told me that she was a little worried about the idea of going out with me. She figured that I might be the shy type and she'd be the one doing all the talking. I guess my indifferent behaviour towards her in the past led her to believe I was shy or quiet. She even said she was "happily relieved that I had lots of game". LOL.
After dinner on the ride home the conversation got a little sexual. We discussed whether or not women with small breasts had more sensitive nipples. We also tried to determine whether tall guys had longer d!cks and stocky guys had more girth. :crackup: It was all fun and the kino seemed to escalate around this time.
I ended up giving her a bit of a neck massage and played with her hair while driving. She loved it and kept commenting on how she loved guys with strong hands.
As we pulled back into town she made mention that a crew of people from work were out for drinks celebrating someone's birthday. She wanted to go meet them at the pub. (The same pub where Corrine works
) These are people that she works with directly but I have little contact with. I told her I'd drop her off but wasn't interested in coming in. She pressured me to come with her but I held strong. Once we arrived I noticed that Corrine's car wasn't there so I figured it be safe to go in for a drink.
Before we went in she wanted a hug and to thank me for a great date. We had an extended hug and I gave her a small kiss on the cheek just in front of her ear. Afterwards she said, "that was a great hug. I think I'll keep you around." She also asked me if I had a good time. I said yes but she pressed the issue and asked, "are you sure?" I assured her it was fun and she said, "good".
Once inside (actually outside on the patio) we were greeted with cheers from our other co-workers who were obviously getting a little drunk at this point. Interesting to note there wasn't a single female in this group. That made Karen the token chick and she was loving the attention she was getting. I kind of figured the date was over at this point and I think she did too. We didn't really hang around each other or talk too much while there. Instead she was off with the guys hanging all over her and soaking up the attention. I just sat back and chilled and made a bit of conversation with a couple of the guys I knew. Every once in a while she would come over and "check up" on me. She even brought me another beer at one point but didn't really stick around to talk.
Later, I went to the bathroom and on the way back I passed a table with three chicks. Two hotties and one ugly duckling. They whistled at me as I passed and I quickly turned and said "Hey!" I approached the table and they were all laughing and pointing at each other saying, "She did it. No, she did it!" My standard response to chicks whistling at me is something along these lines.....
"You women are all the same you know.
Here I am just a shy and timid guy just going on my way trying to have a beer with some friends. Then you women with your whistling and staring turn this nice quiet place into a meat market. Can't you control yourselves? I mean seriously do you think I like being treated like a sex object?"
This usually gets some laughs and I can work it into a conversation. This night however I wasn't so sharp and I just approached the table and said "Hi, how's it going." They were still blaming each other for whistling so I sat right by the UG and put my arm around her and said, "I know it was you." This made her blush.
Whenever I approach multiple women I usually give the ugliest one attention first. I find it makes the hot ones jealous and they work hard for my attention. Plus the ugly ones are usually open to being approached and have better personalities so you can get "into" the group easily this way.
Funny enough though, these chicks were forward enough to whistle but they just didn't seem open to any conversation. Isn't that f*cked? They have enough guts to get my attention but then play hard to get when I actually come over and try to talk to them. Chicks are f*cked in the head sometimes I swear.
Anyhow I bailed on these chicks when another one of their friends showed up and grabbed their attention. I wasn't getting anywhere anyway. I went back out to the patio to find Karen letting the guys do tequila body shots off of her stomach. How nice. If there's anyway for a chick to impress me its letting a bunch of rowdy drunk guys lick salt off of her.
My interest in Karen wasn't really high to begin with like I said earlier. The date went well though so my IL was increasing and I was open for anything. Seeing her with all these guys all over her quickly erased all that. I wasn't insulted or hurt or anything like that. Just a little unimpressed with her attention wh0ring. I guess the date was over when we arrived there anyway. However you'd think a chick who was interested wouldn't behave like this in front of her date for the night.
Shortly after this I decided to leave. I went to say good-bye to Karen. She hugged me hard and again asked if I had a good time. I said yes and once again she asked "are you sure?" She seemed really concerned that I may have been bored or didn't enjoy myself. She made a comment about what we'd be doing for our next date and I just smiled and said, "sounds good, we'll talk later."
The next day I get a message from her saying, "I had a really good time last night give me a call okay." I called her back and got her answering service. I said, "Its my dad's birthday today so I'll be hanging with him tonight. Give me a call soon though and we can hook up."
I haven't heard or seen her since. Do I care? Absolutely not.
I'm pretty sure I'll be rolling in the hay with this chick before summer is thru. However in one date she proved to me that that is all she'd be good for anyway.
