Slick Tales

[iveyleeger]

Fvck her in the azz. And try not to notice the dead cats under the bed. This girl sounds like a closet freak. Is she gonna be an astronaut and Mother Teresa, too?

Seriously, you are abandoning your DJ game again, and you already saw what happens when you do that. She is a "keeper"? Get a grip, man! Do her something nasty. She is wrapping your head around her pinky with all this BS about what a good girl she is. Come to think of it, she may be a female DJ. She sold a guy a bike for 7 grand. She's lining you up for a whole lot more. Just my 2 cents

 

[drixsa]

Slick-

I have almost nothing to add. You have done quite well. You are solid as can be.

The date with the law student, karen(?) didn't sit right with me. Why was the date over when you saw the co-workers?

At first i thought she was trying to set an appropriate image with her co-workers, but taking body shots is the polar opposite of that. Then i start to think a little about jealousy...Did she do this to get YOUR attension. Either way somethin is a little "fishy." Though in her requesting a summary of how the date went before you entered the bar showed clear interest in you, an interested girl doesn't just turn off a switch of interest, unless its INTENTIONAL. I probably think about these things too much but i just wanted to point a few things out.


I don't agree completely with iveyleeger (see below) but i do think that you need to worry more about the NICE ones. It can be a facade but the girl seems decent so far. If you decide not to pursue things with this girl b/c of her leaving, i think you should tell her the reason behind it (your leaving so i don't want to get involved). Now obviously this is not a RULE but it just makes it so much easier on everyone when you can be honest and forthcoming.

Originally posted by iveyleeger
Fvck her in the azz. And try not to notice the dead cats under the bed. This girl sounds like a closet freak. Is she gonna be an astronaut and Mother Teresa, too?

Seriously, you are abandoning your DJ game again, and you already saw what happens when you do that. She is a "keeper"? Get a grip, man! Do her something nasty. She is wrapping your head around her pinky with all this BS about what a good girl she is. Come to think of it, she may be a female DJ. She sold a guy a bike for 7 grand. She's lining you up for a whole lot more. Just my 2 cents

Ivey-

I think your pesimistic attitude could be hurtful to you. Obviously the girl is not perfect but if these are the first conclusions drawn to your mind, you may want to take a closer look at yourself.

 

[optimist prime]

Slick, any chance we could get a pic of you, and some of the girls you are going after? WOuld be nice to put a face behind the story so to speak.

 

[NewMan]

She is definitely what I would call a "keeper". As a matter of fact I almost feel like she's TOO good for me. I know that may sound weird but after I dropped her off last night I couldn't help feeling a little down about my own life and where I'm going. Now don't get me wrong I feel that I have a LOT of things going for me but have you ever met one of those people who just seem too perfect to be true?

If it seems to good to be true, it usually is.

This chick just seems to have everything going for her. Looks, brains, personality, the complete package. She doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, eats healthy all the time. She has plans to go to Med School. Not for the $$$ but because she has a deep desire to help people. She volunteers at the old folks home because she loves old people and thinks its good for the soul. She trains for triathalons because she loves to see how far she can push herself. It just goes on and on.

Yep, to good to be true. Ok - these girls are just not worth it. Picture your life 5 yrs down the road. This chick will not be drinking or smoking - and is probably the kind of chick who wouldn't be seen dead in a fast food place unless it has a "lite and fit" fair. She going to be driven and career orientated (read as never home) - helping the needy and less fortunate.

Where does that leave our DJ Slickster?

think about that.

I dated a girl that was just to clean (if you know what I mean) - and it was just annoying. I had this awesome Jacuzzi that was overlooking the valley - and there was nothing better than relaxing in it having a cigar and beer or two on a friday night with your girl. But this girl didn't drink, didn't smoke and didn't drive over 65 mph. She made me puke. Talk about a buzz kill.

pick wisely young DJ.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by iveyleeger
Fvck her in the azz. And try not to notice the dead cats under the bed. This girl sounds like a closet freak. Is she gonna be an astronaut and Mother Teresa, too?

Seriously, you are abandoning your DJ game again, and you already saw what happens when you do that. She is a "keeper"? Get a grip, man! Do her something nasty. She is wrapping your head around her pinky with all this BS about what a good girl she is. Come to think of it, she may be a female DJ. She sold a guy a bike for 7 grand. She's lining you up for a whole lot more. Just my 2 cents

Wow! Ivey you've got issues dude! Just kidding man.

I haven't abandoned my game at all. My head is on straight and thinking clearly.

Rebecca IS a keeper. Although I've only known her a short while my friends at the bike store have known for her for years. One of the guys has known her and her family since she was born.

From all accounts she is VERY innocent and probably TOO nice.

I think she is probably one of those nerdy, brainy, type girls who has just come into her own lookswise. Kind of like the ugly duckling turning into a swan.

Is she trying to play me? Maybe but I don't see it.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by drixsa
Slick-

I have almost nothing to add. You have done quite well. You are solid as can be.

The date with the law student, karen(?) didn't sit right with me. Why was the date over when you saw the co-workers?

At first i thought she was trying to set an appropriate image with her co-workers, but taking body shots is the polar opposite of that. Then i start to think a little about jealousy...Did she do this to get YOUR attension. Either way somethin is a little "fishy." Though in her requesting a summary of how the date went before you entered the bar showed clear interest in you, an interested girl doesn't just turn off a switch of interest, unless its INTENTIONAL. I probably think about these things too much but i just wanted to point a few things out.


I don't agree completely with iveyleeger (see below) but i do think that you need to worry more about the NICE ones. It can be a facade but the girl seems decent so far. If you decide not to pursue things with this girl b/c of her leaving, i think you should tell her the reason behind it (your leaving so i don't want to get involved). Now obviously this is not a RULE but it just makes it so much easier on everyone when you can be honest and forthcoming.

Hi Drix

Yes that date with Karen was weird and didn't sit right with me either. She's a real hot and cold type. Anyway it doesn't really matter as I found out her long term boyfriend is in town at the moment! That one surprised me. I had seen her a couple times since the date at work and she pretty much ignored me. I was thinking "Oh well" and then I found out about her BF and it all suddenly made sense. He'll be leaving soon so I heard. It will be interesting to see what happens. My bet is that she'll be good to go again. Either way she's "low quality sl*t" in my books now so I don't even think I'd f*ck her if she was begging me. Ok, well maybe if she begged.

As far as Rebecca goes I'm convinced she's a "nice" girl. I may be wrong but doubt it.

I agree with you completely. The nice ones have to be treated a bit differently. The seduction and attraction parts are pretty much the same. However I don't like breaking hearts especially when I can tell she's really for REAL.

I think I will take your advice and tell her how I feel about things and the fact that she is moving. That way when she comes back I'll possibly have another chance.

As always thanks for the good advice.

 

[drixsa]

this does explain why karen ended the date at the bar's door though.

i just cant figure out why she doesn't even come to even say hello.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by optimist prime
Slick, any chance we could get a pic of you, and some of the girls you are going after? WOuld be nice to put a face behind the story so to speak.

Nope! No digital camera here. Sorry.

If I did I would have no problem posting a pic of myself. However I would never post pics of the chicks I'm going after. Not my style.

They're mostly HB7, 8, 9's. I'm sure you can imagine.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by NewMan
If it seems to good to be true, it usually is.

Yep, to good to be true. Ok - these girls are just not worth it. Picture your life 5 yrs down the road. This chick will not be drinking or smoking - and is probably the kind of chick who wouldn't be seen dead in a fast food place unless it has a "lite and fit" fair. She going to be driven and career orientated (read as never home) - helping the needy and less fortunate.

Where does that leave our DJ Slickster?

think about that.

I dated a girl that was just too clean (if you know what I mean) - and it was just annoying. I had this awesome Jacuzzi that was overlooking the valley - and there was nothing better than relaxing in it having a cigar and beer or two on a friday night with your girl. But this girl didn't drink, didn't smoke and didn't drive over 65 mph. She made me puke. Talk about a buzz kill.

pick wisely young DJ.

Wise words Newman. I agree that chicks like this get boring fast. I always hold out hope that I can corrupt them a little bit though.

Thanks for the reply.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by drixsa
i just cant figure out why she doesn't even come to even say hello.

She probably feels bad for me like she may have given me false hopes or something silly like that. Maybe she thinks I'd be hurt. LOL!!!

Oh poor me!

 

[Slickster]

DJ NIGHTMARE!!!

Hey guys. I've had a crazy week and honestly I've been in a little mental and emotional turmoil over the whole thing.

Okay last weekend Rebecca had a friend coming into town to visit. So she invites myself and my buddy from the bike store to a BBQ at her house. Sounded great!

Just before I'm about to leave I get a call from Rebecca. She tells me that something "funny" just happened. Turns out her friend's sister was also coming to the BBQ and she was bringing some of her friends too. One of those friends just happened to be Corrine !!! Ouch. Corrine finds out while talking to Rebecca (getting directions) that this guy named Slick will be there. She tells Rebecca "Oh really he's my boyfriend!"

Now during my date with Rebecca I mentioned that I had been seeing other people and she was extremely cool about the situation. I told her that I was a little surprised to hear that Corrine figured I was her BF because we've only been dating. Rebecca was really cool about everything and said just come everything will be fine.

Corrine and I have never really discussed where we stood with each other. I know that she has been acquiring feelings for me lately and even though I didn't think it would happen, I too have some feelings for her. I don't know if its just the great sex messing with my head but I really do enjoy my time with her. Its just always fun and she's so easy going about life in general.

Anyhow the BBQ was quite awkward to say the least. I think everyone there knew that I had been seeing both of these girls except for Corrine. For most of the night I had one girl sitting to my left and the other to my right. I played everything very cool and calm and just hoped that Corrine wouldn't be all over me and trying to kiss etc. I payed them both equal attention and both of them acted quite interested in me.

After dinner it was getting dark and we were going out to the local strip bar of all things. Corrine however couldn't come due to work. This was good because I could get some time with Rebecca to hopefully smooth things over. As we were all leaving Corrine was wanting a kiss good bye but I was keeping my distance and she definitely knew something was up.

My buddy and I took these 7 chicks (minus Corrine) to the strippers and we had a great time. Afterwards they all wanted to go to a club to dance and we decided that we would pass. (The average age at this club is about 21 and my buddy and I weren't feeling comfortable about being there.)

The next day I get a call from Rebecca. She tells me she's dissappointed about the "Corrine thing" because she really feels like her and I would hit it off. I agree and tell her that I have to clear things up with Corrine.

Later in the day I discuss the situation with Corrine. I tell her that "I've just gotten out of a LTR and I'm taking the time to let go of the past and meet new people." (Thanks Francisco d'Anconia ) I tell her I've been dating Rebecca and a couple other women too. She doesn't like it at all but I tell her that I just assumed she was seeing other people too. She agrees that I've had no reason to think otherwise and that we should've had this conversation earlier.

So things were left like that with both chicks and I've been left to ponder what to do about this situation. If they didn't know each other then I would try to keep things going with both of them for as long as possible. However with them knowing about each other I'm kind of forced to make a decision about which one I want to continue seeing.

I've managed to see them both a couple of times this week without them knowing what I'm up to. There was a really close call one day after Corrine had stayed overnight and was going to the pool early that morning. I knew that Rebecca would also be at the pool that morning as she had told me the previous day. I had to coax Corrine to stay at my place while I went to work and "sleep in" for awhile. Luckily it worked and Corrine never went to the pool.

I figured that seeing them both would help me make up my mind however its not the case. I'm really stuck here guys. On one hand I have Rebecca who is the first girl in a long time who has made my heart skip a beat. She has everything going for her and seems like perfect LTR material. Problem being she's moving to the city soon. She told me that she hasn't started packing yet and she may be persuaded to stay a little longer if things go well. Like I predicted though she still wants to "try" to make things work. She'll be moving back in a year so that's somewhat promising. I don't know what it is but for some reason I feel drawn to her. I really don't want to get burned here either though so I'm being very cautious about how strongly I feel about her. I do have doubts about her "straight edge" lifestyle and whether we would fit together.

Corrine on the other hand started out being this wild and crazy party girl that I was just screwing for fun. Turns out that she's not as crazy as I first imagined. She's actually really cool. She's definitely a little wild but in a good way. The sex is like a freaking porn movie and we seem to have fun regardless what we are doing. My doubts about her are whether she's long term material. She's young and has some growing up to do before I'd consider getting too serious with her.

Now I know that only I can make this decision but I'd still like to ask you guys for your advice on this one. I've given a fair bit of background on both of these chicks and hopefully you may have some insight or some outside perspective.

Part of me says just forget both of them and just keep playing the field. That would be okay too but I just don't want to pass on something(s) that may be potentially great without thinking it through.

This is the first time in a long time that my head has been really messed up by a chick(s) and I'm not sure if I'm thinking totally clearly.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

[drixsa]

Slick-

I really like how you have played this so far. I am a big fan of honesty and you have done so, and it is in your benefit.

I don't see why you have to make a choice quite yet. Corrine doesn't seem to be asking you to do so (yet) and Rebbecca is leaving soon. Though she may delay the trip a little she will still be gone a year. I would continue to see her but not get too involved with her b/c that would complicate things too much.

If it was me in your shoes (and having to choose for the long term decision) I would go for Rebecca. She seems to be the deeper girl, towards personality, values, good qualites.

I think that telling Rebecca that shes still going to be away for a year regardless, so to get too serious would only be bad for the both of you. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't go out together, it just means that you shouldn't get too close emotionally.

She should be able to understand this.

On another note watch out now for both of them to be pulling you. My guess is that they both thought you were all theirs for the taking and now they've found out that they have competition and they aren't the only girls in your life. This would be a good thing if you were looking to get more serious, especially since them finding it out without you mentioning anything adds to the effect.

 

[picard]

how do you get a F buddy?

Hey slickster

How do you get a F buddy? Do women agree for such arrangement?

 

[iveyleeger]

Slick,

You take your women to strip clubs?

Your whole story is starting to sound like a redneck soap opera, what with the sexy bartender being friends with the straight-laced gal you've known since she was a child, you dating both of them, plus your ex from 15 years ago, etc. etc.

Now, when do you get knocked on the head, suffer amnesia, and end up naked in the pool with one of their moms?

LOL. Just kidding, man, but maybe consider moving to the city and getting a little fresh blood?

 

[Squid]

Hey Slick

Strange how small the world can seem at times! Dude, just keep riding it out for now, you don't need to make a decision just yet. However, it's been my experience that long distance relationships don't work out so well, so if Rebecca is leaving soon it may not be worth pursuing nomatter how cool she seems. A wise man once told me that nomatter how cool a chick seems, never forget that she's still just a chick.

Best of luck dude, I look forward to hearing the rest of this one

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by drixsa
I really like how you have played this so far. I am a big fan of honesty and you have done so, and it is in your benefit.

Hi again Drix.

Yes I'm very glad that I've been (mostly) honest with this situation. If I wasn't I'm sure both of them would've probably walked by now.

You are very right about the competition thing. Women are extremely competitive. I think it stems from insecurity. If it were the other way around and some chick was playing me and another guy, I would walk immediately.

Thanks.

 

[Slickster]

Re: how do you get a F buddy?

Originally posted by picard
Hey slickster

How do you get a F buddy? Do women agree for such arrangement?

Hey Picard.

You know I never really had to get them to agree to being F-Buddies. It was their idea.

Corrine just kind of happened. It was going good for awhile but it seems that inevitably feelings get involved and it all comes crashing down.

Rianna is still available but I haven't had the time.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by iveyleeger
Slick,

You take your women to strip clubs?

Your whole story is starting to sound like a redneck soap opera, what with the sexy bartender being friends with the straight-laced gal you've known since she was a child, you dating both of them, plus your ex from 15 years ago, etc. etc.

Now, when do you get knocked on the head, suffer amnesia, and end up naked in the pool with one of their moms?

LOL. Just kidding, man, but maybe consider moving to the city and getting a little fresh blood?

No Ivey I don't take my women to strip clubs. They take me. Seriously it was their idea I just went along for the entertainment.
And no they aren't sleazy chicks either. Quite the opposite. They are young and they weren't the only chicks in there either. I guess its just the place to be for young people around here. I don't know, I rarely go there.

Yes I know that this story has taken a turn for the worse. WAY too much drama for my liking. However like I said before, I'm telling this story as it happens with no punches pulled. I'm going to continue to tell it this way whether its good, bad, or ugly. This is real life man.

I don't care if you think I'm a redneck hick, a long haired hippie, or a Wall Street suit. I'm none of those things. I'm just a regular guy who has had some bad luck while trying to date/see multiple women. Yes its like a soap opera but its real and actually happening. If anything it may help others avoid the mistakes I've made. If so then I'm happy.

If you have any advice on how to successfully play multiple women that would be appreciated.

 

[Slickster]

....more drama

Just when I thought it couldn't get worse.....

First off thanks for all the advice guys. Drixsa, Newman, Squid, and even you Ivey.

I decided that I didn't need to make a decision as hastily as I originally figured I had to. My initial reaction was that Rebecca and Corrine had mutual friends so as soon as I showed any interest in one, then the other would know about it and be gone.

Turns out this wasn't the case and as Drixsa mentioned it would only make them want me more because of the competitive nature of women. Very true. Both chicks were calling me like crazy and wanting to hang out. Things were getting really hectic.

I tell you guys having more than one girl on the go is extremely difficult. Problems come up when you can't remember things you've done with each chick. Conversations you have with one get mixed up with things you've said to the other. Not to mention the fact that it is SO easy to mess up their names. Its very confusing, stressful, and over all a big pain in the arse. And that's excluding all the seemingly unavoidable drama that I've been so unlucky to encounter.

Anyway I hadn't made my decision about which chick I would let go and which I would pursue. I wanted to spend some more time with each before I made the call. I took Corrine canoeing at a nearby lake one night and we ate sushi on the bluffs. She modelled about 10 pairs of new panties she bought for me. We then had sex while the sun went down. Very nice. This girl is really amazing. A total giver. She would seemingly do anything to make me happy. As good as things were going though I still had questions about her in regards to the long term.

The next day I planned to take Rebecca out but I spent alot of the day with both women on my mind. My decision was flipping back and forth and I was truly at a crossroads. I was heading to my parents house for lunch that day and for some reason I decided to invite a female friend from work with me. My female friend hadn't met my parents before but I was truly amazed at how she "fit" in with my family almost instantly. It got me thinking about Corrine and Rebecca and how they would "fit" with my family.

Now this may sound silly to some but I really couldn't see Corrine fitting into my family. She's a great girl and has a heart of gold but she's a little rough around the edges. Rebecca on the other hand is like the girl next door type and I just know my family would love her. Once again I know some people might not understand this but I'm really tight with my parents and family. They are very important to me.

So thinking about the long term, my decision was for Rebecca. Both girls have their pro's and con's but all in all Rebecca has what it takes for an LTR. Whether things work out or not she is an absolutely amazing girl. I've been around the block enough to realize that chicks like her do not come around everyday. If there is even a slight chance for us to have a future then I have to give it a shot. Even if it seems like a very longshot with her moving and all. If anything she's restored my faith in regards to women. She's made my jaded mind realize that there actually are some truly great women out there. Who would've thunk it.

This wasn't an easy decision to make and I was certain that I'd be second guessing myself no matter what I decided.

Anyway come that night I was going to take Rebecca out for dinner. At the last minute another couple (mutual friends) decided to come along. Great. Just as we were arriving at the restaurant guess who walks out. Talk about being really f*cking unlucky!! Murphy's Law I guess.

Corrine sees us pulling up and is visibly upset. There is no where for me to go. A great big uncomfortable situation is right there and I'm pretty much stuck. Rebecca and the other couple give us space and head inside.

Corrine and I have an emotional talk right there on the corner and she basically says she has fallen for me and lays the ultimatum down. I tell her I'm sorry but can't be in a serious relationship right now and she walks away crying. Man did I feel bad. Breaking hearts sucks.

So I had chosen Rebecca anyway but I definitely didn't want things to end badly like that with Corrine. I guess it was inevitable. If it doesn't end badly then why would it end? Right?

Now Corrine may or may not be available if things with Rebecca don't work out. I may be able to get back in there in the future if I play things right. Things were going well with her and seemed to be getting better. She was easily the best sex I've ever had and Rebecca has some big shoes to fill in that department.

For some reason I just seem to feel an instant connection with Rebecca. Its something that I've never really felt before and against all my better judgement I feel I'm taking a real chance with her. I'll do my best to protect myself but I sense that I could really fall for her. Guys I feel really silly posting all this crap but like I said before I'm going to lay it all out on the line for everyone to see. Good, bad and ugly.

I guess for the first time in a LONG time I'm following my heart instead of my head. Am I making a big mistake? Am I going to get burned? Am I an AFC? I guess time will tell. All I know is that I've been emotionally "shut off" for what seems like forever. Alot of years anyway. Something in my gut tells me that Rebecca is the real deal and I guess I'm willing to take a risk with my heart to find out. What's the worst that could happen? I get my heart ripped out and get totally crushed. I've been down that road and back more than once.

More to come....

 

[drixsa]

Slick-

You are trusting your gut instinct and i am with it.

A couple things need to be noted though first:

I tell her I'm sorry but can't be in a serious relationship right now and she walks away crying.

Lets translate the manese: I can't be in a serious relationship with YOU.

When you talk of Rebecca you talk of future, the long-term, etc.

Corrine, as many good qualities as she has, does not add up. I am quite glad to see you are using your "big" head on this one. I think though that you should consider moving to a bigger city in Canada. Seriously, i have no idea how Rebecca and Corrine just found out about one another.

Now is the time to be careful with Rebecca. Now, that she has "won" the competition, she has to be feeling quite ****y. I am impressed with how she left you and Corrine alone (it shows more good things about her) but when a person feels ****y its never good especially for you. If it were me i'd play things cool with Rebecca, not distant but just don't give it away that you have STRONG feelings for her. Remember that the fun in the game is the chase and if she has you easily the mind will wonder(time is yet to prove that wrong).

I like you input about family. It does show though (another example) that you are thinking long term. Family is very important and i am glad to see that you are putting that category there when thinking long term.

My only question is this: What do you plan on doing for the year that Rebecca is gone? Long Term Relationship? Doubtful.

Now I believe that when you date someone exclusively you should do so becuase this is the person you want to be with. That same reason applies as to why you should not cheat on them.

So it does seem a little like Rebecca wants to have her cake and eat it too.

Well...Good luck and can't wait to here more.